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Advice for Dealing with Chick When I'm Leaving Town in 5 Days

CollegeMan22

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I met a HB9 blonde girl at a rave Saturday night, and here's what happened. She came near me to "look at paintings" and I talked and flirted with her for a good 15 minutes. Then I took her to the dance floor. We danced and I grinded on her a bit. More teases and sexual flirts. She had this pacifier at the party and we were trading it back and forth in our mouths. At one point she says "don't think anything will happen tonight" but I just deflect it and she's still giving me lots of kino. I tried to kiss her once we were out of the dance floor but she denied me. Then she invites me back to her place to smoke weed.

I get there and she's super stressed about this one friend she lost. So she's kinda in a bad mood. We're both on her bed, but not doing much to start. She gets up in front of the mirror and I tell her to show me her chest tattoo. She takes her whole shirt off and basically tempts me but I keep eye contact. Her tits are ****ing massive, bros. She gets back into bed and in between us talking I pull her toward me. She gives me a bit of a kiss, then pulls away. I pull away more.

After a bit of time, she lying on her back so I get on her. We make out and I feel her up over her clothes. But she doesn't let me take her shirt off or feel her ass under her pants. She gets up and **** tests me: "I'm seeing someone already". I tell her that I have girlfriends too. At this point, she won't do anything further with me. She does give my body a ton of compliments though (not reciprocated). Then she said that she doesn't usually kiss guys, but I "broke her rule" lol.

At this point, I get up, cause I know I've pushed it as far as it can go. She says, "You believe you're wasting your time, right?". I told her yes. Then she says "well I said we would only smoke weed". With that, I looked her straight in the eyes and said "I'm leaving in 5 days. Don't miss out". Then I left.

I understand that there is a small chance that I can bang this girl in 5 days before I leave my hometown, but I want to give myself the best chance. My question is if I should contact her at all in the next 5 days, or just play the "no contact" game. Or maybe invite myself over again and see what happens? I would play the "no contact" game if we had f*cked, but we didn't. Thoughts?
 

Dr.Suave

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Sounds like a time waster. I would focus on other girls.
 

RazorRambo24

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I don't mess with girls who are seeing someone /in a relationship anymore.. Got way too much moral integrity as I get older.
 
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