afc mates.

[felony]

Surely you guys have been in similar situations.
You and perhaps one other guy are the only dj's (or aspiring dj's) in your group of mates.

You have talked about djism with them but they simply don't grasp the concept or are willing to accept it. This usually follows with light joking about you being a playa etc. The issue passes and guys go on to being guys.

But then they cramp your style! you wanna get the girl's number while you are all sitting having lunch but these guys are ****blocking like heLL totally unintentionally. You often have to hear sad afc stories. You have told them your point of view and even shown some social evidence with the chicks you've banged or STR/ONS etc but still they carry on in their afc ways.

any move you make anywhere causes unfavourable responses from your mates about not being afc enough for them!

THese are my bros, they are top blokes except when it comes to the whole chicks and guys thing. This is hardly reason to no longer be mates with them! I've even referred some of them to this site but they think it's silly!

What do you guys do to deal with these guys? Or do you just chill, know that they are afc and somehow keep the dj mindset?
THoughts and experiences would be appreciated cos surely you guys have been in this situation before or still are... cos you can't be solo'ing all the time, nor be friends with just dj's.

felony.

 

[trajhenkhet]

Well in my crew, quite a few are afc with the exception of myself and two others (both, however, have never gone to this site to improve game). To date I've never had a problem with them when I approached ladies, though the arguments about how one goes about asking for numbers and such is pretty entertaining. Generally they view being DJ as being manipulative. You can't convince them their ways are bad. Only enough bad ladies can do that unfortunately. Nature makes one pay dearly when one goes against her way. Just thank whatever higher power you worship (if you have one) that you see the truth. Because I know a few afc's that are getting hitched and I can say that things are not going to be pleasent for them. We all pay for our ignorance no matter how we hide

 

[mb121]

I have a friend who refuses to accept DJism. He just WONT accept it is the way to getting girls...

Sad really.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

You have to realize that 98% of the population are AFCs and you are not going to change them no matter how hard you try. Don't even bother trying to help them out, because they won't accept what you have to say. Just accept them as they are and be humoured by their AFC mistakes.

 

[felony]

yeah i guess i'm simply lucky to be armed with the knowledge... better than being oblivious thats for sure

thanks for your replys.

felony.

 

[Kwah]

I'm the only DJ in my group of friends, and I'm also pretty much the only single male in my group of friends They all refer to me as a womanizer and I just laugh it off. Odd part is me and my brother are both so similar about that it isnt funny. WE can pick up any woman, its just finding one worth keeping is so damn difficult.

But yeah, I run into the ****block with frightening regualarity. Im slowly converting a couple of my friends in DJ children, but its going slowly.