advice needed

[dogstar]

I'm getting sort of bored of this certain girl im wooing, yes the friendship zone hell one. Should I just stay as friends with her? It's good to have female friends right? I want to move on and find some more I think....

Since I'm getting bored and don't really wanna waste my time wondering what she's looking for with me, what if just flat out ask her what she's looking for with me? Then I don't have to waste time if she really only just wants to be friends...eh?

 

[Nappy_Rooted]

Keep her as a friend but don't ask her what she thinks about the two of you. That may ruin what I'm about to say. If you become friends, then down the line when your with another girl (she doesn't even have to be a girl that your interested in) the one that your currently wondering about may see this as competition and may very well show extreme interest in you. Women want what they can't have. Once she shows interest in you, it's up to you playa on how you deal with it.

 

[PiNkMaGGiT]

man do whatever it takes to stop posting crappy threads about this stuff!!! No offence, but I don't think I've ever seen anybody be such a little b itch over a chick. At least put all your play-by-play updates in teh same thread!!!

You have it all wrong. First you shouldn't be wondering tirelessly over whether or not she likes you, you should have already assumed she does if you're willing to let her try and win you. I know this is newbie rAFC talk but you seem to be an AFC. A big fat one. Come on admit it .

Don't ask her anything, that's suicide, especially in your situation. Just kino her good and proper and let her know how you feel by your actions (kino, eye contact etc). Believe, there are no words that can compare to some good old-fashioned flirting. If you grow a pair and do something like I've just suggested she'll KNOW you're interested in being more than just friends.

While I'm on my high horse, might I suggest that you read the thousands of other articles on here that cater to every miniscule question that you pose by starting a new thread? I'm not tryin to be mean or anything dude but you'll get a bad rep real quick around here if you keep it up

 

[drixsa]

Again, telling her that you like her and want to start a relationship makes you seem like a complete AFC and a big loser

stop being lazy and tryin to take the easy way out

when you just flat out tell her that you like her you take all the fun out of the mystery that could become a couple.

you figure, "hey i dont wanna work hard, if i just ask her and she says no, then whatever, well jus go back to being friends"

WITH THIS ATTITUDE YOU HAVE AN ICEBERG'S CHANCE IN HELL

put some effort in to this, even if you fail it'll be worth it

im going to be quite pissed, espically since i took time out to help you and your not going to even try to help yourself.