About shaking a woman's hand... interesting!

[DJVladdy]

Ok a few things here I wanna say:

When I meet any person for the first time, I naturally say hi im Vladimir, and shake their hand, male or female. Just a good habbit to have.

I've recently noticed something I have been doing naturally subconsciously, without thinking about it:--when shaking a guy's hand, my hand is automatically tilted at an angle - palm down. So half-straight(usual handshake) and half-down facing palm. I recently read that doing this men establish dominance and I noticed I always do this myself. Look in the eye genuinely and smile, grip strong. Now I guess it communicates on my part: "I'm open, have a good attitude towards you, but don't dare try to screw me over".

--when shaking a female's hand, my hand also extends at an angle, but facing UP sa little bit. Mirror image of the previous example, pretty much. For me personally, i communicate acceptance, openness and protection for her. Also smile and hold eye contact, but dont "shake" her hand literally, thats what geeks/dorks do. Hold EC for just a little longer than with a male, AND may not work for all of you - grip her hand firm, and yet soft/gentle. I've actually had a girl comment after i did that "ooh i really like your touch", or how you hold it, something along those lines. Or ive had girls compliment on my NAME right there, again its the way i introduced myself. You make a strong first impression like that.

Another NEW thing i want you (and myself) to consider trying out (READ THIS and comment please):

i have done a little bit of reasearch because this phenomenon fascinated me. And the research is GOOD, and true facts, supported by evidence.
Hold your palm in front of you, relaxed, but straight fingers. Carefully observe the LENGTH of your index finger (one u point with) and your ring finger (next to pinky). I mean Now. Observed? Good! Now try to understand their relationship well, because their difference in length IS your body's indication of your testosterone, and, as far as that dumb blond wh0re shaking her booty at the club...as far as SHE is concerned, thats the quality of your genes as a potential mate.

Long story short:
--index finger longer than ring finger = you are female; or you are gay; or your t-levels are naturally low as hell. Bad news.
--nearly equal length: your androgens are average at best. You are probably not very masculine; likely nerdy; For a female you are nothing special i.e. "niceguy".
--Ring finger easily noticeably longer: virile; masculine; good potential to be alpha-male; high testosterone ever since you were 8 weeks in your mom's womb; someone with whom that same dumb wh0re screaming on top of her lungs when they play "the way i'm are" in the club... a man whose genes she might wanna pass on to her bastard kids some time soon.
--Ring finger MUCH longer/larger than index (even more so than middle): you are a genetic freak and you were blessed. Ever noticed NFL players doing interviews how their hands kinda look weird/unusual. That's why. Insane t-levels. And it aint from drugs lol.

Now for the advice part, look at both hands, see if one of them has a longer ring finger than another. My left hand for example has an obvious difference: at least a good centimeter difference. Remember this hand, and use that one to shake bytches hands, you'll make them wet, seconds after meeting you. Can't go wrong with that Dont believe me?
http://video.google.com/videoplay?d...=36&start=0&num=10&so=0&type=search&plindex=1


Whew...
Comments!

 

[robstar]

I personally take a woman's hand in mine, and then move in and kiss them on a cheek.. that makes a very strong first impression.

 

[DJVladdy]

Where do you live Robstar?

 

[Eaglecreek]

All intresting and well, but why should I care serieusly. Its not like I can still change that... Does it matter that I'm more masculine than the average person or not? No, it is a unchangeable fact, so irrelevant of knowing. I can get the women I want because I take what I want and not because my index finger is smaller than my index finger...

 

[DJVladdy]

Brett, ur tha man

To answer your question, YES they know about it;
However, they dont know, that they know about it. It's all subconscious

 

[kabatura]

Thanks for this. I saw this idea on that video about femail disire in Anything Else and thought, well crap my index and ring on my right hand are the same if not my ring being shorter. But my ring on my left is longer. Also, Hair started growing on my left armpit first, my left ball hangs lower etc... i think its like this with a lot of guys.

 

[L777]

Ok a few things here I wanna say:

When I meet any person for the first time, I naturally say hi im Vladimir, and shake their hand, male or female. Just a good habbit to have.

I've recently noticed something I have been doing naturally subconsciously, without thinking about it:--when shaking a guy's hand, my hand is automatically tilted at an angle - palm down. So half-straight(usual handshake) and half-down facing palm. I recently read that doing this men establish dominance and I noticed I always do this myself. Look in the eye genuinely and smile, grip strong. Now I guess it communicates on my part: "I'm open, have a good attitude towards you, but don't dare try to screw me over".

--when shaking a female's hand, my hand also extends at an angle, but facing UP sa little bit. Mirror image of the previous example, pretty much. For me personally, i communicate acceptance, openness and protection for her. Also smile and hold eye contact, but dont "shake" her hand literally, thats what geeks/dorks do. Hold EC for just a little longer than with a male, AND may not work for all of you - grip her hand firm, and yet soft/gentle. I've actually had a girl comment after i did that "ooh i really like your touch", or how you hold it, something along those lines. Or ive had girls compliment on my NAME right there, again its the way i introduced myself. You make a strong first impression like that.

Another NEW thing i want you (and myself) to consider trying out (READ THIS and comment please):

i have done a little bit of reasearch because this phenomenon fascinated me. And the research is GOOD, and true facts, supported by evidence.
Hold your palm in front of you, relaxed, but straight fingers. Carefully observe the LENGTH of your index finger (one u point with) and your ring finger (next to pinky). I mean Now. Observed? Good! Now try to understand their relationship well, because their difference in length IS your body's indication of your testosterone, and, as far as that dumb blond wh0re shaking her booty at the club...as far as SHE is concerned, thats the quality of your genes as a potential mate.

Long story short:
--index finger longer than ring finger = you are female; or you are gay; or your t-levels are naturally low as hell. Bad news.
--nearly equal length: your androgens are average at best. You are probably not very masculine; likely nerdy; For a female you are nothing special i.e. "niceguy".
--Ring finger easily noticeably longer: virile; masculine; good potential to be alpha-male; high testosterone ever since you were 8 weeks in your mom's womb; someone with whom that same dumb wh0re screaming on top of her lungs when they play "the way i'm are" in the club... a man whose genes she might wanna pass on to her bastard kids some time soon.
--Ring finger MUCH longer/larger than index (even more so than middle): you are a genetic freak and you were blessed. Ever noticed NFL players doing interviews how their hands kinda look weird/unusual. That's why. Insane t-levels. And it aint from drugs lol.

Now for the advice part, look at both hands, see if one of them has a longer ring finger than another. My left hand for example has an obvious difference: at least a good centimeter difference. Remember this hand, and use that one to shake bytches hands, you'll make them wet, seconds after meeting you. Can't go wrong with that Dont believe me?
http://video.google.com/videoplay?d...=36&start=0&num=10&so=0&type=search&plindex=1


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Comments!

Could be true but....its another self-limiting thing, especially if you fall into the average or below average category...i'e guys are gonna think "My genes aren't good enough, why bother approaching?"

Think before making useless posts.

 

[Obsidian]

So you're saying we should let a woman dominate us with her tilted handshake?

 

[robstar]

I live in Australia DJVladdy.

 

[sandman6991]

My index on my left is much smaller than my ring...on the right, you can still tell that the index is smaller, but it's not as big of a difference...

 

[Kerpal]

if you you know your going to be shaking hands, try to be on the left side. It gives you advantage of being able to control the handshake.

http://www.kathygossett.com/xSites/...oadedFiles/Hands Shaking 2 Men no jackets.jpg

Thats a picture if your going to be imagining a handshake, and it shows the advantage of being on the left.

I don't understand this at all. How can you be "on the left" in a handshake? Isn't that like saying that a car is "on the left" at an intersection? It depends on the perspective.

 

[meitenesrigas]

I don't shake a female's hands. Just say hello.

Robstar...
That might work in fruity Australia, but in much of this world that is just really creepy.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Left hand my ring finger is noticably bigger than the index but on right hand its only slightly bigger.

Does it really matter? Girls always make up these different little "predictors" but when it comes down to it, whats more important is how you react to these stupid b1tches comments about that.

 

[DJVladdy]

poster above me said what i wanted to say: in the USA don't even try the kiss if you don't already know them.

L777: sir, yes sir!

Crimson: yea, i noticed that i naturally do that.

Obsidian: that's a really insecure thing to say man, in my opinion. Your essentially saying "hey I cannot allow her to dominate me!! Let Me prove my power to her now!" Dude, this little 5'2'' 115lb cutie won't "dominate" or "establish dominance" over you ANYWAYS. You are ALREADY the dominant one. You got nothing to prove to the chick, u know. Perhaps you have memories since you were a little boy - your uncles would squat down and talk to you, you understand? Your uncle Is not SUBMITTING to you, he just shows that he can talk to you on the same level, and cares about you. Same thing with girls.

 

[Being_the_Don]

How to show off your digits to the ladies without being obvious? Casual hand gestures will get their attention, placing your hands on the table, etc. Any other suggestions?

 

[ValleyDJing]

LOL @ this thread!

 

[SinJester]

You can't change the length of your fingers so this post is completely fcking poitnless, as has been stated.

My right ring finger is longer than the index but its the opposite on my left hand. Weird.

 

[Being_the_Don]

You can't change the length of your fingers so this post is completely fcking poitnless, as has been stated.

My right ring finger is longer than the index but its the opposite on my left hand. Weird.

Not pointless if both your ring fingers are longer than your index fingers. Look at it like this: if you found tips for ways to display your attributes wouldn't you use them if they apply to you?

For those of you who don't like this topic, that's okay. When it comes down to it, we know that what counts is also inner game. Sure even when endowed with traits that women find attractive we still have to talk, get to know women. That's what this site is for and why most of us come here. For tips, to improve our game or to just learn if that is what you need. So the things you can 't change physically don't sweat it, just work on what you do have and build on that.

 

[Huffman]

The thing with the fingers sounds ridiculous.
If my ring finger is longer or not - now that is too subtle to worry about.
Even more so, you can't change it. So why bother?

 

[martinM.]

My index finger is longer than my ring finger. So i guess I'm gay.

My mother will be devastated.