afc days-chick friend

[felony]

guys i'm still busy reading and practicing and i don't think this cycle will ever end haha, but i've come across a situation seldom mentioned.

That is the afc transition to rAFC or dj - and the girls you used to know in your afc days.

I read a small post in the bible about putting all past afc girls out of you mind for they will never be ok for you since they know of your past afc ways etc.- thats all cool wit me. bang!, so many girls forgotten, so many new chicks to meet

But now, a girl from my afc days calls me up saying i haven't heard from you in ages, why don't you ever call ?

I had put this girl outta my head, and yes i wouldn't mind banging her at all (definate HB) i simply don't give a toss if i don't.

What are the ways to go about this situation? two main points i would like 'how' advice are :
1) what to say when she says you never call.
2) best way to get into this girls pants.

take it easy,
felony.

 

[georgie24]

these are the best lil homie! although i was an afc then switched mid relationship to an almost elite dj (mentally) you can do anything you want with these females, cause remeber you have the upperhand bro. let them sleep on you then you hit them with a mental or emotional owie! or just toy with them to your desire


muhahhamuhaha.

 

[felony]

haha yeah i guess there is that option.

guys, so many views now and none of you are offering me alternative ideas. Drop me a message on your take of this situation. At my age, as a young mature adult you can imagine i have heaps of AFC friendships with chicks from high school. So this situation isn't that uncommon for most of us who once were afc's, i would think.

adios amigos.
felony.

 

[georgie24]

you want them to know your a dj now right?

 

[felony]

actually, i'm not sure about that.

there isn't much discussion that i'm aware of about whether or not it is best to let girls know you are a dj or not.

ok, so now there are 3 questions i would like to have people's thoughts on.

1) Any past chick calls up and says why don't you call anymore.
- options to dealing with this, or even just smart c&f responses.

2) How to simply bang this girl i mentioned in the first post

3) Advantages & Disadvantages letting girls know you are a DJ. Or is it best never mention it or make it known ur a dj?

peace to the order
felony.

 

[georgie24]

3) Advantages & Disadvantages letting girls know you are a DJ. Or is it best never mention it or make it known ur a dj?

peace to the order
felony. [/B]

THIS IS THE BEST ONE

let them figure it out in steps by the time they do figure it out you will be aughung your ass off.

you sound like you want some sort of revenge right?

 

[felony]

hmm i keep finding out that dj'ing is all about subtle movements and not blatantly saying anything. it's pretty cool, eventually your actions speak for themselves

i don't really want revenge, rather i get angry with myself to see how i was in the past, looking back on things and realising how totally pathetic certain stuff was. But it's all good now, cos i look back and have a laugh and think how far i've come to where i am now. (and still have much further to travel.)

The question still remains, when the chick calls up trying to play some stupid game most likely about why u never call. I'm leaning towards the idea that i should simply say, that other girls are digging me for me (sexually)- and i don't have time for "female friends"

regards,
felony.

 

[Duff]

There are no disadvantages of being known as a DJ my friend, well not to girls maybe the danger of getting yo ass kicked by nig mofo-ing BF's. haha

 

[felony]

haha duff good point

actually come to think of it, you are basically showing girls you are a player without actually ever saying it. This is evident from your social proof, the way you chat to heaps of girls etc.

heh, no worries on number 3. lol.

but the main point still remains, that afc chick from old days calls you up! why don't you call? do u treat all your friends like this? we never get to meet. all that shyt.

- what do u guys say to that?
at first i thought, i should say she should organise something, or call me more often, not me always calling her, organising outings. but then after reading dj stuff it should be the guy taking his pick doin what he wants etc. cool by the same token, i don't want to appear to be desperate for her company that i once had. you know what i mean?

f.
it's my charm that's illegal.

 

[killerasp]

felony, i can relate to your situation 100%.

this girl i dated last summer came back to me yesterday. i was afc like you couldnt believe. anyhow, she calls me up for some computer help. i didnt pick up and she left a msg. i went to visit a friend and i coincidently saw her. something told me i was gonna see her yesterday so i was ready for her. she said hi and tole me she called me for some computer help. i bashed her on this. i told her whats up with this. 6 months no call? now you call me for computer help? she looked stunned. then i said: "well, now i charge for my computer help. but for you ill do a discount. act now 9.99. a discount of 1cent." she laughed at this and said she will call me later. i said "sure. i know you will".

she later called me on my apt phone. i dont know how she got the number b/c i just moved into it. only a couple of people know the number. i acted suprised when she called and asked if she was turning into a stalker. she laughed at the comment.

later i met up with her at her dorm. i didnt get a good look at her when i saw her earlier in the day. i didnt realize how chubby she got over the last 6 months. but for me, i lost mad weight and looked pretty buff in the last 12 months.

im basiically looking for a fukk buddy from her. i told her i was gonna out for dinner later in the week and asked if she wanted to join me to catch up on old times. she was interested but she was going home. i told her that ill ask her some later time.

i applied massive c&f when i saw her. at one time she was more interested in the tv rather than the company that was over at the time. i made fun of her wanting to watch so much tv rather than talk with the rest of us. her and her friends were down right laughing their butt off.

ill see how i do when she comes to the gym with me later today.

 

[felony]

Yeah i'd be interested in knowing how you went.

The question still remains, i think i might have to make a new post cos it's really starting to occur often to me now that i'm no longer afc lol.

What to do/say when girls say you never call? (and its true you don't obviously.)
this applies to chicks from my afc days.
and also to a few girls that i see around, who have high IL in me, but i simply don't have time, or the desire to call them.

This is all starting to back fire on me a bit, because they spread their stupid little rumours to their stupid little friends about me being mean and never calling. (how pathetic).

I've thought about simply saying, i've been busy with other girls

what's the best way to handle this situation guys?

felony.

 

[ApocalypseCow]

Felony,

We can't tell you the best way to handle this situation because you haven't told us what you WANT from the situation.

Do you want to get the girls in the sack? Well, if her IL is so high that she's calling you, this is a pretty trivial task.

Do you want revenge? Nothing will piss a girl off more than being ignored and seeing you go out with other women.

 

[trevjr]

Give them a dose of their own medicine. Tell them you called and they were not home(you didn't leave a message because you wanted to talk to them). Tell them you were busy with other stuff and if they buy you dinner you will be happy to tell them all about it.
Remember that you want to leave the impression that you are busy. Be ambiguous. I look on women that I have no interest in as practice women. You can try your stuff on them without fear of rejection because you have already rejected them. You might even get them in the sack.

 

[felony]

thanks for the advice guys.

it's good to know i have so many options and all i have to do is decide which way path i'd like to take with this girl.

ciao

f.