Advice Wanted - 2nd Date

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Hey guys, i've been reading material here & from David D for a little while now & i love it, it's definately changed my opinions on approaching women, my success with women, happiness, confidence, etc.... I'm only a newbie and am always striving to improve and my recent form in the last month or so has been good, met quite a few girls who have come up to me in clubs, etc...

Recently i had a girl who came up to me in a club & asked where i'm from (I'm from the UK travelling around Australia and am now in Perth for 3-4 months) and i asked her to guess - she wandered off after some girl told her i was english and so i just carried on dancing, later she came up again and we went off somewhere a little quieter to talk. This girl is belgian (half-tunisian - i love dark haired/dark girls) small and attractive (8-8.5) & is here to learn english (her english is quite good though not easy to understand!) so we were chatting & i was busting on her about her thighs being muscly as she used to do ballet, etc.. and i walked her home, kissed, etc...

Anyway took her for coffee 4 days later and kept it short & sweet around 1-2hrs, went ok (some humour she didn't get - language & different country barrier) though a few things i still know i can improve on, walked her home & we kissed again. It was difficult to hold hands as she wasn't walking in a way that i could grab her hand & start c/f, and in the coffee house as well. So i called her up the next week and said i was free Thurs night, she says she's meeting a friend so can't so i tell her to call me fri. I get a text Thurs day saying her friend is working and she's now free - i said i was pretty busy but we could meet at 8 (think i messed up - should have said other plans right?). I bumped into her in the Hostel i stay in and she was a little stand offish (may be shyness or lack of attraction?) and was like "what you doing tonight" I was like "Did you get my text" and she was like "Yeh, i'm going to have dinner now" so i thought sod it and later cancelled saying i had too much on.

Now here's my dilemna, when i cancelled i said "we should meet up another time" she was like "ok, no worries" now i've seen her a few times since & we've spoke, got on ok, last night she was going out - looked hot & sheme inside from her friends to talk to me in front of everyone whilst soccer was on (World Cup), but it's been over a week now & am i playing it too cool and should i arrange another date and see how it goes? I really think she's hot but i'm not sure if i should have called soon after? On one occasion we spoke i told her to call me but i'm not sure if she heard/listened to me?

Oh and in the meantime, had some hammered Japenese chick hit on me during England match last week, got number and hoping a date will emerge, plus there's the weekend coming up!
 

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Shezz said:
Simple. Call her up and tell her your taking her Bowling or on some other ACTION orientated date.

Good Luck

Sarge On...

Thanks for the advice bro, called her up last week and was like Let's meet up Monday and she asked where and i said bowling which she responded she was crap at - I told her that's even better meet you Xpm. We met up went bowling and had some fun - some kino, she was enjoying herself but not much more as yet, went to a bar and had some drinks - good chat, she told me i'm always cheeky and teasing her, we left the bar and got hand holding and went to a club. In there she was all over me it was ridiculous! Then she starts saying "Do you like me?" and says that she hates games and that with me she's not sure if we bumped into each other tommorow how i'd be - would i kiss her, etc... It was great haha! I managed to keep a straight face and didn't answer if i liked her, that she'd just have to wait & see. Then she got into a huff as she'd had a bad day and told me i was being too mean & joking too much. She'd had a genuinely stressful day and wasn't making it up but i didn't apologise and i remembered earlier in the night she'd told me how she used to be a stress head and how now she's happy, relaxed, etc... so i said to her "What did you tell me earlier about yourself, etc..." and told that was earlier and now she's having a great time with me, she was all smiles again and we carried on dancing, flirting, etc...

I'm still learning but i'm getting better & most importantly i'm having fun
 

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Good play bro.
Remember you can say nice things to a girl (ie that you like her) so long as you keep the frame of being cool. If you're uncertain about that , then you can always make a pointof alternating negging with niceness which stops you blowing her out by just negging too much, (which would annoy me if I were a hot girl with big titties and a tight round ass).
 

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Which I'm not.
 

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Thank G*d.
 
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