Abusive Relationships

[romeo203]

Any guys here dated a girl whom you were kinda not totally abusive and disrespectful and yet she kept on coming back.

Did this happen early or later in the relationship?

I've met some girls whom I kicked to the curb and they come back for more even when they meet another NICE guy. What's wrong with the female mind? Can't they be with someone that likes them...

Oh sorry, couldn't I be with someone who likes me rather than pursue someone that doesn't... I guess it's the human desire to like someone that does not like us...

 

[Ballistik]

Heh.... Read some of AskMen.com and the Bible. People naturally want what that can't have, and in relationships that generally applies more to women than men.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Ah, to figure out the demented mind of a woman.....

They sure don't make alot of sense. But now that we know a little bit more about how they tick, it sure is a lot of fun to f*ck with their minds.

In a way, I'm starting to wonder whether I'm almost acting like a chick, considering some of what we are learning at this site and others would be considered "games". But hell, it's no different than what they do to us, is it?

 

[NatureGuy]

This happens to both men and women.
If you like someone alot (for whatever reason) and they don't like you equally,
it creates the imbalance you're referring to here. I've been on both sides of this.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

ok, erm, now WHY were you " were kinda not totally abusive and disrespectful" to a girl in the first place? what did you exactly do?

What made you think that being disrespectful and kind of but not totally abusive to girls is OK?

 

[maranathaman]

If she seems to like your abuse,
You can always have some fun with it!
Tie her to the bed, blind-fold her,
and use her as your sexual plaything!
If she wants to be abused, give the girl what she wants!

 

[romeo203]

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I'm kinda referring to the drop dead beautiful woman. You know the type that never hears the word NO. The genetic celebrity.

I'm wondering if they're itching for a guy to stand up to her, to beat her around a bit, to take her off that pedestal.

 

[AFK Protector]

Re: --

Originally posted by romeo203
I'm kinda referring to the drop dead beautiful woman. You know the type that never hears the word NO. The genetic celebrity.

I'm wondering if they're itching for a guy to stand up to her, to beat her around a bit, to take her off that pedestal.

Um...no dude. Hitting women isn't cool. And maranthanman, he may trick himself into thinking he wants it....you know that stuff happens. So your advice might get some innocent girl hurt.

If I had a sister, I wouldn't want ANYONE and I mean ANYONE to hurt her. I've got cousins like sisters cuz we're only kids and all, but eh. Romeo, don't hit girls. That's not DJ- like. As about desire, you are correct. but there are other non-physical ways to make her want you. Like paying less attention and all.

If you think I'm AFC for typing this, then go fvck yourself.

 

[00Kevin]

Re: Re: --

Originally posted by AFK Protector
Um...no dude. Hitting women isn't cool. And maranthanman, he may trick himself into thinking he wants it....you know that stuff happens. So your advice might get some innocent girl hurt.

If I had a sister, I wouldn't want ANYONE and I mean ANYONE to hurt her. I've got cousins like sisters cuz we're only kids and all, but eh. Romeo, don't hit girls. That's not DJ- like. As about desire, you are correct. but there are other non-physical ways to make her want you. Like paying less attention and all.

If you think I'm AFC for typing this, then go fvck yourself.

1. a man never hits a woman.
2. a real man knows that he CAN'T be hurt by them.
3. because you told everyone to f-off you are not AFC (that shows self-respect)


My take on this topic is that women know deep down inside that they NEED a man to set them right. Women know that they are emotional creatures that have little self-control. They have different moods week to week and they can't help it. They need a man who isn't afriad to help them out with this. They need a man that will tell them off when they are wrong or put issues into perspective.

It is therefore a requirement that every woman find a man who can stand up to their ****.

I had a girl friend once that admited this to me. She told me that she liked me because I could put up with her **** and I wasn't afriad to deal with it. She said I that I was perfect because of it. (Ie.. a bit of an ******* at times)

the bottom line is that women don't like pussies!

 

[Crank_It_Up]

umm... no, don't ever hit a woman, if you feel the need to hit her, then just walk away, time to end that relationship. But some women do like to be spanked, blindfolded, tied up, etc. etc., when in bed. Not sure why, perhaps it removes some guilt they have concerning sex, but for whatever the reason, be aware that some women really get off to this in bed. How will you know if she does or doesn't like it?

This will require you to think for yourself... good luck!

 

[AFK Protector]

Um, well my uncle's brother, who is only around 25 yrs old is married. We talk about this stuff and his wife and he are both very open. He says she asks him to play bondage her or something. And she comes home, he blindfolds her, ties her down, etc. She requested it. And after, if she doesn't like it, then they stop. Its all about communication.

 

[LuvMyArmyMan]

Originally posted by maranathaman
If she seems to like your abuse,
You can always have some fun with it!
Tie her to the bed, blind-fold her,
and use her as your sexual plaything!
If she wants to be abused, give the girl what she wants!

thats NOT abuse. its **** and its consenting of both parties. its not using the other person either.

and under no circumstances should you ever hit a woman