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A Tip On Looks

enkai

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This isn't a how to look good thing, but just a thing I started using a lil' while ago and it's pretty important IMO, here goes...

When you're getting ready for whatever thing you're gonna do, you usually just see how you look up front, from the front side right, well do this...Next time get a mirror and see if you look as good from the back and then try to walk a little forward see how your body goes with the flow when you're walking, but looking at it from the back, because when you're out and about most females will not only look at you from the front, but rather form the back and from the sides, and this also reminds me that posture is very important becuase when females see you from the side, they can see if you're slouching or if you have that confident posture look about yourself.
 

DankNuggs

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Your gay...Why don't you go into the pink room and stare at your a$$ and dream of all the dudes you want to hit on....because you have great posture...
 

sonick182

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That... was uncalled for...

You're an idiot DankNuggs...
 

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"I come here from CA..NA..DA, ans they think I'm a little slow......................ehh"


j/k, no offense here, but the guy is telling us to go stare at our asses and work on our look from the back...Thas what girls do, he might as well start telling us to wear makeup cause its cute.

There are enough people here who are obsessive compulsive about analyzing absolutely everything about their appearance...Its unbelievable. Just be confident in who you are and forget about the rest. I had a roomate in college who was crazy about taking 2 hours getting ready to go hit the college dive bar, he had no confidence, got no ass, but had great posture....enough said...

sorry for offending...the guy just sounded like a homo...alright I'll stop...my bad enkai..
 

Santos

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Don't obsess over how you look so much, man.
Just make sure :
- your hair is good
- you have nice shoes
- you shave
- use deoderant

That's about all you need.
 

Mr. Latte

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He's right...good posture makes ALL the difference in the world. When you walk around slouching and looking @ the floor, you look like a victim waiting to happen. Good posture makes you look confident.
 

enkai

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Originally posted by DankNuggs
Your gay...Why don't you go into the pink room and stare at your a$$ and dream of all the dudes you want to hit on....because you have great posture...
Dude...listen, first off STOP acting childish, second you're statments are so idiotic..."hey this guy is a homo" yet he is on a site that produces some real good material on how to get with chix, you don't make sense. Then you're kinda late, this post has been dead for about a few days now, so why jump on and say ****? you'd be better off doing something productive for yourself, what i meant by looking at yourself from the back, not the back as in ASS, back as in the whole body from the back, is to see how you look from the back. Ah forget it, I'm not explaining myself to you.

P.S. - I seriously think you're insecure about your own sexuality, I don't think you're ok as who you are, that why you go insulting people?
 

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My statements are not childish and idiotic. However I should have changed 'homo' to 'effeminate'. For that I apologize. Checking yourself out in the mirror, watching your hips sway as you walk is totally effeminate. I'm guessing this type of behavior is pervasive in you. It probably has a bigger reason as to why you can't get laid, then your posture.....


ps. if your confident, your posture will be good. You can't fake the funk. You can try but it will never work. All the one liners, tips tricks, and articles are worthless unless you can look in the mirror and see an unstoppable machine staring back at you.

But whatever, you can keep checking cosmo for beauty tips..To each his own....
 

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10 bucks says Danknuggs checks out what his back looks like in the mirror before he goes out now haha.
 

enkai

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Originally posted by Julian
10 bucks says Danknuggs checks out what his back looks like in the mirror before he goes out now haha.
word, and the the most Fked up the here is that out of like 650 views, he is the ONLY one who has a problem with this, i don't get it...whats really going on here?
 

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Originally posted by Julian
10 bucks says Danknuggs checks out what his back looks like in the mirror before he goes out now haha.
Hahaha, that was pretty good Julian, i'll give you that...

We talk about the feminization of males by society alot on these boards and how it strip us of our masculinity. I see posts like this as an extension of that, lumped together with the fashion threads of guys discussion their necklaces, bracelets and accessories...99.9% of being a Dj is mental, once your in the right mental place you're money. The rest is just filler and fluff.

I had a little fun with Enkai, hopefully he doesn't take it personally.

I've read a bunch of his other posts and find them pretty useful. I just had to take a jab where I saw it due. Hopefully all is well...
 

enkai

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Originally posted by DankNuggs
Hahaha, that was pretty good Julian, i'll give you that...

We talk about the feminization of males by society alot on these boards and how it strip us of our masculinity. I see posts like this as an extension of that, lumped together with the fashion threads of guys discussion their necklaces, bracelets and accessories...99.9% of being a Dj is mental, once your in the right mental place you're money. The rest is just filler and fluff.

I had a little fun with Enkai, hopefully he doesn't take it personally.

I've read a bunch of his other posts and find them pretty useful. I just had to take a jab where I saw it due. Hopefully all is well...
It's all good G, no harm done.
 

silverwex

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Quit that sh-t!

I hate it when peeps flame others for trying to help out! IF youve nothing good to say just dont say anything!

Not taking a poke at anyone in particular but ive just seen this crap sooo much over the past while and it pisses me off to say the least!

Thanks!
 

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the guy is telling us to go stare at our asses and work on our look from the back...Thas what girls do, he might as well start telling us to wear makeup cause its cute.
Welcome to the new millenium guy, where image is everything. The better you look, the more serious everyone will take you.

Since I started paying more attention to the way I look, my posture and yes, using makeup (acne medicine with built in coverup), I have been attracting WAY more women. Looking good is also a great confidence booster and something every RAFC (such as myself) should pay close attention to.
 

oOh Nasty

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i gotta agree with everyone else nuggy...

those comments were uncalled for whether i agree with enkai or not.
 

jive

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Originally posted by DankNuggs
ps. if your confident, your posture will be good.
Not true, especially if you've had bad posture all of your life. Body language/posture is something that needs to be worked on, it doesn't automatically come with confidence. For example, I used to think I walked with a straight back, but when I examined myself in the mirror, I realized that I didn't. My back was pretty straight, but my neck wasn't and changing that made a huge difference. (if you catch this yourself, tilt your head back, not up)

Had I not examined myself, I probably wouldn't have caught this.
 

enkai

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Originally posted by jive
Not true, especially if you've had bad posture all of your life. Body language/posture is something that needs to be worked on, it doesn't automatically come with confidence. For example, I used to think I walked with a straight back, but when I examined myself in the mirror, I realized that I didn't. My back was pretty straight, but my neck wasn't and changing that made a huge difference. (if you catch this yourself, tilt your head back, not up)

Had I not examined myself, I probably wouldn't have caught this.
Yeah I had the same problem, I would have my back straight, but my neck forward which was kinda like ehh not right, so I had to fix it.
 
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