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Pulled 2nite after a while at a club. Made some of the biggest AFC mistakes of my life. First of all, i didn't even try fingering the burd, not only this i didn't ask her back to my flat.

There were more than 3 serious opportunities tonight, but i chose the last one (when outside the club). After pulling her, she gave me...guess what... a fcking wrong number

The other burds were older (both 21) and i had them kinoing me and i was kinoing them all nite, but i waited to the end to make my fcking mind up. Chose the wrong fcking girl. What the fvck am i playing at??? I couldn't kiss them in them in the club - because i was too ashamed (or somethign like that). Basically the only line i ever use to pull at the end of a nite is "what about a goodnite kiss?" This has worked 100% so far for getting a snog, but not for any more than a snog ( probably me not trying to make it happen)

Furthermore, and this REALLY PISSES ME OFF: i was fvcking trying to make my flatm8 believe that i pulled her. HOW FVCKING AFC IS THIS? i care too much about his opinion (i see him as the alpha wolf)

Basically, i need help on a chatup line for pulling while dancing - or do you just go in for the kiss whenever it seems right? and serious help overcoming the lameazz opinion of my flatm8



My rant's over. Sorry about this, i'm still a little pissed, 4 in the morning here. plz give me some pointers
 
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Why are you trying to conquer these girls in 1 hour - get their number and tell them you'll 'hook up' next week!!
 

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I use the dancefloor as a place to demonstrate value that I know how to dance, but I'll eventually isolate the girl off of the dancefloor so that we can talk. If the girl is really on, then I'll go for the kiss on the dancefloor, but unless she's really drunk or she's super attracted to you, it's best to isolate before the pull.

Oftentimes, I'll go to danceclubs, meet girls on or off the dancefloor, and if I demonstrated a lot of value (but not enough for an immediate close), then I'll say that I'm hungry and get a bite to eat with them at a restaurant or say that I'm hungry and ask what's in their refrigerator...

Me: I'm soooo hungry. Ahh. If you take me home with you, will you feed me?
Girl: Yes (or No).
Me: Ok. Cool. Well, what's in your refrigerator?
Girl: I have X, Y, Z.
Me: Mmmmmm, baby. That sounds good. That will do. Let's go.
 

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Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Why are you trying to conquer these girls in 1 hour - get their number and tell them you'll 'hook up' next week!!
Because it never works out when i hook up with them another time, because my frame of mind is different and the circumstances are different (for instance, last nite i had sh!tloads of social proof and it was st paddy's day) . i think that it's the alcohol (only 4pints mind u) and if i see her sober, i won't be as fun, ****y etc. (i am gradually becoming ****ier when i'm sober)

well, i got one of the burd's numbers (nay bother), but i reckon the only way i'm going to see her is in another club later on after i've had a few drinks in me

what i really want to know is: how do u achieve a consistent personality, no matter the circumstances?
 
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When you go out to a club quit being a fake and let your true self been seen by the women. If they give you their number then you know they like you and not your false persona!!

Are you to only meet / see girls in clubs for the rest of your life, and not outdoors?:rolleyes:
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's self confidence.

You don't have any - you need to drink to get inot the Zone.

There's a lot of guys like that.....

I used to need to drink to get my "Game" on.

Now I can with or without drinking.

It's a state of mind that will come with experience and time.

Don't try and rush this process. Learn fro experience.

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The other burds were older (both 21) and i had them kinoing me and i was kinoing them all nite, but i waited to the end to make my fcking mind up. Chose the wrong fcking girl. What the fvck am i playing at??? I couldn't kiss them in them in the club - because i was too ashamed (or somethign like that). Basically the only line i ever use to pull at the end of a nite is "what about a goodnite kiss?" This has worked 100% so far for getting a snog, but not for any more than a snog ( probably me not trying to make it happen)
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Taking you rtime picking the girl is fine - you don't want to limit your options.

But don't wait to the end of the night to seal the deal - that looks desperate.

Select the girl you want then go for it. No crappy lines. Dance with her - hang with her - kino her. Neg hit's etc. etc.

Don't be afraid to kiss her - that is AFC. Who you worried about?

If you want her to go back to your place invite her. Be CONFIDENT.

"Hey, I live around the corner - wanna share a taxi/walk - and I'll make you the best Bloody Mary you've ever had"

Somethign along that line.

If not - cool. Let me get your # and we'll hook up next week.


It's a numbers game.

some will come back, some will not. Some will give you fake #'s some will not.

But you gotta stop acting like you've got no confidence.

Don't be afraid of what other's think - your a DJ now - act like one.
 

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cheers guys

That number i got wasn't fake it turns out, but i didn't even know her name when i got it, never mind anything about her - such is clubbin, so its fairly useless i reckon

yeh puerto, i'm gonna start cold approaches. today i was being c & f with any girl i was talkin to, that's only approaches tho so far, not quite closing yet, but i'm sure it's not too far along the path

you're spot on with that fake persona idea. I don't like it one bit. i want consistency; not to become jekyll & hyde

peace
 
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