Afraid of wanting sex

[SimplyTheBest]

Every guy wants to get laid including me as well but I am just somehow afraid of sex. I mean I am feeling guilty of somehow.....I just dont know how to explain that kind of funny feeling I am having now.

I mean each time when I pick-up women, I feel bad as all I can think of what women will think of me is a horny little b@stard who just wants to get laid. And I dont think I can get laid.

 

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and heres a classic symptom of our pussified, femanized society which sees male sexuality as some kind of predatory , ogreish thing to be feared or embarrassed about and should be kept hidden.
I say fvck that, enough with this guilt, beating yourself up and continually questioning your urges, the pathetic AFCs can keep this disgusting habit, its not for you, its not for ANY of us.
and in actuality coming across as sexless will only hinder you, you know this and even if she is a retard who cant handle a man being a MAN well good for you for finding out sooner than later.

of course dont come across as some horny loon, but showing her you are a sexual person is by no means wrong.

I feel bad as all I can think of what women will think of me is a horny little b@stard who just wants to get laid.

this is something you have to work on,not caring what she thinks, and here is what shes really thinking anyway: holy sh!t this guy knows what he wants and goes for it, im wet, i hope i dont have anything in my teeth.

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

Are you afraid of catching something? Sooner or later you have to live with the fact that having s3x can be a greay thing you just have to be careful!

Find yourself a nice clean wholesome girl and take each others viginity.

M.A.C.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Matt ala Casanova
Are you afraid of catching something? Sooner or later you have to live with the fact that having s3x can be a greay thing you just have to be careful!

Find yourself a nice clean wholesome girl and take each others viginity.

M.A.C.

LOL...I'm a little bit nervous about CATCHING something, yes, but I'm more nervous about giving her that one disease...what's it called again? Oh yeah! PREGNANCY!

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

Spermicidal condoms & the pull method works well!

M.A.C.

 

[NMMWCR]

Here is a hint:

Women like sex too. And when I say they like sex too, I mean AT LEAST as much as men. I'd say more. They have more nerve endings in their genitals and their entire bodies are errogenous zones. Women don't just like sex. Women ARE sex.

Hint two:

Women know your intentions. Always. Usually before even you know what you are after. The fact that you are worried they will think it's only sex for you tells me that you are looking for more. She already knows, guy. So relax.

Hint three:

If she gets the idea that don't want sex, you'll be lucky to get enough respect to considered a friend (without benefits). Try this, go ask a girl who is a friend, or a sister, etc if they would get involved with a guy if they got a vibe that he wouldn't ever want to have sex with them. The answer is universally no. Sex is part of the deal for them.

Hint four:

Which would you prefer? A woman who is indifferent to the idea of having sex with you or a woman who has a look in her eyes like she wants to have sweaty, screaming, animal sex with you? (That was rhetorical, the answer is the second one.) Dig this: women feel the same way. Seeing your desire for her winds her spring up just as much as seeing a woman's desire winds you up. Pook said it best, "Male lust turns women on." Stop trying to disguise your need. That is conterproductive.

Hint five:

Her opinion of you doesn't mean sh1t. The only person who has an opinion about you that counts is you. Learn to develop an internal locus of control.

 

[RIchardo]

NMMWCR, my friend , is a genius, listen to every word he said and smack yourself on the head until you remember it.

 

[chalk]

"Learn to develop an internal locus of control"

I like this sentance

 

[NewMan]

be a fvcking man.

Women like confident, dominant (but not controlling) men. They like it when the man knows what he wants and is not afraid to go after it. It shows a lot of confidence.

If your afraid of catching an STD - then I suggest you research the facts. It's highly unlikely that this will happen provided you make sure you take the necessary precautions.

Afraid of pregnancy - as someone mentioned - use a condom (with spermicide) and pull out before you blow your stack.

Look, everyone is nervous of s#x - especially the first few times. It natural to worry about your own performance - will you do the job, am I doing it right etc etc. The biggest piece of advice I can give you is to find someone that your comfortable with - that you connect with. S#x will come easily, and it's ok if your not upto the task the first couple of times - these things take time. Be patient.

 

[seulaxplaya]

as soon as you do it (if you havent already) you should enjoy it and u will want more of it. sex is great but also immoral if you are the religious type. dont be scared and dont look for sex. the less u look for it the more of it will come about

 

[SimplyTheBest]

That's part of the problem.....

Because of my inner wussiness, women sense that I am afraid of having sex. I just don't understand, is this the reason why some women think I am a virgin? In fact, I am.

Even when I tried to be confident, they can somehow sense that I am a guy who pretends not to be a virgin. I was wondering "Man, how the f#ck did they know that I am a virgin when I act as if I am a guy who gets laid every weekend?"

 

[ThugLove]

pregnecy? hahah nigga

there is a girl at work i want so bad

id go down on that and hit that no condom no nothing

what did eminem say?
oh ya
i dont care if this chick is my own mother id still **** her with no rubber and *** inside her and havea brother and a son at the same time and just say that it aint mine

 

[NMMWCR]

Re: That's part of the problem.....

Originally posted by SimplyTheBest
Because of my inner wussiness, women sense that I am afraid of having sex. I just don't understand, is this the reason why some women think I am a virgin? In fact, I am.

Even when I tried to be confident, they can somehow sense that I am a guy who pretends not to be a virgin. I was wondering "Man, how the f#ck did they know that I am a virgin when I act as if I am a guy who gets laid every weekend?"

See my hint#2. Women always know. Their bullsh1t detectors are set to high gain. So stop pretending to be anything you are not around women. Just be comfortable with where you are at. It's not about them anyway. It's about you.

What you have to do is stop giving a sh1t about your virginity. They'll see that too. Once it stops being a big deal to you, it stops being a big deal to them. Women always mirror the mental of state of the man.

Seriously, losing your virginity is no big deal. One hell of a let down after all the pressure you put on yourself, but no big deal.

Getting laid isn't a skill. It is an attitude.

 

[NMMWCR]

I think this says it better:

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=28956

A Pook classic...

 

[b's nuts]

a little pointer, when you are going to drop the v-card, get drunk first, she won't even know you are a virgin cuz you won't blow it in 30 seconds.

 

[Pancho]

I was sort of like this....when i was a virgin, I couldnt get any because women knew i was a virgin. Than I came to this site..and changed. What I would do is lie....lie, lie, lie...until i even convinced myself that I wasnt a virgin lol. I acted like I got laid everyday.

And then, not too long after, I got laid. Then i got laid again....and again.

By that time, i was more or less an animal and lost my fear of sex/being perceived as a virgin.

Im not saying that its what you should do...i just felt like i had so much info, that I was more than a virgin, and the girls bought it. You may not be such a good liar. However, it still stands that you wont get over it until you get laid. Find any old skank who wants it really bad, and fvck her like crazy. Then you wont be scared anymore...

Pancho

 

[Hot Ice]

Originally posted by b's nuts
a little pointer, when you are going to drop the v-card, get drunk first, she won't even know you are a virgin cuz you won't blow it in 30 seconds.

or, If a little too drunk, you don't get a proper boner...

 

[getafix]

Why do you not consider the fact that the women may just like the Horny little b@stard who just wants to get laid. I have known a lot of them who wanted just that.
I am sure you would want a horny little bytch who just wants to get laid, wouldn't you??

 

[Leykis]

Spermicidal condoms & the pull method works well!

The only way the pull out method works is if your pulling out of her mouth, her butt, or her driveway!