About physical preference

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This thread kicked me into gear for my own topic. To make it simple, I'm a man who likes feminine girls who aren't short and are really fat (until it starts becoming a major problem physically - I don't disregard health aspects), like this for reference. It's not because I see past their appearance or I have a good history with a particular kind of girl or I think they're easy lays or whatever, it's because when I was a pre-teen I discovered that's what my d!ck liked getting up to while thin girls if they can cause a response at all cause a far weaker one.

Now the thing is, it's still an exclusive preference. What that means is it's not enough to be 300+ lbs and I'll think "damn" just like it's not enough to be <120 lbs for you to think "damn" - some girls are beautiful enough to be girlfriend material, some are arousing enough to be fvck but not beautiful enough to be girlfriend material and others (the ones by far most commonly refered to by normal guys) I wouldn't want anything to do with, just like for normal guys.

Now my question is what do you think is the reason for my preference? if men are "hardwired" to find thin girls attractive, why do they come across as second-class material to me if I'd bother fvcking them at all? Even if I hypothetically see a girl I like enough to be girlfriend/fvck-material I would always want it more if she was big, it's like an amplifier. Maybe my wiring is just faulty like a girl with daddy issues :p? I do remember that when I was younger I wasn't as discriminative. My first and to this day by far most major crush was thin and so were the other girls I was involved with at the time. But although that was the case, they never had the turn-on potential that the big girls I was looking at on the internet did. I just wasn't thinking about it as much as I would do later, girls were new in puberty and they could/can still make me like them by being beautiful and physically & mentally feminine, so what girl I liked was unrestricted by my now fully conscious knowledge of what I'd prefer.

The point I wanted to discuss with this thread is what gives me and other men like me this preference, NOT something else like it being okay for me to have this preference/whether fat girls can be attractive/etc.
 

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Honestly, who cares WHY you like what you like. The only thing that matter is that's WHAT you like... which is perfectly ok. That girl in the video is pretty... with hips. Not grotesque or anything. Not necessarily my style, but again, that's ok.

I agree with MidnightCity... you might the the genius because you have a big (pun intended) pool to choose from and not much competition :)
 

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MidnightCity said:
so you like to pork fatties.

why do you care about the why? they get you off, thats all that matters.

if anything you're pretty lucky. lots of big girls out there with lots of love to give (heh) with great personalities.
I care about the why as a curiosity. By this point I couldn't give less of a rat's @ss what other people actually think about it just like I don't care what they like either, I'm just interested in the reason itself like knowing how a machine works.

Not in Europe, at least not where I am. I'm stranded :p

I mean thanks for the support guys, I certainly appreciate it, but that's not what this thread was supposed to be for.
 

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AttackFormation said:
Now my question is what do you think is the reason for my preference? if men are "hardwired" to find thin girls attractive, why do they come across as second-class material to me if I'd bother fvcking them at all?
I'm just guessing here, but: Women carry a higher body fat percentage than men do, maybe you're just more tuned into this aspect more than other guys? Wide hips, big boobs, a round behind, these are definitely female characteristics - maybe you just like them more exaggerated than the next fellow. Look at all the black guys who favor women with a lot of "junk in the trunk", so to speak. More to grab, I guess.

People have all sorts of fetishes, I'm not sure if I would characterize your preference as a fetish, although maybe it is. There's also a possibility that you get excited about these women because you perceive that they are within your reach, and maybe they have some appeal because of that?

In any case, like the others said, hey it's a wide pool without a lot of competition, consider yourself lucky.
 

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zekko said:
Look at all the black guys who favor women with a lot of "junk in the trunk", so to speak. More to grab, I guess
Funny you mention this... because, if i'm not mistaken, OP is black.
 

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j.619 said:
Funny you mention this... because, if i'm not mistaken, OP is black.
Didn't wanna make this a race thing, but I was curious about this as well, because there does seem to be a preference amongst black guys for thicker girls. It's all about what you like OP.
 

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Maybe it's subconcious: child-bearing hips, fat deposits, etc.

Me? I love me a thick little latina, but I always end up with blonde white chicks.
 
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