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advice:Direct game 4 fat boys?
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Master Don Juan
Right now ?? No you cant open direct as your already see yourself as lower in value then the chicks your trying to pick up.
First off all define how fat your are and if you don't like what you see in the mirror then you need to improove yourself before you try to pick up the chicks. Reason for this is that well any line you throw out will be let down by your brain giving you negative feedback on what your brain thinks the girl sees in you.
First off all define how fat your are and if you don't like what you see in the mirror then you need to improove yourself before you try to pick up the chicks. Reason for this is that well any line you throw out will be let down by your brain giving you negative feedback on what your brain thinks the girl sees in you.
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It's all about presentation and delivery. For starters, do your clothes even fit properly? Do you accentuate your build in a flattering way? Stuff like that. Watch some episodes of What Not To Wear and start paying attention to the fat guy episodes. You may have to scrounge to find those eps, but they're well worth it.
Get those issues worked out first because they're the easiest to deal with. The benefit is when you look like a million bucks you'll feel awesome about yourself, and that will significantly improve how you're received by others.
Get those issues worked out first because they're the easiest to deal with. The benefit is when you look like a million bucks you'll feel awesome about yourself, and that will significantly improve how you're received by others.
i´m about 115 kg. The thing is i look at the mirror while standing and think im generally not ugly, i like myself.
but when i sit in my sister bed i see that i have a whamp..
indirect i won´t approach cause the whole attraction technique thing makes me lse and confuses me.
i want make it this way
-open
-rapport
-instantdate
-rapport
-escalation
but when i sit in my sister bed i see that i have a whamp..
indirect i won´t approach cause the whole attraction technique thing makes me lse and confuses me.
i want make it this way
-open
-rapport
-instantdate
-rapport
-escalation
Groom and dress your best. Start hitting the gym. It's not reason for you to be fat in this game. I'm 5'7, 200lbs. I used to be 5'7, 300lbs. I still got about 30lbs to go to tighten up the rest of my gut. Let me tell you...I was only pulling fatties when I was one too. But my self esteem was in the crapper. So work on your inner game and the gym and sarge as normal.
To directly anwser your question, of course you can sarge while your fat. As for your expecting rejection because of your weight, some will, some won't, most are polite enough not to say "ewwww fatty!" and the ones that aren't you wouldn't want to be around anyway. Look for the ones giving you choosing signals, eye contact and IOIs.
To directly anwser your question, of course you can sarge while your fat. As for your expecting rejection because of your weight, some will, some won't, most are polite enough not to say "ewwww fatty!" and the ones that aren't you wouldn't want to be around anyway. Look for the ones giving you choosing signals, eye contact and IOIs.
Since i´m back in game i realised that i need a diät.
i don´t like hearing "work on your innergame" cause many people fall in the "as long i need to work on my innergame, i can´t go out and approach succsessfully" trap.
When it comes to inner game i would say hypnotica-collection of confidence, Demonic or super confidence.
Some products where you need to go out..
what do you think?
i don´t like hearing "work on your innergame" cause many people fall in the "as long i need to work on my innergame, i can´t go out and approach succsessfully" trap.
When it comes to inner game i would say hypnotica-collection of confidence, Demonic or super confidence.
Some products where you need to go out..
what do you think?
Some people do use "work on your inner game" as an excuse not to go out. I see it as a challenge to work on meditation, self reflection and mentally working through your issues but in combination with going out and testing your new found mindstate in the field.
If you have social anxiety, you get pumped on doing affirmations for relaxation and openess and confidence. But then you actually have to go out and talk to people, go somewhere new and interact with people. If you have problems talking to girls, you have to meditate on what you want, find your inner confidence and then go out and prove it to yourself by striking up random conversations with girls. You can't have the yin without the yang.
You have to match the inner and outer to get a result. You just can't sit around the house thinking "I'm the man!"
If you have social anxiety, you get pumped on doing affirmations for relaxation and openess and confidence. But then you actually have to go out and talk to people, go somewhere new and interact with people. If you have problems talking to girls, you have to meditate on what you want, find your inner confidence and then go out and prove it to yourself by striking up random conversations with girls. You can't have the yin without the yang.
You have to match the inner and outer to get a result. You just can't sit around the house thinking "I'm the man!"
true romance
Don Juan
continue to approach and also hit the gym.
there is no excuse unless you have certain physical problem..
there is no excuse unless you have certain physical problem..
Hey Warrior that´s what i mean, i did it also a long time, then i stepped in the outtergame trap..
(The thing is people like me need to have a plan, or better a structure. and the structure should have things they can do. or they familiar with. or at least they understand it without question..)
Do you think i´m on the right way with innergame by the "Collection of confidence" by hypnotica? i think at the moment that you think on something different
(The thing is people like me need to have a plan, or better a structure. and the structure should have things they can do. or they familiar with. or at least they understand it without question..)
Do you think i´m on the right way with innergame by the "Collection of confidence" by hypnotica? i think at the moment that you think on something different