A natural's way with women

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This post serves two purposes – to illustrate that young women are a dime a dozen and that the PUA mindset has nothing in common with naturals. This is the story covering about three months.

When I first moved out on my own I moved into an apartment with my brother. Although it was in an older building it was still a luxury unit of nearly 2000 square feet which provided the opportunity to have parties of 60 people or more.

While moving in there were two young women who sat on the front steps and watched my friends and I move in. The one looked a little like a frog (S) but the other was kind of hot (M). About a week after moving in we had a home welcoming party. As we hadn’t yet met anyone in the building we hadn’t invited any of them. However, as the party got underway there was a knock at the door and (S) and (M) were there - inviting themselves over. I talked quite a bit with (M) and we really hit it off though nothing came of it.

The next week there was another party. This time there was another girl (K). She arrived with a group of people I didn’t know and there was a guy who was hanging onto her. I thought the guy was a little overbearing and wondered why she would tolerate such a guy. They sat on one of the couches and his hand made its way deep between her legs. I kind of flirted with her at one point but figured she was with a boyfriend. Not long into the party and one of the other girls (N) approached me and told me that (K) really didn’t like the guy she was with and would rather be with me.

Next thing I knew the guy came up to me and apologized for putting a move on my girl. Apparently (N) had told him to but out. Soon after (N) brought (K) to me and (K) said something about not feeling well – wanting to lay down. I took her into my bedroom and allowed her to lay on my bed. As she laid there we talked for awhile. It soon became apparent to me that she wasn’t felling sick. So I went and got us a couple of drinks and some snacks and returned to my bedroom – locking the door as I returned. We sat and then laid there for more than an hour talking. At one point she had tried to explain her behavior with the other guy – said something about not really enjoying a party unless a guy was trying to get into her pants.

As we laid and talked, I scooted closer and closer to her until we were practically snuggling. At that point I started to undress her which she offered no resistance….

A few days later another girl showed up at the apartment. A few weeks earlier there was a girl (the same (N) as mentioned earlier). She had arranged a date between a German girl (P) she had recently met and a friend of mine. Part of the deal was that she would go along as a chaperone. Not wanting to be a third wheel she invited me to accompany her. Anyhow, as it turned out, my friend and (P) didn’t hit it off so well. The four of us were party hopping and I kept sneaking flirts with (P). At some point we stopped at a pizza place to eat. When my friend and (N) went off to the bathroom (P) smacked the seat next to her and even though we couldn’t understand each other so well (her English was about as good as my German) I quickly understood her meaning so that by time my friend and (N) returned (P) and I were making out.

Anyhow, after a few meetings with (P) she was insistent on moving in with me which I reluctantly agreed to. Now was the problem, I was living with (P) but still going out with (K). However, (P) left a lot without telling me where she was going which made me suspect that she might have another boyfriend besides me. A guy who lived in our building took an interest in (P) and told me so. I told him it was okay if he pursued her as it would give me time with (K). So, while I was out with (K) this guy told (P) that I had another girl so that later on she would move out, but not with the guy but with the other boyfriend I suspected she had.

A couple of weeks later, at another party there was a group of young women there whose ride had left them stranded. I told them that I would give them a ride home later that night. There were four of these women and I took them home. They all lived in the same neighborhood and I dropped them off one by one. When I got to the last (C) she didn’t tell me where she lived but rather asked if I liked her. Earlier, at the party we had flirted a bit and I was hopping we could get together. When I nodded my head in the affirmative she reached across the center console and started running her hand across my stomach and legs. I asked her if she wanted to go home or if she wanted to return with me which she responded with a kiss and more aggressive groping. When I got her back to my place I was really in the mood. I must have ejaculated in her ten times that night. The last one was on the dry side but still quite a thrill. It’s what brought her back a couple of years later, but that is another story.

For the next couple of weeks I was switching back and forth between (K) and (C) enjoying myself very much.

One night a bunch of people arrived at my apartment, mostly my brother’s friends and soon there was a party going on. Neither (K) nor (C) was there. Seeing that there was another party going on, (S) and (M) again invited themselves over. Quickly (M) and I hit it off again. In our conversation I mentioned that I had made all of my own furniture. In showing her the different pieces we ended up in my bedroom where was my largest piece, a king sized water bed. (Remember this was more that 30 years ago.) She said that she had never slept on a water bed and if it was okay that if she came over some day, if she could sleep on it. I told her, “sure”.

Later that night, after the other guests had left and I was about to lay down to sleep there was a knock at the door. It was (M) in her pajamas and robe saying that tonight was as good as any other. When we got to my bedroom she took off her robe. Since she was wearing grandma-style flannel pajamas I figured she was really just there to see what it was like to sleep on a water bed.

The next night, as I was about to lay down to sleep there was another knock at the door. It was (M) again. And, again, she had on her robe and fuzzy slippers. But this time, when we got to my bedroom, when she removed her robe, rather than the grandma-style flannel pajamas, she was bare a$$ed naked. Thus began my adventure with a woman who was more addicted to sex than I have ever been. I’ll continue with a future thread “Life with Monica” (not her real name)
 

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Not really the right place for a game denialist . Try puahate.com

Btw gender genie has you at a wopping 2977 for a female score as opposed to 1509 for a male. just saying. Weird how you and our zarky always score off the richter for odds on being female. Considering how alike you 2 are makes it even spookier :eek:

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When's 50 shades of potato coming out? Can't wait.
 

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Not sure if this is necessarily evidence to label someone as "a natural." Maybe evidence to label someone as "in college"
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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Plenty of guys are in college and are invisible to all the women there. Being in a target rich environment is only one necessary part.

That said, I don't really believe potatoes stories and they certainly appear to be written by a female. Even very good looking naturals don't have pvzzy thrown at them that effortlessly and no muss or fuss, at least not from any women they'd want. Only women can sit on their azz and sex falls in their lap.
 

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Being in a target rich environment don't mean sh*t. It can be 3 men and 50 women in an area and all 3 men can wind up invisible.

An attractive female will always get more attention than an attractive male any day of the week. The fact is, a guy gotta work for the pu$$y. Women don't have to work for dik, it just gets thrown at them daily.
 

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Actually, I understand exactly what was going on in each scenario. Good stories. People who have difficulty understanding what's going on will not be able to read between the lines so this is for everyone's benefit. Before I go any further, I'll have to explain a few simple principles when it comes to women. Women approach men and they make subtle come-ons when it comes to men.

WOMEN DO NOT COMMUNICATE DIRECTLY. THEY COMMUNICATE INDIRECTLY IF THEY LIKE YOU. In many cases this is the way they communicate. And when it comes to getting physical, WOMEN GET PHYSICAL GRADUALLY, ADVANCING MORE AND MORE GRADUALLY. You have to burn these two principles of female behavior into your brain when it comes to dealing with them on a romantic/sexual level.

Gradual doesn't necessarily mean slow. Gradual could happen within 5 or 10 minutes. Gradual could happen little by little over an hour's time. What I mean is this. You turn on the oven. You can turn the dial of an oven to 400 degrees very quickly. Or you can turn the oven to 100 for 20 minutes. Then 200 for another 20 minutes. 300. Then 400. Both were gradual.

Now I'll break down in bold letters what was going on after quoting certain sections.

Potato said: This post serves two purposes – to illustrate that young women are a dime a dozen.

*** Attractive women really ARE a dime a dozen. Next time go for a walk in a mall or walk through a crowded area or go to a bar or club and simply count the number of physically attractive women you see.



"Not long into the party and one of the other girls (N) approached me and told me that (K) really didn’t like the guy she was with and would rather be with me."


***She told her friend to go talk to him because she wasn't comfortable saying this to him face to face. She used a friend as a buffer for her shyness and/or fear of rejection.

"Soon after (N) brought (K) to me and (K) said something about not feeling well – wanting to lay down. I took her into my bedroom and allowed her to lay on my bed. As she laid there we talked for awhile. It soon became apparent to me that she wasn’t felling sick."

***Women that like you come up with innocent excuses to create a situation where it's easy for one thing to lead to another/ where it's easy for things to advance physically and sexually.


"So I went and got us a couple of drinks and some snacks and returned to my bedroom – locking the door as I returned. We sat and then laid there for more than an hour talking. At one point she had tried to explain her behavior with the other guy – said something about not really enjoying a party unless a guy was trying to get into her pants."

***That was a subtle, indirect come-on. She would have never said "I won't enjoy this party unless YOU F*CK ME RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW.". No. Women will talk about some nebulous "guy" while looking at you and hope you get the hint. This by itself means nothing but when you combine what she said with all of her other behaviors (having her girlfriend say she wanted to be with him and going out of her way to get him alone) then she is clearly coming on to him. Women can also avoid potential rejection this way.


"As we laid and talked, I scooted closer and closer to her until we were practically snuggling. At that point I started to undress her which she offered no resistance…."

***A woman won't resist what she wants. Especially if you both move forward gradually.



"When my friend and (N) went off to the bathroom (P) smacked the seat next to her and even though we couldn’t understand each other so well (her English was about as good as my German) I quickly understood her meaning so that by time my friend and (N) returned (P) and I were making out."

*** Women that like you will find opportunities to get physically closer to you.

"Anyhow, after a few meetings with (P) she was insistent on moving in with me which I reluctantly agreed to."

***This is where potato screwed up. I hope you learned your lesson after 30 years. You need to be almost ready to marry a woman before you let her move in. BAD POTATO!


"When I got to the last (C) she didn’t tell me where she lived but rather asked if I liked her. Earlier, at the party we had flirted a bit and I was hopping we could get together. When I nodded my head in the affirmative she reached across the center console and started running her hand across my stomach and legs. I asked her if she wanted to go home or if she wanted to return with me which she responded with a kiss and more aggressive groping."

***There was a lot going on that he didn't put in his story because they seem like minor details to him.

"Quickly (M) and I hit it off again."

***That's because M already had her eyes on you.


In our conversation I mentioned that I had made all of my own furniture. In showing her the different pieces we ended up in my bedroom where was my largest piece, a king sized water bed. (Remember this was more that 30 years ago.) She said that she had never slept on a water bed and if it was okay that if she came over some day, if she could sleep on it. I told her, “sure”.

***Once again. Women that like you like to find subtle excuses to put themselves in a situation where the two of you could possibly end up sleeping together. She will never say "I want you to f*ck my brains out." until AFTER you've already been sleeping together.

"It was (M) in her pajamas and robe saying that tonight was as good as any other. When we got to my bedroom she took off her robe. Since she was wearing grandma-style flannel pajamas I figured she was really just there to see what it was like to sleep on a water bed.

The next night, as I was about to lay down to sleep there was another knock at the door. It was (M) again. And, again, she had on her robe and fuzzy slippers. But this time, when we got to my bedroom, when she removed her robe, rather than the grandma-style flannel pajamas, she was bare a$$ed naked."

*** She was testing the waters at first. Then she figured she had you where she wanted you.

OK. For anyone who didn't quite understand what was going on, there it is. Pretty simple. Pretty cut and dry. Hope this helps.
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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Slickster said:
When did this story take place 1980?
Yes. It was a good time to be a young man. The girls I grew up with were the first generation to be sexually and financially liberated without having to fight for it – thanks in great part to the widespread availability and use of oral contraceptives, even among Catholic girls. And it was before AIDS. I kept journals back then. It seems that getting close to a woman and kind of feeling my way along until she invites me to take action has been a staple of mine for a long time.

There was a common thread that occurred with each of these young women that I didn’t mention enough. That is that each of our encounters began with and involved a great deal of eye contact before we ever spoke and then even more thereafter.

With (P), she had lily white skin with dark brown hair, green eyes, and high cheek bones that gave her an exotic kind of look that was greatly accentuated by a thick German accent to her broken English. From the moment I first met her, I was spellbound, and even though she was my friend’s date, I made eyes with her repeatedly. I only did this because from the first moment she readily played along. Part of what made it exciting was that we were flirting and nobody seemed to notice – you know – that secret society of two. With her it was even more important that we understand each other with our eyes as our language was a bit of a barrier.

With (M) when I first arrived to move in she and her friend were sitting on the front steps leading to the main door to the apartment building. Our eyes caught and though it was only fleeting, there was enough play that on each ensuing passing there were looks and smiles, smirks, winks, and giggles - just little things, in little measure. This is the game I play with women. From the time I met her until we slept together spanned almost three months during which she saw me take three other women up to my apartment several times over. Yet, it was the little flirts when passing that kept us on the same wavelength. Plus, I think that she got off on the idea that other women liked me.

(K) was a little different. I first took notice of her because of the aggressive nature of the guy that was making a play for her. I kept looking at her, my curiosity aroused to what a woman must be like to seemingly tolerate such a man. She soon found me looking at her by which she seemed to warm up to my glances as if we were old trusted friends. When she first started her ruse to get rid of the guy, I truly thought that it was just a ruse. It took me quite awhile to realize how she was manipulating things. I liked her though because she tended to manipulate things to our favor, rather than just for herself.

(C) like (K) had golden blonde hair with bright blue eyes. She really turned me on but was such that in a party she moved about, talking to many. It was hard to get close to her, especially in the shy kind of way I was still approaching chicks. Yet, in all the chaos we managed to catch each others’ eyes now and then.

So, you see, with each of these women everything began with looking each other in the eyes and starting a conversation before either of us spoke a word. I think that a good couple could make a great stealth team as they learn to communicate quietly and subtly.

Thank you Aristippus for your analysis. My intention was to show how a natural gets women, the game that is played, that it is a two way game.
 

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Felt like I was reading some sort of nightmarish combination of the derivation of the Naviar stokes equations and some episode of 90210..
 
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