A really good lesson to all the nice guys scratching their heads

[Beginner1]

I consider myself to be a good guy, I am respectful of women and I do not try and play girls and try to stack up as many women as i can possibly nail.

I use to take girls out to dinner, give compliments, all that stuff that you hear should make a girl want to be with you, and for some reason you always get screwed over.

I have actually failed time and time again to have someone I could actually consider my girl and have them chasing me down a little bit instead of it always being one sided, well I finally decided to change it up this weekend and do what someone on this board said a while ago which was something along the lines of "You can not have a realtionship with someone you do not advance sexual towards but If the sexual advances come very early, you can have a relationship with them"

I tried this this ass backwards thinking this weekend and guess what, for the first time the shoe is on the other foot. She seems to be into me a lot and this is something I could not make happen when I tried to prove how good of a guy I was first. I am still scratching my head but who cares now.

Thanks to the poster of the person who said that, I think it might be somewhere in the bible.

 

[pimpfromdayone]

I don't really understand what you said you did to change things. Did you like get sexual early on with her or what?

 

[Skel]

lol I dont know wtf hes saying, but he changed something or other i guess.

 

[frivolousz21]

when you meet a women.make sure within 10 min she knows what you want

 

[tmpgstx]

You're going to get a flakey short-term or one-nighter type of girl by getting sexual very early with her and not knowing her well at all (like first or second encounter).

 

[flexion_]

So I guess we would call this man'ese as it was very difficult to understand. Essentially he is saying that its important to show your sexuality to woman. Thats pretty much it.

Go figure... to have sex with women you need to demonstrate to them that you are a sexual creature. I guess we all make this realization at a different time.

 

[pimpfromdayone]

Yeah but at the same time you have to show them you don't really need to have sex with them.... so it is a fine balance. I get sexual with them (sexual innuendo, kino, etc.) but at the same time you gotta be smooth.