A Weird Feeling: Stagnation or Transcendence?

Konada

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Ever since I lost my V-Card, I've been in a particularly weird place and I do not actually know what this signifies.

1. I find myself to be more bold, present and usually not giving a f*ck about what I say, particularly expressing my sexual interests in women without much fear of judgement. It's as if I feel truly liberated. More surprisingly, tenets of game such as push-pull etc do not cross my mind at all, I'm all about just having fun and if she doesn't follow well I just pull back my energy from her.

2. Despite all these, I'm not experiencing much success with women, its truly a weird feeling while external success isn't coming to me but at the same time I feel liberated that I do not need a woman nor sex to live my life happily (although it would be a nice bonus if it happens).

3. In fact, I find little situations where I'm terribly uncomfortable with and prompt me that 'Hey, I'm bad at this area, I need to improve.' I flirt when I'm in the mood, I close off when I need my alone time.

Has anyone experience this stage in their development and what does it actually signify. Is this the end point of being a true DJ or are there things I have to take note of where I might be overlooking because I'm floating in space right now?
 
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