OK people , I am a rafc , Luckily I came across this website a few months ago which changed my whole perspective on things , Its true that the AFC nature has become subconscious for myself and trying to get out of it is not an easy task.
After going through the DJ BIBLE ( wish I had this when I was in highschool ) , I started learning all those skills , And used them , THe good news is that I was able to get in contact with this chick about a 6 ,
We have been going about for about 1 month now , we have had all these intimate conversations not about s3x, more of sentimental BS , Initially when I met this girl she seemed like a chick who will be my wife , But what I noticed about her is that what she says and what she does do not match even in the least , Because of certain ethical restraints I was unable to do a kiss close , Even though the most perfect situation was right in front of me.
After enduring desperation for some time , I wanted to break up with this girl , Since i dont believe in this friends first bullshyt ( I am willing to listen to any comments on this ) , Everytime we hang out it feels like both of us are lovers , I mean we are close no hand holding since as i mentioned before certain cultural restraints , We go out and behave like we are a couple , She gives me lots of looks ,
Now when I got mad and told her to go to hell basically , She says all u guys are like that and all that crap , So in order to not loose her I agree to her terms as being close friends.
I mean what the f**K is with this FRIEND THING , How do i get out of this idiotic cage... ??? , How do i move from this friends zone ??? Please help !!!
After going through the DJ BIBLE ( wish I had this when I was in highschool ) , I started learning all those skills , And used them , THe good news is that I was able to get in contact with this chick about a 6 ,
We have been going about for about 1 month now , we have had all these intimate conversations not about s3x, more of sentimental BS , Initially when I met this girl she seemed like a chick who will be my wife , But what I noticed about her is that what she says and what she does do not match even in the least , Because of certain ethical restraints I was unable to do a kiss close , Even though the most perfect situation was right in front of me.
After enduring desperation for some time , I wanted to break up with this girl , Since i dont believe in this friends first bullshyt ( I am willing to listen to any comments on this ) , Everytime we hang out it feels like both of us are lovers , I mean we are close no hand holding since as i mentioned before certain cultural restraints , We go out and behave like we are a couple , She gives me lots of looks ,
Now when I got mad and told her to go to hell basically , She says all u guys are like that and all that crap , So in order to not loose her I agree to her terms as being close friends.
I mean what the f**K is with this FRIEND THING , How do i get out of this idiotic cage... ??? , How do i move from this friends zone ??? Please help !!!