A little dancing tip.

SnatchJP

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I stumbled on this almost by accident at a dance I went to a couple days ago. Many guys already use this for when they're freaking but it's also is a VERY effective way to turn on a girl while slow dancing.

It's rediculously easy. Instead of keeping your hands in one place the whole time, move them around. The main idea is to caress and explore her body. Don't to keep your hands in the same place for too long. Just do it moderately slowly, you don't need to give her a rug burn.

The results are almost magical. Girls will love it. I don't mean they'll be amused, I don't mean they'll enjoy it, I mean they'll LOVE IT! They start getting so into it it's freakin insane!

If you don't think your date has much interest, stick to the sort of "non-threatening" areas like the sides and upper back (Or stomach depending on how you're dancing). Even sticking to these areas will bump up her interest level. And once, thats happened, you can get a little more risky.

Expiriment a little, see what places on her body turn her on, but don't spend too much time there, vary things a little. Usual hot spots include any bare skin, her neck, and the upper chest (above the twin towers), and the hips. Oh and don't forget the booty and tits, although you'll want to be fairly sure she's ready for those, (try coming close and "missing" a few times, not only does it gauge if she's ready, but it also builds tension and expectancy that you want.) When you use them you're going to have one turned on HB on your hands!

Hope this helps you guys out.
 

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nice post
running your hands from the lower part of her legs to her stomach/chest area is money, it looks good too
 

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¡BuMp!

Lets make sure people see this one...
 

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If only I knew how to freak, or what is involved.

My friend said it's like sex standing up. I don't go to school dances, I don't know. 100% of my action is done 1 on 1 with a girl.
 

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Damn! I can't dance to save my life! I rele need to do something about it!

Seriously, dancing is practicly the only thing I just cant get! Now, my convo and **** is tops now. I went to a black tie formal thing last night ( organised by a rele rich *****) and I was ruleing with convo like never before. Ok- this may be really old for you guys who have been doing this for longer than me, but this was the first party where I moved from one group to the next, and the focus was always on me.

I enjoyed that, made me feel like I had arrived:cool:
And I swear, the feeling is better than head.

But still, dancing started, and to be fair, it could have been worse. I did manage to get 4 girls doing pole dancing stuff around me ( I love being the pole) but I just freeze up so badly if I have to dance one on one! If its a group its ok- but one on one, I cant help feeling like the penis I look like.

The only bit of advice I can get out of this is learn and practice before you have to dance, and I'm not sure if just reading articles on it will help you. Is there any ways anyone has either got over their fear (?) of dancing?
 
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Well the way I got over it was when I learned how to freak. I met this one girl from alaska who was showing hig interest and we got to the dance floor.

Her: So, do you know how to dance?

Me: (not knowing that she meant freaking) Sure!

Then she just stuck her *ss into my croth and started grindin away. At first I was thinking 'WTF???' but then I figured it out. After that, I just wasn't afraid of the dance floor anymore

The basic idea is that you have your hands on her hips, she sticks her thang in front of if not into your groin and starts moving it side to seat to the beat, and you do too. Then you can do pretty much whatever you want. You can just go down and back up, spin around, whatever. Just watch people at dances for ideas.

Front to front freaking is when you ben your knees forward and the girl straddles one of them, putting one of her legs between yours as well, then you're back to swaying side to side to the beat. Once again it's freeform from there. If you do it right you can actually give her an orgasm on the floor if you use the leg she's straddling in a certain way.

Does that make sense? I can give tips for dancing solo and slow dancing if they're needed, just ask.
 
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Lol, the orgasm on the dance floor due to your leg is golden! OH, and WUWD...go to a dance man...
 

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ah! so thats freaking! lol, a month ago at a party a girl did that front thing and I was just like "wtf??" I was quite drunk and very confused at that point. I think I passed out ona sofa after that... still! I'll kno what to do nxt time! cheers :)
 

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alright, *opens has battle chest*. this move is money.

you hold a girl by her hips. as u dance to the beat, sloooowly move down from her hips to her ankles. if she wants to, she can go down with u, and then go back up.

this move is money. got the hottest girl in HS a year older to get amazed when i pulled this at the dance.

Make sure u variate your dancing moves. Why do good dancers pick up chicks easier? becuase they look good compared to all the tree's in the club. I see too many guys standing by the wall, waiting for the girl to come up and grind, and she never comes.

When you are grinding her, make sure u turn her in the middle of a song or so, if she is facing you, put your leg inbetween hers, and she will grind it. Move your arms in the air if u want to, touch her hair, smoothly touch her ass, as if it wasnt intentional.

If u wish to go for a kiss close, look at her eyes, touch her chin and go for it.
 
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