A list posted on Facebook that made me sick

[SeymourCake]

http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/270689_404612972920840_1304268817_n.jpg

Oh wow. I can't believe how many likes this photo has (over 13k likes in 4 hours). What's even more sickening is how many guys liked it as well.

There's even a comment from a guy that says "that describes me....so where are all of you ladies ?????"

No sh!t sherlock.

 

[scholarjan]

That's the manual on how to be friend zoned by a woman.

 

[European-DJ]

Hahhahahahahahaahaaaha, Copy & paste of my ex, that is exactly the things she wanted, and what annoyed me the most was the "say sorry even though I am wrong" ... My god! Some Girls simply lack anykind of logic .. Some are seriously f*cked up.

 

[Who Dares Win]

An other easy way for women who filter men from boys.

We check their bikini pictures to filter them while they see who has a weak personality/high comfortmity and low social skills to believe that crap.

Be thankful of that sh1t cause many more guys born with a better genetic and look and than us filter themselves out through the mirage of a easy lay by "playing by the rules".

 

[Dominance]

Wow that is ****ed up. I can't believe how retarded they are to put that list out there when it is not what they respond to at all, even worse guys liking it and agreeing, or pretending to agree which is just as bad.

I hate the bull**** some girls post on facebook, some of them I have even totally unsubscribed from their updates because of it.

My ex occasionally sent me these things that were going around her work, and a few were man hating type stuff, after a couple I got sick of it and sent back a picture of a massive penis to her work email and when she rang me complaining I told her "well don't sent me manhating bull****" and she didn't after that.

 

[ken chang]

UNLIKE. Hehehe...

 

[betheman]

- Sometimes
- never
- maybe sometimes
- regularly
- when alcohol is involved
- sometimes
- sometimes
- now and again, but I cant guarantee I wont get hard
- as above
- yes but I cant guarantee I wont get hard
- if you deserve or earn it
- is that smell you?
- I get back to you in a few days about that
- Im going on holiday, see you when I get back
- there wont be any women there
- I dont think that smell is you

 

[HeadLightsOn]

Geez that is Beta-Ville right there. I mean apologize even if she is wrong? That woman needs help.

 

[SgtSplacker]

Typical female logic. Makes a list describing a clingy guy, then at the end says she doesn't want a clingy guy.

 

[pinkfl]

1. Text me goodnight/goodmorning

Jesus Christ checking in with someone constantly is annoying. Yes, I want the guy to care about talking to me but constantly keeping track of my whereabouts isn't fun.

2. Will apologize after a fight, even if I'm wrong

How about just plain communication? How about BOTH parties are willing to admit that they might be wrong? The only reason a guy should apologize after a fight is if he started name calling or throwing things.

3. Will kiss me, not make out

Great, so no chemistry. Awesome.

4. Will make me laugh

Nothing wrong with this one really. Who doesn't like to be in pleasant company? However you need to be pleasant company yourself.

5. Will take silly/cute pictures with me

Depends on why. Is it because you want to post them on Facebook and then dramatically take them down when you break up? Or is it because you are doing something fun/cool and want to remember that time in your life?

6. Will start the conversation

HELLO YOU ARE WOMEN. ALL YOU DO IS TALK.

7. Will notice when I'm upset

Sure, as long as you don't say "I'm Fine" when you are clearly not. A simple "Hey I'm upset" works better.

8. Likes long hugs

Hugs are great. However when I get out of the gym the last thing I need or want is a guy hugging me for 5 minutes when I'm overheated. Time and a place.

9. Likes to cuddle

Sure. I'll give them this one.

10. Hugs me from behind

This is getting ridiculous...

11. Respects me

Act like you deserve respect then. If you settle for scraps you're going to be treated like it. Dress with class and dignity, carry yourself the same way. Then you'll attract the right kind of people.

12. Won't flirt with other girls

Sure...as long as you don't flirt with other guys to mess with him...

13. Won't rush things

Rush WHAT exactly? If you are in a relationship and you're both happy, take it at that pace. If he's rushing to something you don't want, next him. Don't be so desperate for the least bit of attention.

14. Won't get clingy

Define clingy. Because frankly, you don't seem to know the definition...

15. Won't lie to you

Wear those white jeans again, I dare you.

16. Gives me compliments

How about not needing them? Love yourself.


Yeah that list is childish and stupid.

 

[ArcBound]

http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/270689_404612972920840_1304268817_n.jpg

Oh wow. I can't believe how many likes this photo has (over 13k likes in 4 hours). What's even more sickening is how many guys liked it as well.

There's even a comment from a guy that says "that describes me....so where are all of you ladies ?????"

No sh!t sherlock.

This is called the global sh!t test. And it is also how feminism sh!t tests work. If you agree with her premise, she already knows to weed you out of her dating pool cause you are not a man.

If you disagree with her like the guy in your example. then she weeds you out cause you are a crybaby who probably doesn't get any women.

You win the game by not playing the game. Sure you can enter her frame and wrest control from her, but that's so fvckin hard. An uphill battle, her whiteknight and feministic friends will also be there to defend her point of view even if she doesn't completely believe it. You make your own frame and invite her into it. Never enter a woman's frame at a disadvantage and that's what all these "where are all the good men" facebook posts do.

In a post where she has a list of demands out of a boyfriend, anything you have to say on the matter YOU ARE AUTOMATICALLY QUALIFYING YOURSELF TO HER AND COMPARING YOURSELF TO A LIST SHE MADE UP. You comment on that type of post and she's already won the frame (in 99% cases) no matter what you've said.

 

[betheman]

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2. Will apologize after a fight, even if I'm wrong

How about just plain communication? How about BOTH parties are willing to admit that they might be wrong? The only reason a guy should apologize after a fight is if he started name calling or throwing things.

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as a female you seem to still struggle with this, its about admitting YOU are wrong, not talking it through, working it out, you f cuck up, YOU apologise. most guys apologise even though they aren’t in the wrong sometimes, crazy as that sounds. There is a psychopathic type flaw in most women whereby they simply cannot admit a fault without attaching some condition or excuse

 

[Iceberg]

This is called the global sh!t test. And it is also how feminism sh!t tests work. If you agree with her premise, she already knows to weed you out of her dating pool cause you are not a man.

If you disagree with her like the guy in your example. then she weeds you out cause you are a crybaby who probably doesn't get any women.

You win the game by not playing the game. Sure you can enter her frame and wrest control from her, but that's so fvckin hard. An uphill battle, her whiteknight and feministic friends will also be there to defend her point of view even if she doesn't completely believe it. You make your own frame and invite her into it. Never enter a woman's frame at a disadvantage and that's what all these "where are all the good men" facebook posts do.

In a post where she has a list of demands out of a boyfriend, anything you have to say on the matter YOU ARE AUTOMATICALLY QUALIFYING YOURSELF TO HER AND COMPARING YOURSELF TO A LIST SHE MADE UP. You comment on that type of post and she's already won the frame (in 99% cases) no matter what you've said.

My friend, you are one wise 21 year old.

 

[pinkfl]

as a female you seem to still struggle with this, its about admitting YOU are wrong, not talking it through, working it out, you f cuck up, YOU apologise. most guys apologise even though they aren’t in the wrong sometimes, crazy as that sounds. There is a psychopathic type flaw in most women whereby they simply cannot admit a fault without attaching some condition or excuse

I'm usually able to admit when I'm wrong. It might not happen when I'm upset or in the moment, but I can admit when I've screwed up. It's called being an adult and taking responsibility for your actions. That's not a gender thing, that's a maturity issue.

 

[NobodyCares1]

well I just saw a picture with a text on facebook

it said:
A real boyfriend:
calls you for nothing, texts you
all the time, wants to see you,
cires, gets jelaous, is overprotective
and loves you

and another one:

If you appriciate her,
love and respect her.
I can guarentee you wont lose her.

Unless she decides that she wants someone
to treat her like **** instead. But
no woman would want that.

*puke*

 

[Who Dares Win]

This is called the global sh!t test. And it is also how feminism sh!t tests work. If you agree with her premise, she already knows to weed you out of her dating pool cause you are not a man.

If you disagree with her like the guy in your example. then she weeds you out cause you are a crybaby who probably doesn't get any women.

You win the game by not playing the game. Sure you can enter her frame and wrest control from her, but that's so fvckin hard. An uphill battle, her whiteknight and feministic friends will also be there to defend her point of view even if she doesn't completely believe it. You make your own frame and invite her into it. Never enter a woman's frame at a disadvantage and that's what all these "where are all the good men" facebook posts do.

In a post where she has a list of demands out of a boyfriend, anything you have to say on the matter YOU ARE AUTOMATICALLY QUALIFYING YOURSELF TO HER AND COMPARING YOURSELF TO A LIST SHE MADE UP. You comment on that type of post and she's already won the frame (in 99% cases) no matter what you've said.

Thats an important lesson that applies in this case and many more related to women or simply to dealing with people in general.

The simple fact of trying to give the right answer in many cases automatically leads you to a losing ground the same moment you buy a frame in where you cannot win.

Just imagine a talk show which starts with "women are mistreated at home", there is simply no way to deal with such topic for the simple fact that the frame of that topic puts you either on the defensive side or force to find possible explanations which lead to be either insulted or shamed.

Sometime the only thing to do is reject the frame and create an other one.

Guys, pretend you don't understand or that you have to go or that some necessary topic have to be engaged anytime you realize that you're going to be sucked up in a frame that is a deep hole for you.

Anyway rep to this guys which indeed is very wise for being a 21.

 

[floydb25]

Classic example of why you shouldnt listen to what they say they want. Thats what they dont have, because they dont respond to it. Not, it isnt available, because it is - everywhere, all the time.

And then you also have exhibit B: the DATELESS, SINGLE nice guys yelling, "HERE I AM!" from the sidelines. "WHERE ARE YOU, LADIES?" ----- Avoiding you, of course! Theyre the same ones who do it in your area, too. These girls arent different or special - they ALL say this. The ones who dont are actually with nice guys already. Just like those who complain about jerks and losers - thats what they respond to, and seek after. Otherwise, there wouldnt be *****ing about them ALL OF THE TIME.

This is so common; I'm sure a bunch of us did it before, and got jack **** of anything - other than used and played.

I think guys assume them to be honest and straightforward, and jump right in with the perfect SO mess, like a bunch of dumbasses. Gotta read between the lines. "Everyone I date is an *******" = "I'm attracted only to *******s." Pretty simple. No big complex issue. Words dont match actions. Thats all.

Follow zine actions, and make sure they actually MATCH their words - instead of wasting all your energy trying to decipher, and make sense of everything. THERE IS NO CONNECTION. Thats why youre confused. Words mean nothing. Nothing to analyze. The end.