About to become single for the first time in 2 years, what's the dating scene like 30+?

Brighty

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I'm actually a little fvcking nervous believe it or not because of all the horror stories I read online (written by mostly women, obviously) of how ****ty it is to be 30+ and single. Feels kind of daunting - I've been in a relationship for about two years now since I was 28 and it feels like I'm getting divorced or some sh!t. I feel old now lmao.

But honestly, from the DJs who get it - what's the dating scene like for a man who's 6'4, good looking, athletic, and makes over six figures? I feel like I should check most of the boxes at this point but who's to say really? What was your guys' experience like?
 

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I'm actually a little fvcking nervous believe it or not because of all the horror stories I read online (written by mostly women, obviously) of how ****ty it is to be 30+ and single. Feels kind of daunting - I've been in a relationship for about three years now since I was 27 and it feels like I'm getting divorced or some ****. I'm old now lmao.

But honestly, from the DJs who get it - what's the dating scene like for a man who's 6'4, good looking, athletic, and makes over six figures? I feel like I should check most of the boxes at this point but who's to say really? What was your guys' experience like?
Your like a powerful and sleek designed computer or phone that's stand alone, not on a network.
 

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what's the dating scene like for a man who's 6'4, good looking, athletic, and makes over six figures? I feel like I should check most of the boxes at this point but who's to say really? What was your guys' experience like?
Relax man. You are having a much bigger arsenal than many guys out there.
 

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I'm actually a little fvcking nervous believe it or not because of all the horror stories I read online (written by mostly women, obviously) of how ****ty it is to be 30+ and single.
Welcome.
Be glad you discovered SS first of all. Knowing is half the battle.

And since you recently got out of a relationship. Biggest thing is to get your mind our of the relationship mode and get into the dating mode again. This is one of the mistakes I see a lot of guys making.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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