A website that is anathema to us

[MatureDJ]

http://www.aroundherfinger.com/index.html

 

[WaterTiger]

That's one of those spoof sites right? RIGHT?

PLEASE! SOME BODY TELL ME IT'S A JOKE!

 

[game.r]

sweet Jesus!

 

[jophil28]

Most guys I know who are married are "around her finger"' already but still manage to believe that they are 'the man'.

Those same guys would read that home page and shake their head in disbelief .

 

[Colossus]

Unfortunately I dont think this site is a joke. Read the barf-inducing "About Us" section.

 

[piranha45]

there's lots of quotable lol's, but this is great:

One area where there is a great deal of upside for the woman is in the bedroom. While this site takes care to avoid erotic subject matter, women with submissive husbands should understand that their pleasure absolutely comes first. For example, they can enjoy as much unreciprocated oral sex as they please. By no means do they have to go without intercourse. However, intercourse only comes on their terms, and only when they are assured that their own physical needs are being met.

 

[Aenigma]

there's lots of quotable lol's, but this is great:

Rest assured, that is how most marriages work.

 

[wjh]

I posted this a couple of days ago, I really don't believe it's a joke.

 

[game.r]

I think "Everybody Loves Raymond" was inspired by that site.lol

 

[Nutz]

I think "Everybody Loves Raymond" was inspired by that site.lol

While that would be sad in its own right, I think that show was based on his and the writers' lives. Anyway, that site is pretty bad. But like someone said above, it just describes most marriages anyway. It's only proof positive of even the beta male choads are still able to get a chick hooked. Makes me wonder what the world is coming to when this crap becomes the norm, if it hasn't already happened.

 

[radiodude]

there's lots of quotable lol's, but this is great:

I'm married and I can't relate to any of that at all.

Being from the midwest, I am a man who is raised to expect and search out submissive yet very sexual FEMALE women.

No woman is leading my household. In fact aften times my wife asks me more questions about what she should do than I care to answer. But I don't want the opposite.

YIKES!!!!

 

[BobMo']

Rest assured, that is how most marriages work.

Could it be an indication that the modern marriage model is a completely unnatural contrivance? In aboriginal societies, men and women are mostly separated. What tribesman would be caught dead cleaning the hut, beating the clothes down at the river with the ladies, or grinding grain, over hanging with his buds?

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

"The New Bride's Guide to Training Her Husband!"

Wow... if a man needs 'training' that's just more work then I need... How insulted you guys must feel!

 

[puma183]

That site is one stop away from Fetish Cukoldry. I don't mean everyday infidelity. I mean those husbands that you read about who enjoy being humiliated, submissive, and be made to watch while the wife does it with some other guy.

I think that site must appeal to that same demographic.

 

[dark god]

That site is one stop away from Fetish Cukoldry. I don't mean everyday infidelity. I mean those husbands that you read about who enjoy being humiliated, submissive, and be made to watch while the wife does it with some other guy.

I think that site must appeal to that same demographic.

Took the words outta my Mouth.
Thats some sick **** fellas
*shivers*

 

[SXS]

I think this site will have a good audience, there are plenty of men who would put up with this stuff. And not only in marriage.

 

[SXS]

Jesus, look at this:

Women have never gone wrong by overestimating how important sex is to their husbands. And by sex, I don't just mean the physical act of sex; I mean the psychological components of sex as well. While men love physical sex, they also desire a level of sexual energy in their relationships that is very often missing. While this is useful information for any woman, it is critical for those with submissive husbands. A submissive husband craves sexual energy (which you can feel free to read as sexual "attention") from his wife as much as or more than he craves physical sex. He can go without the physical sex for extended periods of time, but he needs the sexual energy to feel satisfied.

How exactly does the wife go about adding sexual energy to the relationship? For starters, she can be sexually playful throughout the day. She can be affectionate with the intent of arousing him by kissing on his neck, nibbling on his ears, and patting him on the bottom as the couple goes about their daily routine. It is particularly useful if as she does these things she is telling him what she expects from him. For example, instead of asking him to take out the trash, sneak up behind him, kiss on his ear and tell him to take out the trash in a soft, sexy whisper. He will absolutely love this!

Remember that this does not have to result in any more physical sex than the woman desires. However, the woman needs to be recognize that her husband's desire to have physical sex will be higher than ever. She should not make the mistake of ignoring this reality; she should overtly acknowledge it. As was said before but bears repeating, most submissive men are very happy to be denied release (within reason) if their wives make it clear that they are consciously exerting their control over their husbands. Wives can simply tell him that they like having him remain aroused as he's easier to control. They can tell him he hasn't yet earned sex yet. They can tell him whatever they want as long as they do not ignore his heightened arousal. Importantly, women should not let their own physical needs go unanswered. Just because the husband is denied physical release does not mean that the woman needs to be denied. The wife should receive all the sexual stimulation (e.g. oral sex) she likes with no expectation that the act will be reciprocated.

Most women would not want to forego intercourse altogether as it is an important and enjoyable component of their sex life. However, when women do have intercourse with their husbands, they should not necessarily concede to him his orgasm. They can have him pull out whenever they feel like it. Consider the benefits to you of keeping him on edge. It is no great secret that after sex men become very sleepy and disinterested in affection and communication. Men have a physiological response to orgasm that is in conflict with a woman's emotional requirements for cuddling and talking after sex. I promise that any man that is denied an orgasm will have no desire whatsoever to get quickly off to sleep after being intimate with his wife. In fact, he will probably open up and talk as never before. He will dote on his wife, playing with her hair, rubbing her back, and kissing her neck and shoulders. He will behave as if he is just getting to know her. It will be as if the old flames have been rekindled.

I withdraw my early comment. This most be a joke from some woman. Like menarebetterthanwomen.com

 

[piranha45]

And she'll shout at him angrily, "and don't you DARE jerk off on the bed, you just changed those sheets!"

 

[DJDamage]

This most be a joke from some woman. Like menarebetterthanwomen.com

I don't know if menarebetterthanwomen.com is a joke or not, it sure seems like it but the guy has touched a nerve in both men and women and some of the stuff he mentioned is spot on.

Its a sort of a tounge in cheek but not really.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S2nWJPEtbHc

 

[SXS]

I don't know if menarebetterthanwomen.com is a joke or not, it sure seems like it but the guy has touched a nerve in both men and women and some of the stuff he mentioned is spot on.

Well, he tries to hit the nerve and he does, but nevertheless, its with a good dose of homour. I am saying its a good homour.