1. Um, that is the point; you work on what you can control, and you can control whether or not you turn your body fat percentage into muscle.
Over 40% of folks in the United States are obese, and a man can raise his SMV significantly just by shedding some pounds and building muscle.
2. Looks are subjective. A dude who is a 3 to one woman, may be a 7 to another.
The point is; work on what you can control, improve thy self, and go out and cold approach enough women and you will find the ones that are willing to fuk with you or not.
Sure, that can happen...but is that more prevalent than a woman flaking because she was never feeling the guy like that in the first place.
I think not.
Do you, pimpin.
Even though we had many disagreements, I ,again, completely agree with you.
What's a "male 3"? Someone whose "underperforming" mentally, physically and financially. All of these things can be fixed. Yes, some women will love the combination of mediocre face, ripped body, some swag and cash and ofcourse a dose of CHARISMA.
Same goes for women, maybe even easier. If a woman loses weight she'll gain half a smv piont for every ten pounds she'll lose.
I agree with much of this. If we’re on a date, it’s obvious she’s physically attracted to me. Now that that’s out the way, if I’m feeling her personality she’s undoubtedly going to have a good time as I’m a good conversationalist. My point is I’M in control and I decide if I want her to come back around. If she doesn’t, I’ll assume she died. Because there’s no chance a woman who finds me physically attractive and has a good time on a date is NOT going to want to go out again. It just makes no sense.
Gentlemen, THIS is the right attitude to have when you deal with women.
When she agrees to see you, you can either 1. pretend like there are ten more obstacles in the way and you are "lucky"
2.or you can assume she is lucky and with that assume high interest. If you go by 1,you enter HER frame,this giving her plenty of ammunition to come up with a reason to eject you. Just assume the women you'll date have much ,MUCH more " 1 date to check it out " experience than you.
7 days? That is old old school, thats like a year in hot girl time.
If I had a good date with a girl, I would wait 24 hours maximum. Push as hard as possible to get sex as soon as possible.
Absolutely! Just got in a "beef" with a plate because i didn't respond for like 10 hours. Time for (hot )women is is like dog years vs human years.
To many young inexperienced men "good conversations" means they talk a lot with the women, which is wrong. You should never open your mouth more than 15-20% percent of the date.
Yes. Made that mistake too often, assuming the women fell for my personality. Untill I started experimenting with talking less. Same ,if not better results.
There's "talking to a girl " and there's PILLOW talking to a girl. Same conversation will have a completely different impact on her AFTER you dominated her in the bedroom. I'll make a thread about this later today. EDIT: made the thread:
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/pillow-talking-when-where-and-how.277758/
Unfortunately OP never answered my question. It would be insightful to learn what he thought was a "great conversation ". Learning experience for both him and the rest of us, so Op tell us more about that.
