We sit around drinking coffee watching TV. There is a CB radio in the corner. I look at my watch...11 am. Damn, is anything going to happen today?
"es_mer8, come in"
I nearly jumped. I rushed to the radio like my life depended on it.
"This is es_mer8. Over"
"We just got new reports that we have seen a pack of them in a park 3 miles from you. Over"
"We're on our way. Over and out."
We all grab our camouflage gear and our binoculars and roll out to the park. We stop and slowly approach. We can see in the distance something so horrifying that it makes me want to quit my job and become a monk for it is too tough to bear.
We hide behind shrubs. Ahead of us is a man and a woman sitting on the park bench. Aww, how nice. Lets listen.
Man: "Oh my day is so hard. I lost my job promotion, my ex girlfriend put a restraining order on me and my dog got ran over."
I send in my favorite right hand man to videotape the conversation from an angle. For we cannot see the woman's face. Suddenly I hear a faint message from my right hand man.
"She has this look of boredom and disgust!"
After laughing for a bit, I look. More conversation ensued:
Man: "I think my boss is going to fire me. I'm just wondering if I should give him a watch or a gift certificate. Why must my life be hard?"
Even funnier, I see real men walk by and the woman on this date was actually checking the man out while the AFC was rambling about how his life was so hard. So sad yet so funny. We walk away. We encounter a HB 9.5. She is wearing a yellow with a blue flowered sundress reading a book. Suddenly we see a pack of obvious AFCs scoping her out. She looks. With the way she was looking, she was interested in a couple. She looks at them and smiles. They proceed to not only not oblige her smile, they looked away. I nearly puked. That was it for the park. I then put my two weeks notice in and continued to go to the park to talk to that HB 9.5.
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AFCs, poor little AFCs. Why are they so afraid to be men to women? I believe the real reason is that many of them are ultimately losers in life. Most of them lack even the basic fundamental social skills necessary in life. In the classroom, they were the ones too afraid to go to the teacher for help. In leadership roles, they turned them down to be imitators rather than originators.
AFCs are not afraid of rejection because their life is basically one rejection after another. It may not be direct but they know it: the disgusted looks from females, the taunting from successful males, etc. They are losers in life. Why? Because people often judge on first impressions. Its true.
There is a rule called the self-fulfilling prophecy.
If people are pinned as losers, they are much more likely to be losers than not. Most AFCs wind up being very depressed individuals because nobody thinks highly enough of them to justify feeling good. Most people that call a girl a slut often may not be a slut. However after such subjugation, she eventually believes it and lives up to her title.
The same works for AFCs. I believe nobody is really an AFC when born. They are made, not born. The reason was because there was no real masculine direction. Take me. My dad and I have poor relations, even today. However it was much worse. He never beat me but the emotional damage was extensive. I clung to my mom and that was where the damage was done. I had no brothers to make up for my father. I was on my own and raised and lived with females. I felt that my masculinity was squandered on feminine instincts that led to AFCdom.
Being an AFC is the easy route. Still is after months of DJing. I imagine my AFC instincts will always be there and I will always battle it. So far I say its a winning battle. Being the DJ seems so easy to do yet its so tough to do at first.
Why?
Because its going against our emotional nature. Emotional change IMO is much more difficult than physical change. People can adopt mindset but how many can be successful? Many aspiring DJs use moves that result in failures that cannot be explained why. Women, like animals, can sense fear. Hell, even we men can sense fear. Fear is the cripping emotion and the ultimate anti DJ weapon other than disgruntled feminazis.
AFCdom is easy but its a curse. Much like addiction. Yes, its easy for a crack addict to keep smoking it but that doesn't mean its the right thing to do.
"es_mer8, come in"
I nearly jumped. I rushed to the radio like my life depended on it.
"This is es_mer8. Over"
"We just got new reports that we have seen a pack of them in a park 3 miles from you. Over"
"We're on our way. Over and out."
We all grab our camouflage gear and our binoculars and roll out to the park. We stop and slowly approach. We can see in the distance something so horrifying that it makes me want to quit my job and become a monk for it is too tough to bear.
We hide behind shrubs. Ahead of us is a man and a woman sitting on the park bench. Aww, how nice. Lets listen.
Man: "Oh my day is so hard. I lost my job promotion, my ex girlfriend put a restraining order on me and my dog got ran over."
I send in my favorite right hand man to videotape the conversation from an angle. For we cannot see the woman's face. Suddenly I hear a faint message from my right hand man.
"She has this look of boredom and disgust!"
After laughing for a bit, I look. More conversation ensued:
Man: "I think my boss is going to fire me. I'm just wondering if I should give him a watch or a gift certificate. Why must my life be hard?"
Even funnier, I see real men walk by and the woman on this date was actually checking the man out while the AFC was rambling about how his life was so hard. So sad yet so funny. We walk away. We encounter a HB 9.5. She is wearing a yellow with a blue flowered sundress reading a book. Suddenly we see a pack of obvious AFCs scoping her out. She looks. With the way she was looking, she was interested in a couple. She looks at them and smiles. They proceed to not only not oblige her smile, they looked away. I nearly puked. That was it for the park. I then put my two weeks notice in and continued to go to the park to talk to that HB 9.5.
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AFCs, poor little AFCs. Why are they so afraid to be men to women? I believe the real reason is that many of them are ultimately losers in life. Most of them lack even the basic fundamental social skills necessary in life. In the classroom, they were the ones too afraid to go to the teacher for help. In leadership roles, they turned them down to be imitators rather than originators.
AFCs are not afraid of rejection because their life is basically one rejection after another. It may not be direct but they know it: the disgusted looks from females, the taunting from successful males, etc. They are losers in life. Why? Because people often judge on first impressions. Its true.
There is a rule called the self-fulfilling prophecy.
If people are pinned as losers, they are much more likely to be losers than not. Most AFCs wind up being very depressed individuals because nobody thinks highly enough of them to justify feeling good. Most people that call a girl a slut often may not be a slut. However after such subjugation, she eventually believes it and lives up to her title.
The same works for AFCs. I believe nobody is really an AFC when born. They are made, not born. The reason was because there was no real masculine direction. Take me. My dad and I have poor relations, even today. However it was much worse. He never beat me but the emotional damage was extensive. I clung to my mom and that was where the damage was done. I had no brothers to make up for my father. I was on my own and raised and lived with females. I felt that my masculinity was squandered on feminine instincts that led to AFCdom.
Being an AFC is the easy route. Still is after months of DJing. I imagine my AFC instincts will always be there and I will always battle it. So far I say its a winning battle. Being the DJ seems so easy to do yet its so tough to do at first.
Why?
Because its going against our emotional nature. Emotional change IMO is much more difficult than physical change. People can adopt mindset but how many can be successful? Many aspiring DJs use moves that result in failures that cannot be explained why. Women, like animals, can sense fear. Hell, even we men can sense fear. Fear is the cripping emotion and the ultimate anti DJ weapon other than disgruntled feminazis.
AFCdom is easy but its a curse. Much like addiction. Yes, its easy for a crack addict to keep smoking it but that doesn't mean its the right thing to do.
