godofanxiety
Don Juan
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- Mar 27, 2007
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I need some advice from "older" men on this board. See, I'm constantly getting in and out of depression because I think the best part of my life is gone. I'm 26, got the first and only girlfriend at the end of 25, before that didn't experience anything at all, spent that time staring at the ceiling hoping my social phobia will magically disappear and I'll be able to talk to women without sh!tting myself.
Now, the point: I'm thinking that experience both emotional and physical gained during our youth, when hormones are raging, everything is new and exiting and a bit forbidden is infinitely more valuable than the experience gained later, when one is older and physically and emotionally not so excitable. I see there are men here ranging from 30 to 50, even more, and I would be very interested to hear their thoughts on this. Do you still enjoy sex and love, are you equally exited by it now as in the old days or not?
Also, from your point of view where do I stand at my age of 26? Will I be able to make up for my lost time and will my experiences be as valuable as if I was still 20?
Sorry if this seems like a silly question, I myself roll eyes when I hear about a 20 year old kid saying he's too old, but please share your thoughts, this is very important to me.
Now, the point: I'm thinking that experience both emotional and physical gained during our youth, when hormones are raging, everything is new and exiting and a bit forbidden is infinitely more valuable than the experience gained later, when one is older and physically and emotionally not so excitable. I see there are men here ranging from 30 to 50, even more, and I would be very interested to hear their thoughts on this. Do you still enjoy sex and love, are you equally exited by it now as in the old days or not?
Also, from your point of view where do I stand at my age of 26? Will I be able to make up for my lost time and will my experiences be as valuable as if I was still 20?
Sorry if this seems like a silly question, I myself roll eyes when I hear about a 20 year old kid saying he's too old, but please share your thoughts, this is very important to me.