This article is inspired by my cruise that I recently got back from. This experience really changed my outlook on life, and more specifically on how to view women, and how to deal with women you are interested in.
First I will talk about the view of life in general that I have aquired from this. I am really starting to see the beauty of everyday situations. This started from spending alot of time with a guy from mexico named Carlos. Carlos carried a note pad around with him all day, and when he was inspired by something he wrote it down. For example, a girl that was on the cruise was standing up against a wall right where there was a black trim. He wrote about how she looked like a painting framed by the black trim on the white wall.
Not everyone will enjoy writing about simple beauties like this, but what this really leads to in my opinion is my new found perspective of living life in the moment. The moment that you are in right now will never come again. Whats happened in you're past has just given you experience for how to deal with things that are happening right now in you're life. Dont dwell on the future, or the past. Just make every moment count. This does not always have to relate back to picking up women, it also revolves around self improvement, so in other words improving you're life, participating in activities, even going for a walk outside can be a great experience. Dont just sit around your house regretting things that didnt go you're way, or worrying about whats going to happen in your future. If you make good decisions now then you wont have anything to worry about in the future.
The concept of living in the moment also comes back to you're encounters with women. If you are walking down the street and pass a gorgeous women, talk to her. I mean why not? You are living in the moment now. This may be the only time you will see her again so if you dont at least say hi and try to initiate a conversation you will never know what could have become of it. Maybe she is stuck up, or is married, but how will you know. If you dont talk to her this leads to dwelling in the past which as I have already mentioned is something you want to avoid.
The perspective of seeing beauty around you also tends to attract women. From the experiences on the cruise I have noticed this. On the boat there was a piano bar, and art auctions. I found that whenever Carlos, and myslef attended one of these functions and women passed by and saw us they came and talked to us, or at least smiled. They were very intrueged by the fact that we appreciated things such as piano music, or art, and they were very quick to want to discover more. I think that this interest in the arts is not something that is usually portrayed by men, and is something that the women I am interested in respect. Girls that think this is weird are not girls that I want, I want cultured girls that are able to have an interesting conversation that involves more that their newest outfit, or color of their hair.
Keeping a journal, or notebook about things that have inspired you also captivates girls attention. If you are talking to a beautiful girl, and you pull out the notebook and write something, she is going to want to know what you wrote. If you say something like, "oh... the way you looked just a second ago when the light caught you're eyes was really amazing and i wanted to remeber it" she will melt. You dont want to sound weird like "you are the most amazing girl i have ever seen and i want to remember exactly how you look when i read this later tonight" that would scare her off. You dont want these to come off as compliments, but just as simple observations that show you have an eye for beauty other than breasts.
On this cruise there was also a group of guys that were actively pursuing almost every girl on the boat. The would use lines like "you are the most beautiful girl on the boat" and then say things like "i am a security gaurd, you cant leave until you kiss me, or give me a hug". Girls were repulsed, and a little bit scared of the guys like this, and would always come to Carlos, and myself for reasurance, or to have someone walk them to their rooms becuase they were worried. They knew we were not a physical threat to them, and that we were thinking about things other than having sex with them. This opened them up, and gained us their trust. This in turn got us into their rooms completely into the idea of fooling around with us. We had not even expressed any romantic interest in them, just simply showed a respect for them, and a cultured personality with appreciation for small things in life. It worked pretty much everytime.
These concepts might now be for everyone, or small ideas might help some people. I know they have worked for me, not just for women, but also for my everyday life. Living in the moment and appreciating small subtle beauties in life can improve you're self esteem, self confidence, and in general the quality of you're life.
First I will talk about the view of life in general that I have aquired from this. I am really starting to see the beauty of everyday situations. This started from spending alot of time with a guy from mexico named Carlos. Carlos carried a note pad around with him all day, and when he was inspired by something he wrote it down. For example, a girl that was on the cruise was standing up against a wall right where there was a black trim. He wrote about how she looked like a painting framed by the black trim on the white wall.
Not everyone will enjoy writing about simple beauties like this, but what this really leads to in my opinion is my new found perspective of living life in the moment. The moment that you are in right now will never come again. Whats happened in you're past has just given you experience for how to deal with things that are happening right now in you're life. Dont dwell on the future, or the past. Just make every moment count. This does not always have to relate back to picking up women, it also revolves around self improvement, so in other words improving you're life, participating in activities, even going for a walk outside can be a great experience. Dont just sit around your house regretting things that didnt go you're way, or worrying about whats going to happen in your future. If you make good decisions now then you wont have anything to worry about in the future.
The concept of living in the moment also comes back to you're encounters with women. If you are walking down the street and pass a gorgeous women, talk to her. I mean why not? You are living in the moment now. This may be the only time you will see her again so if you dont at least say hi and try to initiate a conversation you will never know what could have become of it. Maybe she is stuck up, or is married, but how will you know. If you dont talk to her this leads to dwelling in the past which as I have already mentioned is something you want to avoid.
The perspective of seeing beauty around you also tends to attract women. From the experiences on the cruise I have noticed this. On the boat there was a piano bar, and art auctions. I found that whenever Carlos, and myslef attended one of these functions and women passed by and saw us they came and talked to us, or at least smiled. They were very intrueged by the fact that we appreciated things such as piano music, or art, and they were very quick to want to discover more. I think that this interest in the arts is not something that is usually portrayed by men, and is something that the women I am interested in respect. Girls that think this is weird are not girls that I want, I want cultured girls that are able to have an interesting conversation that involves more that their newest outfit, or color of their hair.
Keeping a journal, or notebook about things that have inspired you also captivates girls attention. If you are talking to a beautiful girl, and you pull out the notebook and write something, she is going to want to know what you wrote. If you say something like, "oh... the way you looked just a second ago when the light caught you're eyes was really amazing and i wanted to remeber it" she will melt. You dont want to sound weird like "you are the most amazing girl i have ever seen and i want to remember exactly how you look when i read this later tonight" that would scare her off. You dont want these to come off as compliments, but just as simple observations that show you have an eye for beauty other than breasts.
On this cruise there was also a group of guys that were actively pursuing almost every girl on the boat. The would use lines like "you are the most beautiful girl on the boat" and then say things like "i am a security gaurd, you cant leave until you kiss me, or give me a hug". Girls were repulsed, and a little bit scared of the guys like this, and would always come to Carlos, and myself for reasurance, or to have someone walk them to their rooms becuase they were worried. They knew we were not a physical threat to them, and that we were thinking about things other than having sex with them. This opened them up, and gained us their trust. This in turn got us into their rooms completely into the idea of fooling around with us. We had not even expressed any romantic interest in them, just simply showed a respect for them, and a cultured personality with appreciation for small things in life. It worked pretty much everytime.
These concepts might now be for everyone, or small ideas might help some people. I know they have worked for me, not just for women, but also for my everyday life. Living in the moment and appreciating small subtle beauties in life can improve you're self esteem, self confidence, and in general the quality of you're life.
