Abstaining From Sex for So Long in This Red Zone is Tough But I Have No Choice...

[Frank2500]

So here I am...for the five years I've been in this Central African nation with an incredibly high HIV/AIDS and promiscuity rate, I've pretty much managed to somewhat survive through the abstinence game for the most part all this while. I've had intercourse with just one woman and even then I made sure we both got ourselves strictly tested and I was lucky that I didn't catch anything from her. Since we parted ways, I've been flirting on and off with this big booty lady whom I've been seeing on and off and we've played together in private but I've never had intercourse with her due to the fear of catching an or some STDs, though she tells me she hasn't had sex in slightly over a year and is HIV Negative.


She's been out of town for quite some time and is scheduled to be coming back this evening. I'm scheduled to hopefully be traveling to Europe between the end of this year or sometime in the middle of next year for another brief employment stint and they require everyone to get tested for HIV and other STDs prior to determining whether or not to issue visas to the applicants. I'm at the last phase of the application process, which involves doing the tests and I'm on standby waiting for the date to be communicated to me.


I'm so worried that if I get physically intimate with this woman when she returns to town this week, depending on if she's infected with anything, it may significantly destroy and dampen my chances. What do you guys think? To play it safe, should I just hang in there and continue managing with abstinence until I hopefully leave where I currently am despite how these women may perceive me (for never going that far as having sexual intercourse) or should I close my eyes, jump in and engage in supposed protected sex while being fully aware there may be unfortunate consequences?

 

[Frank2500]

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@Mauser: I hear you, brother. But how you gonna do it when you're right in front of a huge ass woman like that who tells you she hasn't had sex in over a year and assures you that she's HIV negative? I should probably ask her to show me her test results but even with that, I still don't feel comfortable and just don't trust a lot of women in this country. A lot of them misbehave a lot.

 

[switch]

@Mauser: I hear you, brother. But how you gonna do it when you're right in front of a huge ass woman like that who tells you she hasn't had sex in over a year and assures you that she's HIV negative? I should probably ask her to show me her test results but even with that, I still don't feel comfortable and just don't trust a lot of women in this country. A lot of them misbehave a lot.

dude, just stay away from sex till you get back to europe.
its difficult, i know, but satisfy yourself with porn for now,much much safer than fvcking a HIV infested cvm-wh0re :yes:

 

[Frank2500]

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@Switch: I hear you, bro. You're a funny guy, even though your response is reasonable and very realistic but very difficult. Nonetheless I have no choice. It's human nature (and especially male nature) to have a desire to get physically intimate with someone. Though I'm not a porn consumer, I've got no choice but to keep on hanging in there with abstinence until I hopefully leave this place. These things have a way of working themselves out, anyway. Turns out the lady in question came into town yesterday but our schedules didn't even permit each other to meet. Had we met, it would have been a lot tougher to resist, so it's good we didn't and she's still gonna be out of town for quite some time. This then enables me to come up with a strategy to avoid her from now henceforth.

 

[typical]

@Switch: I hear you, bro. You're a funny guy, even though your response is reasonable and very realistic but very difficult. Nonetheless I have no choice. It's human nature (and especially male nature) to have a desire to get physically intimate with someone. Though I'm not a porn consumer, I've got no choice but to keep on hanging in there with abstinence until I hopefully leave this place. These things have a way of working themselves out, anyway. Turns out the lady in question came into town yesterday but our schedules didn't even permit each other to meet. Had we met, it would have been a lot tougher to resist, so it's good we didn't and she's still gonna be out of town for quite some time. This then enables me to come up with a strategy to avoid her from now henceforth.

You would rather risk death for a chance to get some pu$$y then play it safe and ride the tide until you're in a safer place ? You sir are WEAK. Your mental fortitude is horrid. You're either there to make money or do aide work, get that done and stay away from the women, it will not be worth it trust me.

 

[Frank2500]

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@Typical: You didn't have to label me "weak" to get your point across. I've done my best to stay from getting involved sexually with any woman here now for the past five years and the fact of the matter is that it isn't at all as easy to abstain from sexual intercourse for so long as you may think. Nonetheless, I'm willing to hang in there and continue to abstain from it throughout the time I have left in this zone. The fact however, is that even if I don't get involved sexually with women here on this end, I have to continue dating and approaching women so as not to lose my game and social skills. I can't stay away from women completely on a social level. I may choose not to engage in sexual intercourse, but I absolutely have to maintain my game and skills.