afc memories

[redspicyflag]

I cringe every time i reminisce about my afc years. Falling to womens feet, no confidence, rejected and it hurt so much. But i am so grateful to find a site like this. I can't imagine how much more of an afc i would have been without this site.

 

[Ace of Flames]

Uh....... you must be a lurker or something. Am I right?

You've only got 2 posts. That usually means you've barely found this place. How can one have memories of their afc years if they're still in them, I wonder?

 

[DevilFish]

Maybe he has read all the articles on this site years ago and just didn't post, possible..
Look at me, only a couple of posts, I've been on this site since 2000, back then I posted, but I can't even remember my screen name I had, that's why I reregistered

 

[LuciferSam]

Came across the site in November. I read up on all the useful stuff, went out there, applied it and I have never regretted it. I have just registered today!

I can say I HATE the way I was in the sense that I was the guy who would bend over backwards for women hoping they'd somehow give me a chance. haha.
...It never happened. But I am finally coming into my own and this site, plus others, have really made me feel so much better than I used to. I dig 'The Matrix' analogy coz that is pretty much how it was.
Man my soul weeps at what i used to be lol

Ofcourse I will always remember rejection and low confidence but you must NEVER let it burn you up.

 

[redspicyflag]

yeah, i found this site in feb. but i had so many afc memories before then.

 

[Rebound Material]

I suppose it's kind of like being freed from The Matrix, and now we know the truth. Although we're not quite The One just yet, we're slowly discovering that rules can be bent and broken and things aren't quite as we always thought they were. You look back to your days in 'The Matrix' and realise it was all an illusion.

I was thinking the same exact analogy about 'The Matrix' and how it relates to the truth of things. Males are constantly blinded today by society and media and all of its 'feminizing guys' BS. I try preaching to some of my AFC friends about what I've learned about 'the process' and that being nice just isnt gonna cut it. But of course like the matrix, some just don't want to see the truth and what it has to offer and would rather stay content(or at least they think they are) in what they already have...Sadly I pitty them.