A Question About Receiving Oral Sex From a Woman That Has Always Bothered Me...

[Frank2500]

Hello there everyone,

Please, before I begin, my question is very sincere and I'm by no means a naive person. I honestly, honestly wish to know the answer to this and to get you guys' opinions based on personal experiences. Out of the sexual encounters I've had with women in the past, very few have involved them performing oral sex on me/giving me a blow job. Honestly, it's often happened to me just twice. I generally go straight to kissing and the real action. Also, I became a bit careful about the issue of just any woman performing oral sex on me because I heard that's another easy way to catch HIV that many people aren't aware of.


My question is, if a woman performs oral sex on a man and decides to swallow his semen (like in porn movies) can she become pregnant off of that? And if some of that semen, a considerable portion of it, drips down into her vagina...in that case she can definitely get pregnant, right? I've generally been quite scared of allowing my semen to come all over a woman's body and drip down to the vaginal area after getting a blow job due to the possibility of her getting an unwanted pregnancy, and having a woman perform oral sex on me with a condom on would make no sense.


I was flirting recently with a woman via cell phone text messages and she asked me if I liked oral sex. I asked her if she would like to perform oral sex on me when we're in private and she said "yes, of course." But the HIV and unwanted pregnancy factors are what have made me shy away from oral sex in general. In the past, I've generally not allowed myself to ejaculate on any woman after she performs oral sex on me...due to that concern I have explained above. Would like to get you guys' thoughts.

 

[logic1]

 

[Fuglydude]

This is either a joke post.... or the original poster is a total retard, and/or very sexually inexperienced.

As a healthcare professional I think its my duty to set him right:

* HIV is contracted through BLOOD to BLOOD contact or sexual/anal intercourse. By blood to blood I mean transfusion of tainted blood, using contaminated IV/IM/sub-cue needles, contact between mother and child during the birthing process. Your risk of contracting HIV and testing HIV positive from oral sex are infinitesimal.

* If a chic swallows your load she WILL NOT get pregnant... the sperm and seminal fluid will get destroyed in her stomach.

* The chance of a woman getting pregnant by having jizz around her hoo-ha are also EXTREMELY small.

 

[Die Hard]

So how does the transmission of an STD work, anyway? I mean in detail... Like, if I put my finger in a woman's "pocket", nothing happens but when I put my "rod" in there, it transmits the virus. Why's that? I know the virus is in the blood but my "rod" isn't bleeding, is it? Basically, my "rod" and her "pocket" are having skin-on-skin contact, so what part of my "rod" contains and transmits the virus and what part of her "pocket" will absorb the virus? How does this work, exactly?

 

[Maxtro]

Go go abstinence only programs!

 

[Drum&Bass]

Most everyone has HPV or Herpes or both....I wouldnt worry about HIV. Use condoms so you dont get kids.

Women should ALWAYS SWALLOW !!

theres no chance of catching anything unless she has a cold sore on her mouth that touches your d!ck. All sexually active men should assume they have HPV so there is chance that you can pass that on to a woman, no biggie unless you get warts or give em.

wondering if a woman can get pregnant from oral IS a JOKE and therefore my post is directed at folks that are most concerned about STI's.

If you have sex with someone YOU SHOULD ALWAYS ASSUME that YOU WILL catch something or give something.

and I will say it one last time...CONDOMS ARE JUST A RESPONSIBLE FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL !!!

Most of the STD's people are worried about are transmitted through skin to skin contact AND PEOPLE DON'T ALWAYS SHOW SYMPTOMS !! so if you use a condom and you or someone has something, you WILL CATCH IT or YOU WILL GIVE IT...

If you dont' want to catch something don't have sex and don't kiss anyone EVER AGAIN FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.

The End

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Welp, that's it...

*tucks d!ck and balls in a suitcase and heads to Alaska*

 

[horaholic]

You have got to be fvcking kidding me!!! Do you live under a fvcking ROCK??

 

[horaholic]

Are you gonna ask if you can get herpes from masturbating cuz you've handled other peoples money?

 

[Bluntmaster]

Yes, they can get pregnant if they swallow your load. It's happened before I've seen it.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Frank,
It was Jane Seymour who said to her Ladies in waiting "Henry has kissed me will I be with child".

 

[Crow]

Please share the texting log. It sounds like a riot.

Her:"Do you like the oral sex?"
Him:" Would like you to perform oral sex to me when we're in the private place?"
Her:"Yes, of course. In the private place."
Him:"First you must be on the pill."

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Once I read about this strange case in some medical book filled with such oddities of some guy getting shot through the nuts, the bullet picking up a couple boys, then lodging in the ovaries of a nearby woman, impregnating her.

So be careful out there.

 

[Zarky]

I think the "mature man" forum should be based not on age but on actual maturity. That's my proposal.

No offense to the guys who are not in the know if in fact they're real and not trolling. But seriously, DAFS.

 

[Frank2500]

Re: Just to Set the Record Straight

I sincerely appreciate you guys' opinions and responses. @Fuglydude, just to set the record straight, I'm by no means a retard, nor am I sexually experienced. As I did explain in my post, out of all the sexual encounters I've had, very few of them have involved women performing oral sex on me. Even if I were sexually experienced, that shouldn't justify any of you to resort to insult me and gang up on me or ridicule me as seems to be my observation in some of your replies. This is supposed to be a forum where men can come together and share their fears, thoughts, concerns and opinions and most of all "obtain support." You wouldn't expect me to go post such an honest question of curiosity in a women's forum. Where else am I supposed to be enlightened on certain issues if I can't do so here?


And by the way, yes, I did watch an episode of one of the talk shows-I think it was either Montel, Ricky lake or some other show...where an HIV positive woman revealed that many men are unaware that they can contract HIV/AIDS through having oral sex performed on them. She said it remains a very little known fact. It was that episode that made me be very careful of allowing just any woman perform oral sex on me. So instead of ridiculing and insulting me as some folks continue to be so quick to do on this forum...stop, think, go over my post again and after having read it, try to understand the context under which I wrote it instead of dismissing me blindly and making assumptions.

 

[-E-]

Oh lawd.

 

[Maxtro]

Alrighty, just to set the record straight.

Yes there is some risk of transmitting and receiving STD's through oral sex.

Unless the woman was a carrier of HIV/AIDS and her gum's or part of her mouth was bleeding it is very hard to get AIDS from oral sex. Heck it's very hard to get AIDS from a woman if you have unprotected vaginal sex. Anal sex is much more riskier. The woman actually has a higher chance of getting HIV from you, than the other way around.

I would say that herpes would be the most common STD to get from oral sex. And that's if she was having an outbreak.

People are giving you a hard time about the pregnancy comment because that is something a 12 year old would ask, but most kids go through sex ed in elementary school or junior high. Maybe you don't live in America and never did sex ed.

The only way a woman can get pregnant is if semen went through her vagina into her uterus. The odds of a woman getting pregnant from a man's sperm that she has not had sex with, are infinitesimal.

Sperm dies very quickly upon contact with oxygen. So if the mans sperm landed anywhere on her body except for in her vagina, she can't get pregnant.

 

[Colossus]

I wasnt even going to respond to this absurdity but since I am a medical (PA) student---

HIV is primarily transmitted via homosexual anal intercourse, followed by heterosexual anal intercourse, followed by heterosexual vaginal intercourse, followed by oral sex. HIV is found in blood, lymph, and exocrine secretions (semen, vaginal fluid, colorectal mucus, breast milk, and yes--SALIVA), so it is possible--although unlikely---HIV can be transmitted orally.

Second, unless semen is released INSIDE of the vaginal canal, the probability of pregnancy occurring is astronomical. Yes, there have been strange medical anomalies that happen once in a blue moon, but you are more likely to get hit by a meteor than to be one of these people. Also, sperm do not 'die' upon contact with oxygen; since oxygen is present in all body tissues. Sperm cannot live for more than a couple hours outside of the vagina due to exposure to extra-physiologic temperatures and other physical elements, such as UV light, water, cosmetics, soap residues, etc.

 

[Frank2500]

Re:

All right, case closed. I'm neither gonna ask anything additional on this topic nor say anything else. I think I've been unfairly judged enough by some respondents already. And yes by the way, to one of the respondents who brought this up as a suggestion...I was raised in a very conservative African culture and we never took any sex education courses going on. Sex education was always perceived as taboo. It was only during the regular puberty stage that our parents began to educate us on the physical changes taking place in our bodies as most parents do. But nothing about sex was talked about in detail-we learned things on our own. Some of you on here need to learn to be a lot more tolerant, open-minded, patient and less judgmental with others. The lack of these qualities are what caused me to take a break from this forum for quite a long period of time.

 

[darkstarrr]

having an excuse for you ignorance, doesn't detract from the fact that you are indeed extremely ignorant.

didn't he just get through basically saying he feels like an idiot now? what does calling him ignorant after the fact serve to accomplish?