It doesn't matter whether you "buy" their excuse. They don't want to meet.
Covid19 has actually been easier to weed out disinterested or AW women. Between April And Late May I met about a dozen women. 9 at my place and 3 at a park. Guess what the 3 at the park I never saw them again (and they tend to be uglier than the girls who came over, except for one who was fit and had nice body but a butterface lol). One drove from out of state nearly 3 hours one way and we smashed. Another drove 1.5 hours we didn't smash and I kicked her out lol
I've been back on the dating market for over a week. Have met with 2 chicks thus far about to meet 2 more
1. Came to my house and slobbed me up---never called me again (she was a SM grenade anyway no loss)
2. Took me out to eat but was fugly in person she was using old pics--she paid cause I told her I lost my credit card (which is true)
The chick coming over tonight is a chick I've messed with on and off the last several months, another chick we are meeting for drinks tomorrow and she is in the kink lifestyle.
I'm not here to brag but the point,
if women wanna meet you they will
OP if a woman refuses to meet or is wishy washy, drop her and find one who will, they may not be as hot as your other options but Hey