It’s been a little over 6 months since finding this site. Just like many of you here I was looking to get over a break up and needed a place to post my story and get advice from some of the pros who have been down the path. Not only did I get the advice, but I got a whole new perspective on understanding life, relationships, women, and more.
So I’m sitting here today in my office and decided to give you all a little insight as to where I’m at and what I’ve done. I’ve chosen to put it in a new thread, because the old one should just remain buried as are my thoughts of what brought me here to begin with.
Starting in November of last year, I really started feeling like I needed to get my arms around my entire life. I had really gotten to a point where I just didn’t feel good about me. Based on a lot of advice received here I started to work out on a daily basis. I obsessed about my diet and the way I look. Loosing 33lbs and gaining a whole lot of lean muscle really helps the ego.
I started concentrating on my main business and really started working with my employees to empower them to take ownership of their jobs and their part in this company. So far this year we’ve increased sales and bottom line by 22% through the first quarter.
I began to re assemble my 2nd company and am now in negotiations with worldwide distributors who will help to get my product to the masses. I’ve redeveloped this company’s web sites and have developed all of the advertising to help launch here in the U.S. in mid-May. (web sites will go live at the same time).
I take the time to go to Buddhist class once a week to listen and meditate. I find that this helps to keep my mind sharp and helps me to focus on what I need to do.
I meet with friends at least twice a week to get out and to maintain a good relationship inside of a group of about 20 people.
Due to my career, I’ve always dressed in business attire, but due to my weight loss had to get all new stuff. A Little on the pricey end, but well worth the end result.
Bought a new vehicle, all I’ll say about this is that it’s pretty bad-a**. Not a Lambo, but not a Chevy either.
Right now, girls are not a problem. I meet them, talk to them, f**k the ones I want and pay no attention to the ones I don’t. I’ve adapted to the mentality of not buying into the drama, and not hesitating to walk away when needed.
I don’t really see myself being in any sort of “serious relationship” for quite some time. With everything I have going on, I don’t feel like I’m willing to invest the time in a female and drama and lose focus on what I’ve still got to get accomplished for me. As one of my favorite OP’s posted: “Women truly are “penny stocks” in today’s society”.
In six months of just taking care of myself, I’ve been able to achieve great results. And for the first time in a long time I am truly happy to be who I want to be.
So to anyone who feels like there at a loss in their relationship, or just need a little advice to get you by, read and absorb what a lot of these posters have to say. You’ll be a better man because of it.
Thanks gentlemen and happy posting!!
“To conquer oneself is a greater task than conquering others.” - BUDDHA
So I’m sitting here today in my office and decided to give you all a little insight as to where I’m at and what I’ve done. I’ve chosen to put it in a new thread, because the old one should just remain buried as are my thoughts of what brought me here to begin with.
Starting in November of last year, I really started feeling like I needed to get my arms around my entire life. I had really gotten to a point where I just didn’t feel good about me. Based on a lot of advice received here I started to work out on a daily basis. I obsessed about my diet and the way I look. Loosing 33lbs and gaining a whole lot of lean muscle really helps the ego.
I started concentrating on my main business and really started working with my employees to empower them to take ownership of their jobs and their part in this company. So far this year we’ve increased sales and bottom line by 22% through the first quarter.
I began to re assemble my 2nd company and am now in negotiations with worldwide distributors who will help to get my product to the masses. I’ve redeveloped this company’s web sites and have developed all of the advertising to help launch here in the U.S. in mid-May. (web sites will go live at the same time).
I take the time to go to Buddhist class once a week to listen and meditate. I find that this helps to keep my mind sharp and helps me to focus on what I need to do.
I meet with friends at least twice a week to get out and to maintain a good relationship inside of a group of about 20 people.
Due to my career, I’ve always dressed in business attire, but due to my weight loss had to get all new stuff. A Little on the pricey end, but well worth the end result.
Bought a new vehicle, all I’ll say about this is that it’s pretty bad-a**. Not a Lambo, but not a Chevy either.
Right now, girls are not a problem. I meet them, talk to them, f**k the ones I want and pay no attention to the ones I don’t. I’ve adapted to the mentality of not buying into the drama, and not hesitating to walk away when needed.
I don’t really see myself being in any sort of “serious relationship” for quite some time. With everything I have going on, I don’t feel like I’m willing to invest the time in a female and drama and lose focus on what I’ve still got to get accomplished for me. As one of my favorite OP’s posted: “Women truly are “penny stocks” in today’s society”.
In six months of just taking care of myself, I’ve been able to achieve great results. And for the first time in a long time I am truly happy to be who I want to be.
So to anyone who feels like there at a loss in their relationship, or just need a little advice to get you by, read and absorb what a lot of these posters have to say. You’ll be a better man because of it.
Thanks gentlemen and happy posting!!
“To conquer oneself is a greater task than conquering others.” - BUDDHA
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