A quality woman.

[seanarcher]

I thought more about the "Am I looking for too much?" thread I made a few days ago, and sat down and thought of a list of what it is I'm looking for, and here's what I came up.

1.)And most important, a woman that I'm physically and sexually attracted to. Doesn't have to be "perfect" looking or a dime, just better than most.

2.)This woman would not be an AW or a flirt. The kind of person that will talk to people if they're introduced and be friendly and warm, but doesn't mislead, intentionally or unintentionally, AFCs who are trying to get in her pants.

3.)She would be throughly intrigued by me, but have her own interests and life. In other words, she'd stand and watch me play pick-up football with the guys, but she'd have stuff she likes to do too and not consider me her only means of happiness.

4.)She would crave physical contact, if not sex, constant kissing and petting, and would initiate it at times if she wanted it.

5.)Would give me reacharounds or oral while I brush my teeth or shave.

6.)Would cook me nachos topless and bring them to me and sit down and watch tv with me and let me feel her up in between commercials.

7.)Would be the kind of person that likes to go out, but isn't at a bar or club every weekend, and can sit at home at times too. Cliche, but true. She isn't going to slit her wrists if we aren't out in a large crowd.

8.)Doesn't care what her girl friends think, if she has any. Would gladly make out with me in front of her jealous friends just to prove she doesn't care.

9.)(Not so important but a plus)A good singing voice, so when I write lyrics to a song, she can sing the lead and accompany my piano playing.

 

[f283000]

dude, your type of quality woman does not exist anymore (well not here in feminist america and western europe) it seems to me you will have to work your butt off and save enough to buy yourself an asian/eastern european wife!

sorry bro, good luck working your butt off maybe in 10 years you can buy yourself that quality woman you crave.

 

[Rebound Material]

I made my own personal lists too but left out the excess stuff.

I agree with 1,2,3 and 8 because I think thats the most important aspects.

 

[seanarcher]

Number 7 is important too for me and probably should have been 4 on the list in importance and 8 should have been 5. By 7, I don't mean she's a homebody, I just mean that if her and I are home on a saturday night, her life isn't over and she can enjoy some "us" time whether sexually or just hanging out.

 

[Darth]

OK, there are some good points there. Here's my list:

Darth's Ideal Girl:

1. Extremely attractive with cute smile (long, curly/wavy hair a bonus). Virgin.

2. Classy. Is not afraid to wear dresses/skirts as well as pants/jeans. Polite to relatives and well-spoken.

3. Loyal to me (not a great big flirt with others) and very attached to me, in love with me. Is delighted at the thought of spending the rest of her life with someone as awesome as me.

4. Sweet personality. Takes pleasure in making me happy. When she disagrees with me, she isn't rude about it. Doesn't get upset when I seem like I don't have a lot of time for her some days, because she realizes I am busy.

5. Good cook.

6. Initiates physical contact all the time and responds well when I do. Comforts me when I'm down, hugs/kisses me when I'm frustrated, lets me vent any problems/frustrations I'm having and listens patiently.

7. Intelligent. Did well in college and beyond.

8. Shares my values/Christian.

9. Wants eventually to have my kids and stay at home to raise them too.

10. Doesn't try to be the boss/feminist. Realizes I am the man and that she doesn't have to go out to clubs, etc. to feel validated. Simply being loved by me is enough.

11. Likes to dance with me.

12. A good singer, so I can play piano and she can sing along.

BONUS: A hot foreign accent


If I ever find a girl like this, I'll marry her so fast she won't know what hit her

 

[seanarcher]

Wow, just when I thought I was picky, you topped me. Virgin, religious, college degree, and a good cook? I agree with you on the singing part, though. A girl that's an 8 or better with a really good voice, and I'm in.

 

[Darth]

^^ I don't actually expect to find someone like this nowadays, LOL. But a guy can dream, can't he?

 

[Dstructor]

Sure yo !
That's what dreams are for; becoming reality

My type of women...well, let's just say i'm a so simple in my taste that it's actually hard to find

• Must be sexually attractive; i hangout with women that i like and have a good spirit but without the Sek-see zing that's all it's gonna be and this by no means implying that i look at having female friends as lower than having them as lovers
  
• A femme; the cutie dress-lipstic-&-hair-done with a broad smile and interesting topics and stories. This actually is a symbol of being emotionally very soft and tender and at the same time open and expressive
  
• Body wise: I like the face, a defined chin and jawline are cool (and trust me i have a million variables in the face lol) but other features (eyes: big or small, cheeks,..etc) are just spices. I tend to go for busty or curvy chicks more than slim-janes; goes with the expressive trait i like but slim-janes can make up for it by some sexy non-chalant feminine swaggers
• Proportions are the issue here; fat or slim are okay but in approperiate proportions

LOL and that's it. from my little experience with girls, platonically still, i found out that these are the things that make me really happy with a girl

Funny thing is i always believed i liked butch chicks till i met this french-school hunnie in college; once she started with the french i was all "Dayumn...."

Simple, eh ?

EDIT: about the being picky subject. IMO it's cool bearing in mind that you want the things that make you happy not the things that are opposite of what makes you un-happy...you follow ?