about sexual harrasment vs "DJ Game" :at work or school

[broken dreams]

Hey watsup guys

I love this site!!! Im feeling it! Awesome!
Now back to this controversial reality topic.
I hope you guys with experience can help me with this ? in my mind frame at work or school.

Controversial topic Sexual harrasment Vs DJing GAME : at work or school.

You see a new girl at work , you recently noticed a cute girl in class etc etc WE ALL FACE W A SIMILAR SITUATION RIGHT?
What do I do next to not **** it up? or WORSE get in deep ****
Sexual harrassment.



You just cant stand to "stick your pen in the company's ink "
or even look at her without talking to her or even running game to sleep with her or worse not to find out if you were meant to be with her... thats sad right?



1) College or GRAD students or young chicks at work , some are nice and flirt but I never take it anywhere since I'm scared, since Im in work/ school (other guys who dont know about DJ ing .)

they tell me that ooh what out dont talk to any girls out they might do sexual harrasment. So Im scared ****less on what mentality or structure to apply to have the girl Im interested out of the work /school frame into personal. do you have any suggestions how I can convey interest and be on safe level ?


2) There are a beautiful girl manager for a dept (she has a nose ring) that is new in the work and I saw here and there, she touches me alot by my arm and shoulder and she hasnt told me her name yet, and i saw her today and she touched me by my shoulder lightly she just says "hey !"
(in not too friendly but not too serious- middle tone waiting for me to do something or talk.)


I want to see if your advice would apply to this, I know she's single and cool girl.


Thanks guys share your experience .

Brief intro about me :
I've been getting good with women and I have to thank alot of guys in here for that my wife left me last year and I ve become better man than ever. Ive done stuff that i thought i never have another woman , that is how i was back then, thanks francisco d' antoni, wyld and others here, help me to move on to being better self and w women. My hands goes out to you guys here st the DJ forum.



ALL COMMENT IS WELCOMED !!!

 

[broken dreams]

hey whatsup ? why isnt anyone answering ?!! I hope you guys aint scared. anyway post up!

 

[SmoothTalker]

Where do you live, and are things really getting THAT bad there?

To be honest I've never heard of anybody being charged with sexual harassment for simple flirting, as long as they stop it if the girl makes it clear she is not interested. Therefore I don't really worry too much about it

Sure there might be some crazy ***** that screams rape because you say hello, but you can't not live to avoid that risk.

 

[DarthAngel707]

smooth you live in peaceful, low-crime rate Canada, but here in the US sexual harassment is a very common occurence and any unwanted touching or making a woman feel uncomfortable WILL make her file charges if she wants.

And yes, broken, if you want to risk losing your job, date the women at your workplace. Even the big boss at your place would not get away with it if the woman decided to squeal on him and shout sexual harassment. Your organization's Equal Employment/ Affirmative Action department would jump on him and kick him out.

 

[broken dreams]

wow I never thought of that?! Im a bit overwhelmed?

well , Im going to at least go talk to these girls, so I wont make hit my self in the head whether i should or should have but try in discrete way.



1) student she is flirtacious and ask her to meet up outside after class as a friend , I'll tell her about kaaraoke in a bar one block from school after class .
If she flakes then forget it and I move on and hang out for a bit there, no big deal.


2) the sexy blonde nurse :
she is soo freakin hot and touches me and she doesnt even know my name,
I will have to script my interaction with her since my time will be limited,she is busy and has her strong side of her personality, thats what I noticed.
so I will talk to her with an introduction
" hey Ive seen you around many times but we havent met yet " we introduce.

then complement her about vibe : " you seem pretty chill "

tease her on the nose ring if its real and make a joke, make her laugh then i tell her that i have to go in a sec.
" I think you are really fun n cute, what else do you got going for you?"
wait for her response: then I'll say " get out of here (jokingly)".

"Listen I really kindah have to go in a sec, and this conversation is starting to get interesting.
wait for a pause and test waters for number(?, but i see her ? is it neccesary? ummm?)

Theres this party (in a bar) I might go for awhile to meet up with some friends you can meet there for awhile since Im going somewhere after that ? " "cool?"

"alright cool see ya there"



guys hit me up if you have suggestions ,I'll post up results here later.
thanks!