a new situation here

[Packers2010]

ok so. i am friends with this girl. we been friends for a little over 8 months i would say and have been out a few times. with friends AND alone.

shes a nice girl and we have had a rocky friendship.

at first everything was ok and we went out and had fun. then i got drunk told her to break up with her bf. then told her i like her ( don't ask me why) then thought the friendship was over.

well it's not. i just haphazardly apologized and she is like. we are still friends just don't do it again.

I thing is. last time we was out. she randomly started talking about S&M then later on she started telling me that she has had unproteted sex with a ex bf of hers and never got pregnant, after doing it for a year.... yet she still wants kids.

all i said was, you should get that checked out. lol

what makes it worse is she is one of these no public displays of affection types of girls. when i say this. i mean it to it's full exstent. one time she didn't talk to me for 2 weeks cos i touched her. ( she was driving, and i was drunk. i just kept poking her and laughing.)


her bf is some fly in fly out guy so he works away a lot. plus he is WAY too old for her. he is 26 she is 19

i just wanted to get you guys take on this. cos from what i hear she is a kinky chick. plus she dose look good in heals.

not sure what my play is. just to note this isn't my be end all. she is just a thought.

 

[Bible_Belt]

i am friends with this girl...shes a nice girl

she randomly started talking about S&M...telling me that she has had unprotected sex..from what i hear she is a kinky chick.


It sounds like you're talking about two different girls, doesn't it?

I don't think there's such a thing as a "nice girl" with whom you can be "friends," without it being a frustrating waste of time. There are, however, plenty of kinky s&m chicks out there. But they are the same women as the "nice girls" that most guys are trying to be "friends" with.

I would say to drop the friend act. Don't tell her that you're not her friend, but only hang out with her in groups. If you're spending time alone with her, it should be leading to sex. That goes for any girl. Alcohol helps, but not when you're the one who's had too much.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

I know you, Packers. You're the dude who announced his love to his "friend" of 15 years. Sure, you ultimately got to bang her...but i think we'd both agree that it's not going to work that way most of the time

Stop becoming "friends" with girls you want to bang. And stop TELLING them how you feel.

If you want to get in her pants, grab her and kiss her. Don't talk about it. Do it.

 

[Packers2010]

I know you, Packers. You're the dude who announced his love to his "friend" of 15 years. Sure, you ultimately got to bang her...but i think we'd both agree that it's not going to work that way most of the time

Stop becoming "friends" with girls you want to bang. And stop TELLING them how you feel.

If you want to get in her pants, grab her and kiss her. Don't talk about it. Do it.

yeah this is different. i was just speculating. plus when i say nice girl. she is nice to me. lol. plus she doesn't get into trouble.

EDIT: when i told her i liked her. i was drunk. it wasn't my intention to. it doesn't matter much. i don't think i will do anything just yet. cos it will rewin our friendship. i mean MAYBE if i kino and build up sexual tention. then MAYBE she might want to.