Afghanistan is a "complete sausage fest"

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Would you want to live there? You might find a wife, might have to give up the western lifestyle though. lol
It's really pathetic men are so desperate they will go to some 3rd world country to put their life at risk to find a woman because they would rather find someone who has the bar set lower than their level than work to raise their level.
 

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It's really pathetic men are so desperate they will go to some 3rd world country to put their life at risk to find a woman because they would rather find someone who has the bar set lower than their level than work to raise their level.
Yes, these passport bros should just "take a shower". :rolleyes:
 

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It's really pathetic men are so desperate they will go to some 3rd world country to put their life at risk to find a woman because they would rather find esomeone who has the bar set lower than their level than work to raise their level.
Lol, it doesn’t have to be Afghanistan. Im urging Men here to travel and expand their horizons. If you like western women with a little bit of flair- they could do what you did and travel to places like France, Switzerland, some parts of Canada etc…


Why fish in a crappy pond like The US? As a Man it is your job to evaluate your best options that you have. Now of course, you still gotta know game and be able to socialize like a gentleman…but this is what this site is for.


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Lol, it doesn’t have to be Afghanistan. Im urging Men here to travel and expand their horizons. If you like western women with a little bit of flair- they could do what you did and travel to places like France, Switzerland, some parts of Canada etc…


Why fish in a crappy pond like The US? As a Man it is your job to evaluate your best options that you have. Now of course, you still gotta know game and be able to socialize like a gentleman…but this is what this site is for.


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At the end of the day you can use whatever logic you want to try and convince yourself you aren't simply looking for women with lower standards so you don't have to work on improving yourself.
 

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At the end of the day you can use whatever logic you want to try and convince yourself you aren't simply looking for women with lower standards so you don't have to work on improving yourself.
LOL… Improving yourself? Tell that to guys like Tom Brady, Brad Pitt or any Chad you know that got screwed over by untraditional Western Women….lol I believe all women must have a sense of individuality in a relationship, but they must know their roles and be complementary to a Man’s needs.


You damn well know as a Man, you are attracted to a woman who exudes great femininity complementary to your masculine essence. Nothing more like shopping for one in a developing nation outside The US.


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LOL… Improving yourself? Tell that to guys like Tom Brady, Brad Pitt or any Chad you know that got screwed over by untraditional Western Women….lol I believe all women must have a sense of individuality in a relationship, but they must know their roles and be complementary to a Man’s needs.


You damn well know as a Man, you are attracted to a woman who exudes great femininity complementary to your masculine essence. Nothing more like shopping for one in a developing nation outside The US.


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As if you know everything that was going on in their relationships.

Loser mentality at work.
 

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As if you know everything that was going on in their relationships.

Loser mentality at work.
Loser mentality? Are you kidding me? You should treat a Quality relationship with getting a Quality woman like you are on offense in Basketball my friend, you always want to be taking The HIGH PERCENTAGE shots.

There's a 60 to 70% divorce rates here in the West and the last thing you want to be is trapped in a lifestyle prison cycle were you hardly see your kids yet you're financially and emotionally constrained to suicide like millions of Men. You're probably aware of this matter.

I get the notion that you probably believe that getting with a Woman from a developing nation, you see this as an unnatural servitude between a Man and a woman. Well my friend, it's not like that all, these women have their own identities and personalities and I've witnessed first hand some of my expat's relationships with their ladies. They seem all natural to me.

A relationship between a Man and woman is not 50-50 but ultimately complimentary. Both Partners must naturally know there roles in the relationship. And the best type of women seems to be women from 'Developing nations'.
 

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Loser mentality? Are you kidding me? You should treat a Quality relationship with getting a Quality woman like you are on offense in Basketball my friend, you always want to be taking The HIGH PERCENTAGE shots.

There's a 60 to 70% divorce rates here in the West and the last thing you want to be is trapped in a lifestyle prison cycle were you hardly see your kids yet you're financially and emotionally constrained to suicide like millions of Men. You're probably aware of this matter.

I get the notion that you probably believe that getting with a Woman from a developing nation, you see this as an unnatural servitude between a Man and a woman. Well my friend, it's not like that all, these women have their own identities and personalities and I've witnessed first hand some of my expat's relationships with their ladies. They seem all natural to me.

A relationship between a Man and woman is not 50-50 but ultimately complimentary. Both Partners must naturally know there roles in the relationship. And the best type of women seems to be women from 'Developing nations'.
At the end of the day once a woman no longer needs to worry about her survival and getting out of poverty where she will accept almost any man that comes along willing to provide that, then she will start looking for a man she is actually attracted to.

Never confuse what a woman will do to get out of a desperate situation for a woman being attracted to you.
 

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At the end of the day once a woman no longer needs to worry about her survival and getting out of poverty where she will accept almost any man that comes along willing to provide that, then she will start looking for a man she is actually attracted to.

Never confuse what a woman will do to get out of a desperate situation for a woman being attracted to you.
You seem like you are judging and stereotyping a woman because of her financial status. Some girls despite their hardships are decent people with great personalities who stays with their man and is loyal wherever country they maybe correct? The Ideal situation is you want to strive to be a cool guy and you want to be with a good, decent cool, feminine girl correct? Why strive to do that in a dirty pond like America.

Traits like Submissiveness, nourishment, nurturing and compassion are what we look for in a mate. And they're found in women everywhere But it is a WAY SMARTER move to try fishing in a developing nation or a country where a traditional mindset towards relationship is relished.
 

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It's really pathetic men are so desperate they will go to some 3rd world country to put their life at risk to find a woman because they would rather find someone who has the bar set lower than their level than work to raise their level.
I don’t get why some guys think being a “passport bro” is a smart move.

Think about it. Flying to a poorer country just to find a girlfriend or wife is basically asking to be taken advantage of. The moment a Western man with a stable income and citizenship shows up looking for love, he’s putting a target on his back for women who see him as nothing more than a financial opportunity. It’s not about romance, it’s about survival for them, and you’re the payday.

But the craziest part? It’s completely unnecessary. If you’re in the US, you’re already surrounded by plenty of women from struggling backgrounds who are just as eager to latch onto a financially stable man. Why go halfway across the world when you can find the same dynamic playing out in your own office? That quiet, hardworking cleaner from Mexico or Central America? She’s not just scrubbing floors. she’s got dreams of securing a better life, and if playing the part of the sweet, modest girl is what it takes, she’ll do it. She’s not after you, she’s after the stability you represent.

Chasing women abroad isn’t just risky; it’s redundant.
 

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You seem like you are judging and stereotyping a woman because of her financial status. Some girls despite their hardships are decent people with great personalities who stays with their man and is loyal wherever country they maybe correct? The Ideal situation is you want to strive to be a cool guy and you want to be with a good, decent cool, feminine girl correct? Why strive to do that in a dirty pond like America.

Traits like Submissiveness, nourishment, nurturing and compassion are what we look for in a mate. And they're found in women everywhere But it is a WAY SMARTER move to try fishing in a developing nation or a country where a traditional mindset towards relationship is relished.
More justification for having no ambition to work on yourself as a man, which is why those people are struggling in the US.

If you are unwilling to compete, just go to the lowest league possible to find someone you can compete with, don't bother trying to be your best.
 

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I don’t get why some guys think being a “passport bro” is a smart move.

Think about it. Flying to a poorer country just to find a girlfriend or wife is basically asking to be taken advantage of. The moment a Western man with a stable income and citizenship shows up looking for love, he’s putting a target on his back for women who see him as nothing more than a financial opportunity. It’s not about romance, it’s about survival for them, and you’re the payday.

But the craziest part? It’s completely unnecessary. If you’re in the US, you’re already surrounded by plenty of women from struggling backgrounds who are just as eager to latch onto a financially stable man. Why go halfway across the world when you can find the same dynamic playing out in your own office? That quiet, hardworking cleaner from Mexico or Central America? She’s not just scrubbing floors. she’s got dreams of securing a better life, and if playing the part of the sweet, modest girl is what it takes, she’ll do it. She’s not after you, she’s after the stability you represent.

Chasing women abroad isn’t just risky; it’s redundant.
Because their mentality is they would rather find women beneath their very low level then spend any amount of time, effort and hard work to raise their level.

Lack of ambition to improve in any aspect of their life.
 

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I don’t get why some guys think being a “passport bro” is a smart move.

Think about it. Flying to a poorer country just to find a girlfriend or wife is basically asking to be taken advantage of. The moment a Western man with a stable income and citizenship shows up looking for love, he’s putting a target on his back for women who see him as nothing more than a financial opportunity. It’s not about romance, it’s about survival for them, and you’re the payday.

But the craziest part? It’s completely unnecessary. If you’re in the US, you’re already surrounded by plenty of women from struggling backgrounds who are just as eager to latch onto a financially stable man. Why go halfway across the world when you can find the same dynamic playing out in your own office? That quiet, hardworking cleaner from Mexico or Central America? She’s not just scrubbing floors. she’s got dreams of securing a better life, and if playing the part of the sweet, modest girl is what it takes, she’ll do it. She’s not after you, she’s after the stability you represent.

Chasing women abroad isn’t just risky; it’s redundant.
I was thinking the same thing. The US is a huge, diverse country. I think when guys trash the stereotypical "American woman" they're thinking of the white, middle class, bytchy bougie girl with the vocal fry and the future Karen vibes. But you can find immigrants from everywhere in all parts of the US, and plenty of disadvantaged if you think wealth disparity is going to help you. Not just the coasts. There are Hmongs in Minnesota and Syrians in Michigan. We now know there are Haitians somewhere in Ohio, lol. So instead of pinning your hopes on a 2-week trip to Thailand, step out of your comfort zone at home. And yes keep working on yourself.
 

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Anything with --stan is of Iranian origin. So, this means, even the name of the country is foreign.

It's a strategic country. First invaded by Soviet Union because of fear of islamic fundamentalism spreading into other islamic regions of Soviet Union. Then that islamic fundamentalism itself committed terrorist acts against New York city and Washington D.C.. Then Afghanistan got invaded by United States, again fighting the islamic fundamentalism. Nowadays, it is left to practice its islamic fundamentalism.

Back in the day, 10k years ago or more, in the age of floods, when our ancestors lived in stone age, there was many religions. People worshipped volcanoes, trees, ocean. There was a problem back then, as people switched lifestyle from hunter gatherers to sedentary lifestyle, forming civilizations. You'd ask one guy to swear to God that he won't screw you and he'd do swear to God, but then turn around and screw you, citing that he sweared to your God, and not his God. That's the origin of one God religions. First the Jews, then Christians, then Muslims. Perhaps there was more such religions, but they got lost.

Anyway. Here is this lost country of Afghan with Iranian name in the middle of nowhere, in the land that can't produce much, and they got religious fundamentalism. Where a religion that was meant to make people honest, makes people kill.

Here they are.

Let's be honest. They have no future whatsoever. They just exist.

Why do they exists? They are a weapon of instability in the region. They check Pakistan which checks India, and they check Iran, and they check Tajikistan and Uzbekistan, which do check Russia. Frankly, from 1991 until this date today there are Russian forces in both countries. Afghanistan is like having NATO on the borders with Russia, but without having NATO.

It exists to produce and ship dope. Dope in turn kills lives, creates banditism, destabilizes economy.

United States has similar situation with Mexico and other central and Southern American countries.

What it is, that thing there and this thing here, it is a proxy war.
 
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