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A New Meaning to C&F

Boricua_33015

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A New Meaning to C&F

For a long time on this board, C+F has been hailed as a technique which
works. Its a good technique, but so many people don't really know how
to use it correctly. Part of the problem is in the name itself. ****Y.

****y is seen as arrogant, boasting, or bragging. It
can also be seen as conceited.

In the past I've used C&F but received results that I
didn't like. Some girls said I was too ****y or
arrogant.

For this reason I have developed my own meaning of C&F
so I don't get confused about how I should use C&F.
This NEW meaning is Confident & Funny.

See, when you use confidence instead of ****iness, you
are not bragging about how sexy you are, or how
attractive you are. Instead you are more humble.

Your confidence is to be shown through your actions,
choice of words, tone of voice, body movements and
body language, making a confident aura. This already
makes you desirable and sexy in a woman's eyes. You
are not arrogantly saying "I know I'm sexy."

Most of you will say: "BUT THAT'S NOT C+F THATS BEING STUPID
LOL!!!!1111"

Is it? By definition, that's EXACTLY what C+F is. So what are you
talking about?

Here are some examples of the difference between
confidence and ****iness.

HB: "your so hard to figure out!"
****y response: "please I know you find it sexy, just
admit it"

Confident response
: "I know"

With the traditional ****iness, its almost like your
putting words or thoughts into her mouth and then she
will 99% of the time see you as arrogant or conceited.

With the confident responses, they are short, sweet,
simple, and to the point. They SHOW confidence. You
know what your doing, you don't have to boast. Plus its
more mysterious. That way the woman will wonder about
you. Another example:

HB "You're sexy!" (she is kinoing like crazy)
****y response: "I know. I'm so sexy you can
barely control yourself!"

Confident response: "I know, you can't keep your hands off me"

See?

****iness is more like, trying to reassure her that
you know that you are turning her on; its like fake
confidence. With confident responses, you are so
confident and sure of yourself that you don't need to
boast or you don't need to reassure her that you are
sexy because your confident personality and character
already makes you sexy!

Confident responses also adds a bit of mystery. You
use less words, its short, sweet, simple and to the
point with no pointless, irrelevant boasting or bragging.

Like traditional C&F, this technique has to be done with a smirk on your face.

About the funny part of Confident & Funny.... just be
humorous.... that's all! Be conservative, and really try to keep OFF of
sexual topics unless you are getting clear signals from her that she
wishes to try something. Keep it easy going, and carefree, and don't
forget the kino!

Good luck to you all who go out into the field and try this improvised
idea. Thank you for reading.
 
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good post

This Post Really keeps the Golden Age Of Grotesque Alive.

I believe that the meaning of C+F was grossly misintpreted until now. I'm glad to see you dug deep into the bible and unearthed the true meaning and brought it back to life!
 

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You're concentrating too hard on this stuff, man. The example you gave... There's maybe a 2 word difference. Besides, there's no hard and fast rule on this. Some girls will respond to a more ****y approach.. Some girls won't. You notice this stuff and take it into account.

Basically, do what works for you. We use phrases like "****y/funny" to have a simple way to describe a fairly complicated set of actions - it's not a way written in stone. Everyone has their own take on it.
 

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Originally posted by Da Game
You're concentrating too hard on this stuff, man. The example you gave... There's maybe a 2 word difference. Besides, there's no hard and fast rule on this. Some girls will respond to a more ****y approach.. Some girls won't. You notice this stuff and take it into account.

Basically, do what works for you. We use phrases like "****y/funny" to have a simple way to describe a fairly complicated set of actions - it's not a way written in stone. Everyone has their own take on it.
Which is why we're trying to get it right.
 

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All your doing is toning down the ****y a little bit, saying the things you said does not make you look confident, just less ****y.

I think you might actually come off looking more conceited, because ****y is associated with humor. When you take out the humor(like you've done w/ your 'confidence') then people will take you for conceited.

****y is MEANT to be exaggerated, if you do it right, then the girl will know that you don't really think all that about yourself and know your joking. The key to this is to always have a smirk on your face, so she knows your joking.

Girls always say to me, "Escalade, your so freakin ****y" but they always have a smile on their face and are laughing because ITS FUNNY.

Like Da Game said, not all girls are the same. Some are going to like the ****y guy because he's perceived as more fun. And some are gonna like the confident guy you described because he seems more serious.(Although I see it as a potential backfire like I said above)
 

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actually I think the ****y and Funny is better used in the club scene, and only that. Because when a girl goes to a club, they are looking for the more dominant male.

Thats just my opinion.
 

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Originally posted by Escalade


****y is MEANT to be exaggerated, if you do it right, then the girl will know that you don't really think all that about yourself and know your joking. The key to this is to always have a smirk on your face, so she knows your joking.

Yes, that really is the most important part. As long as the girl knows you're joking around, you can say pretty much whatever you want.
 

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Sorry if I'm wrong but arent you the guy with no friends and no girls? So how exactly is this confidence funny working for you?
 

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well. I do my C&F with a smirk too on my face too.
 

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actually it is working..... when was the last time I posted about a problem with girls?

Yea, very long time.
 

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Is this post serious?
 

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Originally posted by The Matrix: Reloaded
Is this post serious?
*Reviews post* Looks like an attempt to be serious...
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
*Reviews post* Looks like an attempt to be serious...

lol, man you sound like an asskisser :D



check out my reply in the "tips" section.
 

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Originally posted by oreo_renegade
lol, man you sound like an asskisser :D



check out my reply in the "tips" section.
Ass kisser? Nah. I already see about 3 people up his ass and on his dick, lol. Wow, look at those newbies go! :p
 

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Originally posted by Boricua_33015

HB "You're sexy!" (she is kinoing like crazy)
****y response: "I know. I'm so sexy you can
barely control yourself!"

Confident response: "I know, you can't keep your hands off me"


I dunno, maybe I'm just not getting this, but it seems like you're just arguing word choice. Now, any honors english student could tell you that diction is important, but I personally feel it's how you say things not what you say. Said in the correct way, both lines would be just fine. **** up how you say them, they blow. I'd try to post about how to say things differently, but honestly I can't figure out the words to even describe it.

I agree 100% with the guy that said that all you're really doing is scaling down ****y and funny. I mean, obviously, you have to think for yourself and realize sometimes you can be outrageous and sometimes you gotta cool it a little. I don't really consider this a tip.

I dunno, whatever works for you I guess, man. If thinking of it this way helps you, good for you.

But I do wanna point out that when I saw this post, the first thing that popped into my head is what Big Pimpin said. Even if this was a real tip, I'd have some serious trouble believing it because in my mind it could just be theory. And not to sound like an ass, but it's not like it's theory coming out of a guy like Pook. I'll give him the benefit of the doubt if he says something. I can't say the same about you bro.

Oh, and don't post the same **** on two boards man.

--Mike
 

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The examples I gave were horrible I admit.

Truth is, Im not much experienced with C&F.

Matrix said its a attitude or mindset.

Well I guess this is aimed toward people who arent NATURALLY ****y and funny.

Plus, this tip is sort of personal for me. This is just what works for me. This is the way I play my game, and I am just sharing it with you.

Its just a different perspective. This is what I have gathered from experience.
 

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Your first example was confident but not funny at all.

Your second example was the same thing with a different choice of words.

If I'm not mistaken, you are just looking for respect from people on the forum.
 

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well you are mistaken. But you can think whatever you want to think.

This is just how I run my game. I usually change it up so the girl won't figure me out easily. I throw in some arrogance but its mostly when a girl acts like she is higher than me.

And guess what, I think that if all you people who posted unconstructive critsizm didn't know me as Boricua you all wouldn't be critisizing.

Well, I can't change people's thoughts about me.
 

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Originally posted by Boricua_33015
A New Meaning to C&F

HB: "your so hard to figure out!"
****y response: "please I know you find it sexy, just
admit it"

Confident response
: "I know"

MY RESPONSE: so tell me about your day


HB "You're sexy!" (she is kinoing like crazy)
****y response: "I know. I'm so sexy you can
barely control yourself!"

Confident response: "I know, you can't keep your hands off me"

yea, i really dont feel that these are coming from experiences


ive never herd a girl choose those words but if a girl sad that to me i wouldnt respond id just kiss her.
 

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You guys DON'T GET IT.

I added and edited a bunch of that post. No experience?
Whatsupwiddat has no experience?

Why are you looking at his registration date and not what he has to say?

I think he's right, completely. Why are you all jsut saying he is a "newbie looking for a place here"? He's a very smart guy. I know the guy.

We did, admittedly, use drastic examples, but they got the point across.

Call me stupid, I don't care. We did your best. Whether you choose to listen or not is up to you. I have more success this way than ever before.
 
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