Mr. Mystery
Master Don Juan
How many of the veteran posters that know their **** say, "I know my ****, I can have any girl I want, I am a master DJ." None of them. They all say they have lots more to learn. I forgot which of the great artists of the great Renesssaince it was that said this but on their death bed, after painting a few masterpeices they said they were just beginning to start learning how to paint.
What I am trying to get at here is taking the mindset of the learning situation.
I was very depressed at one point of my life, I felt soo sorry for myself, poor old me, life has given me a bad hand.
Bullsh*t.
Since then I have turned my life around by attacking my flaws and taking risk and loving it.
I take every situation I come across as a good referrence for the future, something to learn from. That my friends is optimism, and with that frame of mind you can't loose in any situation, no more feeling sorry for yourself, risk is fun, every failure is one step closer to success.
I have seen a few problems recently, I had one hell of a week a while back where everything seemed to be going wrong, and I felt almost good about it. People where like, "Man, I'm sorry about all your misfortune lately," and my response suprised many. I said back to them, "Don't feel sorry for me, because I don't, worse things happen to others, and besides what doesn't kill us makes us stonger right, I know one day I'm gonna look back at this and laugh." They look at me with astonishment, and I don't say it just to convince myself, I truely beleive it.
I almost look forward to problems so I have something to solve, something to learn from.
This applies not only with women, but with life in general.
With this attitude nothing can shake you, you keep your calm in all situations, life becomes fun again.
Mr. Mystery
What I am trying to get at here is taking the mindset of the learning situation.
I was very depressed at one point of my life, I felt soo sorry for myself, poor old me, life has given me a bad hand.
Bullsh*t.
Since then I have turned my life around by attacking my flaws and taking risk and loving it.
I take every situation I come across as a good referrence for the future, something to learn from. That my friends is optimism, and with that frame of mind you can't loose in any situation, no more feeling sorry for yourself, risk is fun, every failure is one step closer to success.
I have seen a few problems recently, I had one hell of a week a while back where everything seemed to be going wrong, and I felt almost good about it. People where like, "Man, I'm sorry about all your misfortune lately," and my response suprised many. I said back to them, "Don't feel sorry for me, because I don't, worse things happen to others, and besides what doesn't kill us makes us stonger right, I know one day I'm gonna look back at this and laugh." They look at me with astonishment, and I don't say it just to convince myself, I truely beleive it.
I almost look forward to problems so I have something to solve, something to learn from.
This applies not only with women, but with life in general.
With this attitude nothing can shake you, you keep your calm in all situations, life becomes fun again.
Mr. Mystery