A mans voice matters

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Just a convo i was having with a plate and her friend. They were saying that a guys voice can either be a turn on or a turn off. Voice is often like scent. If a girl finds your scent or voice attractive, then its a boost to you. This is something we often overlook. There is not much we can do about your voice. There are some things you can do like try to speak more slowly and in a more deep voice. Just something I thought was interesting.
 

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Just a convo i was having with a plate and her friend. They were saying that a guys voice can either be a turn on or a turn off. Voice is often like scent. If a girl finds your scent or voice attractive, then its a boost to you. This is something we often overlook. There is not much we can do about your voice. There are some things you can do like try to speak more slowly and in a more deep voice. Just something I thought was interesting.
The sound of someone's voice is very important. Mine is naturally low and a little rough. Women love it.

And the sound of a woman's voice is a make or break for me. If her voice is too high pitched or she runs her mouth too much, I just can't go there.

-Augustus-
 
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You don't have to try to speak slower or deeper. It doesn't make a big enough difference in the grand scheme of it all.

But it is true that your voice is like a scent.
 

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I've never had a whole lot of bass in my voice (which is why I avoid loud clubs, parties, etc.) BUT I do speak very well and am confident and articulate in how I speak. Now don't get me wrong, these guys with real deep voices have it made, but it's all about working to your strengths and improving those as best you can.
 

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I've never had a problem with this, my natural voice is deep and resonant. But, for sh!ts and g's, I've done this trick before. Works instantly and lasts for several hours. Have fun!

 

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Voice and cadence (the rhythm that you speak with) can both be extremely sexy.

If you want an example of cadence, think of William Shatner's Captain Kirk on Star Trek. His cadence is not what you want to emulate really (please no - that would be ridiculous)...but it's a good example of what cadence is.

I really appreciate a good resonant voice. But it isn't a deal breaker if you are otherwise appealing.
 

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Issac Hayes (1942-2008) as Chef in South Park. He had a deep voice and had good candor in character. :up:
 

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I have a slightly effeminate sounding voice. But, it is what it is.

On the other extreme, I used to chuckle listening to a certain seduction guru (who shall remain nameless) who used to FORCE his voice to have extra bass. It sounded so tryhard.

If you naturally have the deep voice, great. If you don’t, you don’t. Don’t force it.
 
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i sound like a southern version of mike tyson i have a very high pitched voice. stop listening to women they dont' know what the **** they want

think about the first time you gave your child a hamburger. they didn't know they awnted that mother****er til they ate it. women are the same
 

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Just one more ridiculous thing women can use to filter out men. Next Tinder will require voice submissions. lol.
 

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I agree with this. Was just thinking it the other day watching some reruns of Star Trek Voyager. Kes's voice alone gets me hot and bothered. A little on the deep side as women's voices go.
 
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