A question for the experienced/masters. Involving Ego.

Perseus

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So over the summer I met a woman who I got to be attracted to me. I didn't really run routines or game on purpose, it just came naturally. As they say, after a while game is internalized. Anyhow, I had a girlfriend at the time and it gave me some pleasure to put her into the friendzone. The attraction stayed, and this (I have to admit) was a boost to my ego. To this day, the attraction is there. However, the longer I put her in the friendzone the lower it will be. That's not the issue though. The issue is I fear my ego is now dependent on her being attracted to me. I know this is bad. Any suggestions as to what I can do to make sure this doesnt happen? Control my ego?
 

playerone

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If you allow your ego to be lying on how high her interest level is, 4 out of 5 times you are going to end up with nothing but a wounded inner game when she loses attraction for you. To prevent that from happening, go out and seriously know more women. Get their numbers, text them. Make sure you have a few women to talk to, not just one. That way, you'd be more interested if your mum called, instead of the lady you're talking about.
 
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