advice needed

[itisme]

here it goes me and this girl have been on and off together for 3 years now and we have been starting to get alot closer and we like split up to just take some time off for awile, it was about 2 months ago now. Like ever since we split up i really wanna be with her even more. I think i love this girl but im not sure how to tell her and i really wanna let her know but im not sure how to tell her

 

[drixsa]

if you tell her that you love her then she will just want you less

99.9% of the time i am right

that .01% of the time youd wished i was right in the long run anyway

 

[dbot]

Whoa, talk about run-on...

Not to be an ass to criticize your writing, but you would be much easier to understand if you used a few periods now and then.

Start looking for other chicks because you probably won't be getting this one back.

 

[DarkfalconIV]

Guys don't be so harsh. Yes it might be one-itis. Determine this first

Love or Lust.

Love--Do you care if you have sex with her or if she even loves you? Would you rather her be happy with another man or just getting by with you? Would you still like her if she had the same personality and a ****ed up body? Answers should be no yes yes

Lust-- Pretty much you should get the point. If you need questions reverse the above or make up your own

so basically. Do you care about her mind or body.

Now the harder part. How does she feel about you. Do not tell me she gives you puppy dog eyes. My sisters give me puppy dog eyes. This means nothing. Tell me how intimate of secrets you share. has she ever told you she loved you. Hs she ever hinted it. Stuff like that.

Now for the part you want. you are to young to focus. Get other women. Do not settle until after high schol and college. You'll end up w/ a pregnant hihg-school sweet heart. Get married fo r the kid and divorce 6 years later and works At MICkey-D's

Good age to start getting serious 25ish.

Yes it is hard. I love a girl more than the world since 4th grade and it is hard not to be with her. Were very good friends though. And I'd rather have been friends w/ her than have seduced her and fallen even more in love wit her till We have an accidental child and ruin our lifes.

If you truly love this girl you'll be her best frined(not emotional tampon friend) through high school. And if the time comes you can hook back up. Flirt wit her as a friend. But you should go out wit other people./ You need experience. My mom always told my sisters they should date 10 guys before considering marriage. Works the reverse order to i guess. Just wait for a lil whle then decide wether you really love her. Read up on ths site on different flirting techniques and about body language and ss and mirroring. Just make sure you love her. And make sure not to scare her off by devoting yourself to her. Let her know you can get other women if you want.