A player at work

[Slickster]

An acquaintance of mine is a total player. People joke around my town if there are any women that haven't been with this guy.

I'm at the pub the other night with him watching a band.
There is a couple beside us who appear to be on a date.
The chick is about a 7.5
The two of them appear to be having a great time laughing and talking.
The guy goes to the bathroom and the chick turns to our table to ask us about the band.
My buddy makes a comment "Where's your boyfriend"
She says "He's not my boyfriend"
And thats it.

Half an hour later the guy goes to the bathroom again and the chick slides up to our table and says to my buddy the player,

Chick "I'm trying to lose my date"
Player "Why whats wrong? I'll take you out"
Chick " You're too young for me"
Player " I'm 32 how old r u?"
Chick " What's your number?"
Player gives her his number "Whats yours?"
Chick " I don't give out my number"

She goes back to her table just as her date returns.

A few minutes later the player gets up to leave and while in mid conversation with her date she says "what you're leaving?"
He was nice and said bye and was gone.

I was totally shocked cuz there was no contact other than him asking where her boyfriend went.

She may have been eavesdropping on our conversation and he was talking about two houses he just bought and how he is about to be audited. So maybe she's thinking he's got money or something. It was unbelievable cuz the player had been fishing all day, looked like hell and smelled like fish. He even had fish guts and blood on his shirt.

No questions here , any comments?

 

[xblitz44x]

Seems like these kinds of situations are turning up allllll over this board - ain't they? The guy made the chick wet off of sight alone. That's not to say he was great looking, or a model...just that he knew who he was, and radiated that, and did it well. She happened to like what he was selling. Period. All that he did was make something happen. He didn't need to neg her, or to open her with some stupid elvis line. He just started conversation, and that's all she needed. There is a chance she gave him a fake number, or might flake on him - but that's irrelevant. The attraction was there. Always was. He just had to act on it

-Blitz.

 

[RedHerring]

LOL weird, just posted in the wrong topic .....

 

[violator]

After reading several of XBlitz's posts on the subject of attraction, I can see where he is coming from based on personal experience and my own personal observations in watching others.

If there is physical attraction between two people, there is really no need to throw in phony lines or engage in SS dialogue. Just being yourself will usually suffice to close the deal. The problem is that many if not most men can't pick up on the signs that a woman is attracted to him and thus fail to act in the heat of the moment. Many opportunities are lost because of it.

Just several weeks ago, I met this very attractive female at a club. I sensed that she was scoping me out, so I immediately acted instead of just standing there like a chump waiting for her to make the first move. I said hi and engaged in very light conversation; no lines, no SS, just simple talk. After 10 minutes, I asked her if she wanted to walk me to my car because I had to leave early. I sensed her disapointment, and she agreed. I got her phone # and she even gave me a kiss on the lips and told me to call her. The funny thing is I was rejected by several far less attractive women before I approached this one.

There was no special formula for success. I simply acted on an opportunity. That is the secret of the succesful player. He has the knack to sense a girl's attraction and seizes the opportunity.

I suppose your player friend did the same. He got the number and left. Very smart move. Never stick around once you number close. That is very AFC unless you sense an ONS in the making.