Why is Suspens nosense posting this, he is a AFC and a pure beta this as been proven in recent post on here.
TO be honest no you can change, honestly you can because i was once seeking approval from others and more, and i did change, i have become my own person.
You need to use frustration and be very tired of how you live your life, and use this has motivation to change.
Like i always said its possible to change, but you need to really put in the time and investment, and 99.9% are to lazy and weak to make that change to put in the time. So they spend there lives miserable and weak.