My last thread, the "nosedived into oblivion" thread was locked because apparently some people here aren't mature enough.
However, I have great confidence in the sosuave community, and I've been an avid reader (dont like to post alot though) for many years. The overall gist of my story is that my ex-girlfriend says she's pregnant, and I feel very much helpless over the situation. I have always thought that I would control my own life yet my irresponsibility has made this situation out of my control.
If there are some women that roam this board, or some guys who have been in this situation before, I just need some personal advice. If she dosen't have an abortion, my life and her life is going to go pretty much down the drain. More hers then mine though....If someone can email me at x2xgamer@gmail.com or AIM me when I'm on at jagplaya007 ...I really don't want to push abortion on anyone but I do not feel that she is in the correct mindset to make this decision.
NO TROLLS, don't be an @sshole...dont tell me "abortion is murder" blah blah blah. I have to convince her, I'm not ready for this. She has been in some cases, crazy beyond belief, and I am terrified at the fact that she could ultimately raise my child.
I don't really want you guys to pity me or anything...this is something that I have to deal with. Unwanted/Unplanned pregnancies is an issue that has been plaguing mankind since the beginning of time. I'm not the first man to have to deal with this, and I most certainly won't be the last.
Thanks everyone
However, I have great confidence in the sosuave community, and I've been an avid reader (dont like to post alot though) for many years. The overall gist of my story is that my ex-girlfriend says she's pregnant, and I feel very much helpless over the situation. I have always thought that I would control my own life yet my irresponsibility has made this situation out of my control.
If there are some women that roam this board, or some guys who have been in this situation before, I just need some personal advice. If she dosen't have an abortion, my life and her life is going to go pretty much down the drain. More hers then mine though....If someone can email me at x2xgamer@gmail.com or AIM me when I'm on at jagplaya007 ...I really don't want to push abortion on anyone but I do not feel that she is in the correct mindset to make this decision.
NO TROLLS, don't be an @sshole...dont tell me "abortion is murder" blah blah blah. I have to convince her, I'm not ready for this. She has been in some cases, crazy beyond belief, and I am terrified at the fact that she could ultimately raise my child.
I don't really want you guys to pity me or anything...this is something that I have to deal with. Unwanted/Unplanned pregnancies is an issue that has been plaguing mankind since the beginning of time. I'm not the first man to have to deal with this, and I most certainly won't be the last.
Thanks everyone