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Don Juan
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Recently, I've been trying some weird approach thing with girls I see in public places like subway stations, trains, busses, whatever.
Basically, I go up to the girl I want and pretend that she looks like someone I know. So I go next to her, look at her, shake my head a little, raise an eyebrow and say something like "aaah... wait a minute... is your name X?"
Then, when she says no, I'm like "ah... maybe I'm wrong, then. You just look like someone I know. What's your name?" and just start from there.
The only thing is... when there isn't much time to talk (like when I'm in a bus and she's getting ready to leave at the next stop) it's a bit weird when I get to ask her number because I have the impression that they realize that pretending that she looked like someone I knew wasn't true and just an excuse. I don't think girls like guys who make up lies like that just to ask them out so I'm a bit worried about that approach method because I have the impression that it can get a bit too obvious sometimes.
I thought it worked fine to start a conversation though because it's a pretty good excuse to talk to someone when you just mistake them for someone else. Any ideas?
Basically, I go up to the girl I want and pretend that she looks like someone I know. So I go next to her, look at her, shake my head a little, raise an eyebrow and say something like "aaah... wait a minute... is your name X?"
Then, when she says no, I'm like "ah... maybe I'm wrong, then. You just look like someone I know. What's your name?" and just start from there.
The only thing is... when there isn't much time to talk (like when I'm in a bus and she's getting ready to leave at the next stop) it's a bit weird when I get to ask her number because I have the impression that they realize that pretending that she looked like someone I knew wasn't true and just an excuse. I don't think girls like guys who make up lies like that just to ask them out so I'm a bit worried about that approach method because I have the impression that it can get a bit too obvious sometimes.
I thought it worked fine to start a conversation though because it's a pretty good excuse to talk to someone when you just mistake them for someone else. Any ideas?