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Ive been talking to this chick for about 3 months on and off and finally within the last 3-4 weeks id say we've officially started dating. im 22, this chick is 19 about to turn 20. Shes a solid 8.5. 5'8 which doesnt bother me cause im 6'1.. and she has a nice ass body on her (big tits) and a really cute face. lots of competition on this one but its safe to say i wrapped it up cause we've been together on the weekends whenever possible and texting everyday. She makes her schedule around me now too. Usually i wouldnt text a girl like that but shes wifey material beyond what im about to go over right now. Im spinning other plates though. Im not a ***** i know how to play the game especially with summer coming up. I have 3 girls on back burners and 1 girl im ghosting on right now cause she ****ed up bad but i know how to handle that. anyway, the girl im talking about and i had sex for the first time on thursday night.. lots of last minute resistance, because she said i hadnt "earned" it.... Shes one of those, "you have to earn your way into my pants and heart" girls. but we had quickie after i went alpha on her and got aggresive, she loves that **** (hairpulling, ripping the pants off, dirty talk)
So now on to last night. We go out to the bar with about 5 other friends. 4 other dudes and 1 girl. 3 of the dudes were single, so i gave her space and decided to turn into Bill Nye the Science guy and i told the guys the girls i was with were single to see how she would react to them hitting on her. She ignored all of them for the most part and was around me the entire night, which is how i know i have her wrapped up in the bag with the receipt. Now, i told this girl about a week ago, after she gave me a hickey on my neck. to never touch or kiss my neck like that again, (work reasons) because my skin is super sensitive and i get irritated from the littlest things. So tonight i start teasing her, negging her to take her off the pedestal my friends had put her on after hitting on her, and she started scratching my neck. i let it go for the first 3-4 times she clawed me and warned her not to do it again.. but then she got really abrasive and scratched me twice very hard, after i warned her the first time .. I was basically bleeding and had claw marks on both sides of my neck.
First question, How do i appropriately handle her insubordination toward my rules without basically telling her to **** off (within the boundaries of no commitment). in the most suave Don Juan way possible.
2nd, during the time in the bar we kissed eachother several times for light makeout sesh's... however. she was the one that kissed me, everytime i went in to kiss her she turned away.... That bull fecal matter pissed me off too because my boys got a glimpse of that once or twice.. and she does that even though i was balls deep in her tight 19 year old vagina the night before. Do i even address this with her or leave it be.
All this being said. the actions im describing happened when she was buzzed. she left the bar drunk, and threw up on and slightly in my whip. im not that mad about that but.... that has to be the icing on the cake of me not laying down pipe on her last night.
Help please. Shes still wifey material but im not trying to **** this up. cause this could be a nice summer time thing developing if i play my cards right
Ive been talking to this chick for about 3 months on and off and finally within the last 3-4 weeks id say we've officially started dating. im 22, this chick is 19 about to turn 20. Shes a solid 8.5. 5'8 which doesnt bother me cause im 6'1.. and she has a nice ass body on her (big tits) and a really cute face. lots of competition on this one but its safe to say i wrapped it up cause we've been together on the weekends whenever possible and texting everyday. She makes her schedule around me now too. Usually i wouldnt text a girl like that but shes wifey material beyond what im about to go over right now. Im spinning other plates though. Im not a ***** i know how to play the game especially with summer coming up. I have 3 girls on back burners and 1 girl im ghosting on right now cause she ****ed up bad but i know how to handle that. anyway, the girl im talking about and i had sex for the first time on thursday night.. lots of last minute resistance, because she said i hadnt "earned" it.... Shes one of those, "you have to earn your way into my pants and heart" girls. but we had quickie after i went alpha on her and got aggresive, she loves that **** (hairpulling, ripping the pants off, dirty talk)
So now on to last night. We go out to the bar with about 5 other friends. 4 other dudes and 1 girl. 3 of the dudes were single, so i gave her space and decided to turn into Bill Nye the Science guy and i told the guys the girls i was with were single to see how she would react to them hitting on her. She ignored all of them for the most part and was around me the entire night, which is how i know i have her wrapped up in the bag with the receipt. Now, i told this girl about a week ago, after she gave me a hickey on my neck. to never touch or kiss my neck like that again, (work reasons) because my skin is super sensitive and i get irritated from the littlest things. So tonight i start teasing her, negging her to take her off the pedestal my friends had put her on after hitting on her, and she started scratching my neck. i let it go for the first 3-4 times she clawed me and warned her not to do it again.. but then she got really abrasive and scratched me twice very hard, after i warned her the first time .. I was basically bleeding and had claw marks on both sides of my neck.
First question, How do i appropriately handle her insubordination toward my rules without basically telling her to **** off (within the boundaries of no commitment). in the most suave Don Juan way possible.
2nd, during the time in the bar we kissed eachother several times for light makeout sesh's... however. she was the one that kissed me, everytime i went in to kiss her she turned away.... That bull fecal matter pissed me off too because my boys got a glimpse of that once or twice.. and she does that even though i was balls deep in her tight 19 year old vagina the night before. Do i even address this with her or leave it be.
All this being said. the actions im describing happened when she was buzzed. she left the bar drunk, and threw up on and slightly in my whip. im not that mad about that but.... that has to be the icing on the cake of me not laying down pipe on her last night.
Help please. Shes still wifey material but im not trying to **** this up. cause this could be a nice summer time thing developing if i play my cards right
