Advise?

[Justaguy]

I got hooked up with this girl through an old family friend.
We've never met face to face, I have no idea what she looks like yet.
We've emailed each other for three days back and forth... small talk. She likes my facetious humor.

I called her on day 2 after the email thing got to dumb for me. I told her to call me after she got out of work and we'd go out for drinks. She agreed. I gave her my phone number.

Next day she didn't call so I called her, no answer.
I left her a message.

Shes been emailing me today telling me she went home to take a nap and what a flake she feels like

I told her it's no big deal.

Her email:you think that I am the biggest flake in the world? I
would.....

I told her that I was no pushover and I don't like flakes.

still waiting for a response.........


Input fellas?

 

[tmpgstx]

Simple, demand concessions. Like NK did to the US - be firm and get her groveling. It'll work.

 

[Justaguy]

Thanks,
Concessions? what do you mean?

 

[tmpgstx]

Concessions basically means counter offers. In other words, if you ignore enough right now and use her guilt against her (lol .. not in a bad way, but in a good way, right?), she will ask you to do something and try making it up to you. It's what women do to guys all the time. If you turn it around, will drive her crazy.

 

[blueangel83]

Response from a female:

She was apprehensive of what you might think of her and wasn't sure if it was the right time to meet. She didn't know what to say or couldn't find an excuse that's why she didn't answer your call. Lol you told her that you don't like flakes, she is now embarassed and a little annoyed at you but mostly her for not calling you in the first place.

Call and leave her a message (if she doesn't pick up) letting her know to reschedule for another meet.

Good luck!


Meg

 

[blueangel83]

Don't listent to tmpgstx, if you do this she will loose interest and find someone else who will pursue her. His method will not work since the girl has never met you.

 

[diablo]

My advice would be to get pictures of the person first and foremost if you insist on using the internet to talk to women.