Agree or Disagree?
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Cheiradawg
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"the better she responds to kindness." - this isn't clear you need to define it or elaborate more.
The same thing applies to ugly girls as well as hot ones.
It depends on whether she is an ugly girl with good parents or abusive parents. If nice parents then she will probably respond to kindness better, if she was abused she will not understand why you will not abuse her and lose interest.
It depends on whether she is an ugly girl with good parents or abusive parents. If nice parents then she will probably respond to kindness better, if she was abused she will not understand why you will not abuse her and lose interest.
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That is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
While it is true that people with good upbringing are nicer people as a whole than those with rought childhoods, that is only one of many many factors that have to be accounted for if one wishes to answer the original question.
If she was abused she will not understand why you will not abuse her
-this is a huge streatch and is true for a very small amount of people
and lose interest.
-you have lost everyone with a brain.
BobbDobbs
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Here's what I've found.
Many cuter girls have already been validated in their own minds by having cute guys hit on them. So they can look past cuteness more and accept you for other things.
Many uglier girls often have never been hit on by a cute guy, and don't want to get tangled up with non-cute guys. They crave that validation from a cute guy.
So if you are a not so cute guy like me, it doesn't necessarly pay to chase non-cute girls. You'll actually have better luck up the food chain. Better personalities too.
I certainly isn't true the us non-cuties have better personalities! Some of us, male and female, are profoundly bitter. That don't make a fun date.
Many cuter girls have already been validated in their own minds by having cute guys hit on them. So they can look past cuteness more and accept you for other things.
Many uglier girls often have never been hit on by a cute guy, and don't want to get tangled up with non-cute guys. They crave that validation from a cute guy.
So if you are a not so cute guy like me, it doesn't necessarly pay to chase non-cute girls. You'll actually have better luck up the food chain. Better personalities too.
I certainly isn't true the us non-cuties have better personalities! Some of us, male and female, are profoundly bitter. That don't make a fun date.
playfulboy
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From my experience, virtually all women will respond well to kindness no matter whether they're 1's or 10's.
You may find that a less attractive girl though will often be willing to supplicate herself to you if you treat her kindly because she wants to hold onto what she has because she has less choice. She'll essentially become an AFC.
A HB will repsond extremely well to kindness if they're older than 25 as they're getting sick of being fvcked around by jerks and have a better idea of what they want from a relationship.
Re:Abused Women - Admittedly, yes, women who've been abused often don't understand why you're being kind to them and they'll freak out - and often run away from an otherwise good relationship.
But I also know that those in my life have learnt that's what they want from now on and tend to stay in relationships that are good for them after that.
You may find that a less attractive girl though will often be willing to supplicate herself to you if you treat her kindly because she wants to hold onto what she has because she has less choice. She'll essentially become an AFC.
A HB will repsond extremely well to kindness if they're older than 25 as they're getting sick of being fvcked around by jerks and have a better idea of what they want from a relationship.
Re:Abused Women - Admittedly, yes, women who've been abused often don't understand why you're being kind to them and they'll freak out - and often run away from an otherwise good relationship.
But I also know that those in my life have learnt that's what they want from now on and tend to stay in relationships that are good for them after that.
I think everyone responds to GENUINE acts of kindness.
Genuine kindness is doing something for the sole benefit of someone else.
But usually to a girl, BEING KIND = WANTING THEM.
Girls, and hot ones especially, are used to guys doing nice things for them. Most guys simply want to get in the girl's panties.
Therefore, girls will always suspect an ulterior motive to any kind act from a guy towards them.
The hotter the girl, the less receptive she'll be, coz she used to guys hitting on her ALL THE TIME.
Genuine kindness is doing something for the sole benefit of someone else.
But usually to a girl, BEING KIND = WANTING THEM.
Girls, and hot ones especially, are used to guys doing nice things for them. Most guys simply want to get in the girl's panties.
Therefore, girls will always suspect an ulterior motive to any kind act from a guy towards them.
The hotter the girl, the less receptive she'll be, coz she used to guys hitting on her ALL THE TIME.