Nicholas Hill
Master Don Juan
Ever since "Kinesthetics", people have been clawing at me to write the advanced version, so after many many months, I have put together a nice piece for you all!
Part one: A Warning
I highly suggest you read the BASIC Kinesthetics article AND implement it fully before you even think about continuing with this one. It is not simple stuff. If you don't understand what kino is or why you should use it, nor do you actually use it, then bugger off.
The previous article is available here:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=19088
I'm speaking to real DJs from this point on.
Part two: It Must Be The First Thing You Do
Seriously.
If you do it too late in an interaction, it will be harder. You want to touch the girl as soon as you meet her, by finding some acceptable way of placing your hands on her.
She'll think back to the fact that you met her, and that the moment you met her you touched her. That's basic anchoring.
Part three: Don't Do It To Everyone
You touch a HB9, then walk off and touch a 2 the same way. The Hot Babe notices, and so does the Not-so-hot babe. Sometimes it can work in your favour, most of the time it will not.
Part four: It Must Be The Suavest Thing You've Ever Done
You touch a girl and look at your hands, then look into her face apologetically and say "Sorry, my hand slipped, I hope you don't mind".
Get the timing correct, get the suaveness in tact. You touch people very easily and you want her to notice.
Part five: Ignore Her When She Touches You Back
She likes you touching her, she touches you back, and you look at her hands - again, that is not really suave, is it?
You don't need to let her know that you can sense her touching you back, so don't allow her to notice a reaction. At the same time, she'll wonder about you. More anchoring.
Part six: Don't Grope - Initially
Don't touch her breasts, or other sensitive areas. Don't lick her feet, or do anything else weird and stupid, unless you REALLY know her very well.
Part seven: Timing Is Everything
Don't touch a girl if her pants accidentally fall down. Touch a girl if she confides in you the fact her cat died.
You'd think it was simple to make a distinction, wouldn't you? Guess again! I've seen some really funny stuff over the years...
Part eight: Arms Not Hands
Unless you're both serious about each other, ie, having known her for a while, then don't hold hands on such a thing as a first date.
Offer to allow her to cling onto your arm, its much more classy.
Part nine: That Extra Second
Don't do it every time, but occasionally, touch her and leave whatever you're touching her with there for an extra whole second. Leave your hand in her hand for the extra second, for example, when giving a girly-shake.
Part ten: You Need No Excuse
Why should you care what others think? Or what she thinks?
Can you walk up to a friend from behind, place your hands on her neck and give her a little massage that lasts a few seconds before saying "Hi, nice to see you again!"?
Part eleven: That Critical Kissing Moment
Use kino when kissing girls. Grab them, bring them up to you, and give them a nice French one, and massage her neck, caress her shoulders... make her go nuts.
Kissing = Fun
Kissing + Kino = Much more
Part one: A Warning
I highly suggest you read the BASIC Kinesthetics article AND implement it fully before you even think about continuing with this one. It is not simple stuff. If you don't understand what kino is or why you should use it, nor do you actually use it, then bugger off.
The previous article is available here:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=19088
I'm speaking to real DJs from this point on.
Part two: It Must Be The First Thing You Do
Seriously.
If you do it too late in an interaction, it will be harder. You want to touch the girl as soon as you meet her, by finding some acceptable way of placing your hands on her.
She'll think back to the fact that you met her, and that the moment you met her you touched her. That's basic anchoring.
Part three: Don't Do It To Everyone
You touch a HB9, then walk off and touch a 2 the same way. The Hot Babe notices, and so does the Not-so-hot babe. Sometimes it can work in your favour, most of the time it will not.
Part four: It Must Be The Suavest Thing You've Ever Done
You touch a girl and look at your hands, then look into her face apologetically and say "Sorry, my hand slipped, I hope you don't mind".
Get the timing correct, get the suaveness in tact. You touch people very easily and you want her to notice.
Part five: Ignore Her When She Touches You Back
She likes you touching her, she touches you back, and you look at her hands - again, that is not really suave, is it?
You don't need to let her know that you can sense her touching you back, so don't allow her to notice a reaction. At the same time, she'll wonder about you. More anchoring.
Part six: Don't Grope - Initially
Don't touch her breasts, or other sensitive areas. Don't lick her feet, or do anything else weird and stupid, unless you REALLY know her very well.
Part seven: Timing Is Everything
Don't touch a girl if her pants accidentally fall down. Touch a girl if she confides in you the fact her cat died.
You'd think it was simple to make a distinction, wouldn't you? Guess again! I've seen some really funny stuff over the years...
Part eight: Arms Not Hands
Unless you're both serious about each other, ie, having known her for a while, then don't hold hands on such a thing as a first date.
Offer to allow her to cling onto your arm, its much more classy.
Part nine: That Extra Second
Don't do it every time, but occasionally, touch her and leave whatever you're touching her with there for an extra whole second. Leave your hand in her hand for the extra second, for example, when giving a girly-shake.
Part ten: You Need No Excuse
Why should you care what others think? Or what she thinks?
Can you walk up to a friend from behind, place your hands on her neck and give her a little massage that lasts a few seconds before saying "Hi, nice to see you again!"?
Part eleven: That Critical Kissing Moment
Use kino when kissing girls. Grab them, bring them up to you, and give them a nice French one, and massage her neck, caress her shoulders... make her go nuts.
Kissing = Fun
Kissing + Kino = Much more