tomsawyer9173
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Just a little background on myself: I'm a college student and I've generally been pretty beta my whole life. Spent high school unequivocally as an AFC. That being said, I'm good looking, in great shape, and fairly accomplished. I go to a top university in the US. My whole life I get the script of "wow you'll be perfect for soemone womeday".
So recently I say **** it, I'm changing. (I've read a good bit on the Rational Male just fyi) So the other night I am at a party, lots of decent girls but one obviously above the rest (9/10). Now I'll describe what strategy i used and implore anyone to critique any aspect of my approach:
Didnt give her any attention whatsoever until we were near each other when I started to act ****y funny. Lot of teasing, no serious conversation whatsoever. I made a decent amount of stuff up when talking with her (mainly strange things that wouldnt necessarily attract any women - ie 'i only take ubers", ' ive been couch surfing for 2 months'.)
After a few hours the party's died down only me her and another dude left. The other dude, a good mate of mine, clearly wanted her too and was constantly pulling her over so she could sit near him on the couch. I continued ****y funny and deliberately tried to make space between myself and her. This just made her want to be closer so eventually i transitioned into the "i went to massage school for 10 days once let me try it on you". Within minutes we're making out and going back to her place (nearby apartment).
We're over there and making headway, clothes off when she asks me "so how much experience do you have". (I'd only had sex 3 other times before) I'll be honest, i stumbled a little bit and generally evaded the question. She kept pressing so I actually stopped her and said something to the extent "im not gonna deal with this I can go at any moment". That shut her up and we had sex soon after.
I hung around for another 45 mins with her before saying I had to go (this was about 6:30am). I didnt ask for her number, didnt say anything that would imply I would be seeing her again, we kissed and I left. It's been two days and I havent made any contact with her whatsoever (then again i never got her number). But no fb friending or snapchatting (im not even checking her stories).
Now, please tear me to shreds. What could I have done differently? Should I have gotten a number? What could I have done to make her really want to connect with me again? I'm new to all this. Thanks
So recently I say **** it, I'm changing. (I've read a good bit on the Rational Male just fyi) So the other night I am at a party, lots of decent girls but one obviously above the rest (9/10). Now I'll describe what strategy i used and implore anyone to critique any aspect of my approach:
Didnt give her any attention whatsoever until we were near each other when I started to act ****y funny. Lot of teasing, no serious conversation whatsoever. I made a decent amount of stuff up when talking with her (mainly strange things that wouldnt necessarily attract any women - ie 'i only take ubers", ' ive been couch surfing for 2 months'.)
After a few hours the party's died down only me her and another dude left. The other dude, a good mate of mine, clearly wanted her too and was constantly pulling her over so she could sit near him on the couch. I continued ****y funny and deliberately tried to make space between myself and her. This just made her want to be closer so eventually i transitioned into the "i went to massage school for 10 days once let me try it on you". Within minutes we're making out and going back to her place (nearby apartment).
We're over there and making headway, clothes off when she asks me "so how much experience do you have". (I'd only had sex 3 other times before) I'll be honest, i stumbled a little bit and generally evaded the question. She kept pressing so I actually stopped her and said something to the extent "im not gonna deal with this I can go at any moment". That shut her up and we had sex soon after.
I hung around for another 45 mins with her before saying I had to go (this was about 6:30am). I didnt ask for her number, didnt say anything that would imply I would be seeing her again, we kissed and I left. It's been two days and I havent made any contact with her whatsoever (then again i never got her number). But no fb friending or snapchatting (im not even checking her stories).
Now, please tear me to shreds. What could I have done differently? Should I have gotten a number? What could I have done to make her really want to connect with me again? I'm new to all this. Thanks
