Ok so there is this girl, we are both in college and I cannot get an accurate reading on whether she likes me as a friend or something more.
These last few weeks I have been going to her dorm late at night. Mostly because I text her and set it up myself. When together we hang out and are very affectionate, as in snuggle up to each other and watch a movie or basically just talk through the night, etc. Point is we get pretty close.
Now for the issue, It is one thing when we are in private, but in public it is not anything like that. When we see each other we will hug if that and hardly talk UNLESS I approach her first. Also in regards to texting... She hardly ever texts first. We hardly hang out aside from those few late nights.
Because of this I feel that she wants me when it is late and she is bored at night with nothing to do.
In the end, I find myself putting in more effort and I just get mixed signals.
As a bit more I always feel she tests me when we are together as in always asking me what would I do if I was married and etc. etc. Or would you be mad at a girlfriend if this.....
Thoughts??? Is it just not worth the time?
These last few weeks I have been going to her dorm late at night. Mostly because I text her and set it up myself. When together we hang out and are very affectionate, as in snuggle up to each other and watch a movie or basically just talk through the night, etc. Point is we get pretty close.
Now for the issue, It is one thing when we are in private, but in public it is not anything like that. When we see each other we will hug if that and hardly talk UNLESS I approach her first. Also in regards to texting... She hardly ever texts first. We hardly hang out aside from those few late nights.
Because of this I feel that she wants me when it is late and she is bored at night with nothing to do.
In the end, I find myself putting in more effort and I just get mixed signals.
As a bit more I always feel she tests me when we are together as in always asking me what would I do if I was married and etc. etc. Or would you be mad at a girlfriend if this.....
Thoughts??? Is it just not worth the time?
