A Tough One

[itstough]

oK I have a situation that may actually be driving me insane and this is no joke.

I met this HB about a year ago, in school and we seemed to become friends. Well both admited to each other that we where into each other, but she has a borefriend who is her sole source of support and the father to her child. She did a few things to me that would make a borefriend pissed off. However we never kissed or had sex, but I did try to kiss her and she shot me down.

Now my first question is please tell me why this girl would tell these personal things to our teacher? Below is the few things that she told him that I don't understand why.


1. I am paranoid that somebody is watching me when I got out to smoke.

"We are not allowed to go out to smoke as much as I do aand I always joked with her that somebody is watching me"
the teacher told me that he told her "I will tell him to quit going out so much" she said no don't that will piss him off



2. I only go over to her house when her borefriend is not home.

" I hate her borefriend and don't want to be around him. But it was her idea for me to come when he is not there however a friend of hers was also there so it wasn't like it was just me and her" Besides If I was a woman and I had a borefriend and a guy who came over my house when he wasn't home i would not tell anyone.


Now I knew this teacher for years even before he became my teacher. I said to him "fack her if she wants to tell you my buisness she can go to hellll" he said " don't do her like that she is your friend" "but I hate her" "she is your friend"
I asked him several different times why she told him this stuff and he said that he walked outside and heard her telling somebody else that I only come over when her borefriend is not home. This teacher has a hard time telling the truth so I don't know what to think.
Then he says
1. Don't worry her and her borefriend will not last.
2. I said I have not even talked to her in a long time. He said don't worry you will hear from her. "which I finally did this week"



Now guys please help me understand this. It happened a month ago and to this day I think about it none stop trying to figure out why she would say this. Yes I have met other woman trying to forget about this situation but it has not helped at all.




Now my point is Why would this girl tell our teacher these things that have nothing to do with anything.

 

[squirrels]

I'm seriously trying to understand this, but it gave me a headache.

I understood when you were talking about the girl and her boyfriend, but then you started saying something about a teacher, and then I couldn't tell who was saying what or why you were upset.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Here's what I got:

• There's a girl
• You're her "friend"
• She has a boyfriend
• You tried to kiss her and she shot you down
• She told this teacher dude essentially that you creep her out

NEWSFLASH: You have no chance.
SECOND NEWSFLASH: Even if you had a chance, it wouldn't be worth it.

 

[penkitten]

i agree with casonova

 

[Click Here]

hey im pretty wasted... but right now i feel like u are ****ed. stop being a AFC she is taken AND a ****ty gf anyway for telling you shes into you. **** her man. get your mind off her jack off.

 

[itstough]

I don't understand where do you get that I creep her out?
What did I do for you to think that I creep her out?

I have not talked to her for a while until this week she called me asked me to come over and came to my workplace the yesterday for us to have lunch.

 

[squirrels]

OK...

-What "few things" did she do to you that would tick her "borefriend" off? If she didn't kiss you or sex you, then have you considered the possibility that she was just being friendly?

-Where does this teacher come into play? I'm completely lost as to how the teacher fits into the story.

-Why are you wasting your time with this girl? If she isn't interested enough to kiss you, and she's wrapped up with the drama of her kid, why not find a woman who's worth your time??

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by itstough
I don't understand where do you get that I creep her out?
What did I do for you to think that I creep her out?

She was complaining to the teacher (unless I misunderstood your post, which is possible, because it's pretty confusing) that (1) she felt "paranoid", like she was being watched when she went outside to smoke when you were out there, and (2) that you only go over to her house when her BF is away.

Girls, as a general rule, don't complain about a guy looking at them when they're interested in the guy in question. They also don't usually complain that a guy they like only comes around when the boyfriend is gone. But assuming that this girl is different from the norm, she still isn't worth going after.

 

[itstough]

Originally posted by squirrels
OK...

-What "few things" did she do to you that would tick her "borefriend" off? If she didn't kiss you or sex you, then have you considered the possibility that she was just being friendly?

1. She grabbed my coxk
2. She would Sit in my lap and bounce up and down
3. Grabbed my ass
4. Would play fight.

Originally posted by squirrels
Where does this teacher come into play? I'm completely lost as to how the teacher fits into the story.

Me and this girl know each other from college and This teacher is the one she told these things about me to.

Originally posted by squirrels
-Why are you wasting your time with this girl? If she isn't interested enough to kiss you, and she's wrapped up with the drama of her kid, why not find a woman who's worth your time??

I am not wasting my time no more. I just wanted to find out why in the hell she told these things to our teacher. I am however interested in being her friend though.

 

[itstough]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
She was complaining to the teacher (unless I misunderstood your post, which is possible, because it's pretty confusing) that (1) she felt "paranoid", like she was being watched when she went outside to smoke when you were out there, and (2) that you only go over to her house when her BF is away.

Girls, as a general rule, don't complain about a guy looking at them when they're interested in the guy in question. They also don't usually complain that a guy they like only comes around when the boyfriend is gone. But assuming that this girl is different from the norm, she still isn't worth going after.

Guys I am so sorry I really am trying to make this understandable but it looks like i am failing.

No I am the one who is paranoid that somebody is watching me smoking not her.
I don't understand what your talking about when you say girls don't complain about a guy looking at them when they're interested in the guy in question. I never said she complained about anything like that.

She is the one who asked me to come over when her borefriend was not home. Its not that I just showed up at her house.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

I think I'm even more confused now.

You said that she told the teacher two things.

Number 1 was that someone was paranoid when someone went out to smoke and thought that someone else was watching them. What, exactly, did she say to the teacher.

The second thing she said was that you only go over to her house when her boyfriend isn't around. That sounds like a complaint. Was it? (Regardless of whether or not it was her idea in the first place).

 

[itstough]

Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
I think I'm even more confused now.

You said that she told the teacher two things.

Number 1 was that someone was paranoid when someone went out to smoke and thought that someone else was watching them. What, exactly, did she say to the teacher.

The second thing she said was that you only go over to her house when her boyfriend isn't around. That sounds like a complaint. Was it? (Regardless of whether or not it was her idea in the first place).

1. I am the one who is paranoid. I always thought somebody was watching me when I would go outside to smoke. My question was why would she tell him this

2. As for the part about going to house here is the story.
She invited me to come over to her house to parties well I never would go for 2 reasons 1 I don't like her boyfriend and 2. I felt akward being around him when I know that I wanted to steal her away from him. So at one point she said why don't you come over when he is at work. I said what would people think if they seen a guy at your house when your boyfriend was not home she said we will just say you are her to see Patty who is another friend of ours who was also over.

Now you say this sounds like a complaint. I don't understand a complaint how like I wish he would come over all the time or I don't want him to come over at all?

 

[Santos]

Originally posted by itstough
1. She grabbed my coxk
2. She would Sit in my lap and bounce up and down
3. Grabbed my ass
4. Would play fight.

But she won't kiss you/have sex with you? Two words - c0ck tease. Here's another two: Attention Wh_re. I had some biatch with a BF do the same things to me, except she'd also kiss me. But if I tried to hold her hand, or do something affectionate (i.e. what a BF can do) then she'd pull away, and she of course never let me have sex with her. She's fooling around with you and has no intention of getting involved. Next the wench. Don't go through 2 1/2 months of pointless suffering like I did.

I can't help you with WHY she said those things. Maybe you're just giving off that kind of vibe.

Santos