the thing with these things that is hard is that ex's like to know that you are hurting.
its the most wierd evil sh*t, but its true.
for all women's "nurturing" side, man they can be vicious and cruel when they want to.
if you can muster it be cordial. show her the guy she lost. a guy who can rise above it all and who knows that life's bounties are yet to be his, but that they WILL be his.
if you can't rise above it, then i suggest dominating her if she tries to make you feel uncomfortable. the easiest way to do that is to just stare her in the eyes and keep staring her down. men get wierded out and start staring all over the place, and women just keep hitting you over and over when you do that, becuase its a clear sign youll take their crap.
when you stare them dead center in the eyes, its intimidating to them. and even if they try to stare you back and restablish dominance, i've yet to see a woman do that for more than 20-30 seconds max.
also, something very very very important to note in these types of situations....
men's emotions tend to be constant and drawn out. which is to say, if you are pissed, you're pissed for hours, even days, weeks or months. this is why men have such a hard time in these situations, becuase they wear their emotions on their sleeves.
whereas a woman goes through bursts of emotions. women are very very good in awkward situations of become 'miss congeniality'. they will give you the impression that they are the happiest little creature in the world. what you don't see is them leaving and running to the car and bawling their eyes out.
so as men we lack the ability to shove our emotions down our throats and act like everythign is fine and release all that pent up emotion later. we wear our emotions on our sleaves, for better or worse.
which is why if you can't act genuinely mature then i suggest the staring down technique. you know, you could be dealing with a total hb10, but ill tell you something, if you stare her down, she will submit.
who knows whats going through their heads. perhaps they are thinking that you might rape them in the parking lot, who knows. but one thing is for sure, if you stare down a woman, she will break (unless of course she's totally psycho mental, then she'll usually fly into a rage).
J
